24 May 2014 · 9 min
In this motivational podcast, Brendon Burchard identifies three primary obstacles that keep people from realizing their potential: doubt, delay, and division. He explains how doubt—stemming from fear of failure or external criticism—paralyzes action, but can be countered by cultivating faith, taking deliberate steps, and entering a competence‑confidence loop where practice builds skill, which builds confidence. Delay, often linked to doubt, is described as the habit of postponing goals in favor of distractions or competing priorities; Burchard urges immediate, purposeful action to break this cycle. Division refers to the feeling of separation from others, which leads to judgment, isolation, and a loss of connection to humanity and a higher purpose. He advocates replacing division with love, kindness, and authentic relationships, emphasizing that connection restores personal and spiritual alignment. Throughout, Burchard stresses the importance of awareness—recognizing these three enemies—as the first step toward overcoming them, and he calls listeners to act now, replace doubt with faith, delay with action, and division with love.
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Welcome to the charged light. This is brandon burchard. I believe we have three great enemies that prevent us from advancing in our lives, from actualizing our potential, from living our dreams. And the first enemy we all have is doubt. You know, we doubt whether or not we're capable. We doubt whether or not we're worthy. We doubt whether or not we'll succeed. We doubt whether or not we even deserve it. And it's so unfortunate because I think doubt is one of the greatest enemies of our lives. And it's so easy to overcome, but most people won't practice the discipline of overcoming it, which is weird, right? They say, oh, I'm so doubtful. And they stop. And it's like, if you have any negative recurring emotion in your life, doesn't maturity require you to face it and say, hey, how do I fix this? You know, if you're always doubtful, you can't just wander around saying, oh, I'm so doubtful, like some kind of victim. That's not fair to the humanity you've been given that. That real power of free will that says, hey, you can direct your consciousness. That's why you have this big prefrontal cortex. Other animals can't. We can so handle it. If you've been plagued with doubt your whole life, then face it. Stop running from it. I know that sounds hard to say to people, but I was. I had the same story. I. I was so doubtful that people would care about what I say. I was so doubtful that people would want to read my books or listen to me at all. I was so doubtful that I could chase my own dreams. And I realized, for what reason am I doubtful? Because of past failures in this space? No. I'm trying something new because people told me I might not be able to do it. So what makes them an expert on my capabilities and my potentialities? I thought, well, why am I so doubtful? We're doubtful because the germ of fear spread in our body because somebody planted it there one time. Or we cultivate it with our own thoughts. And at some point, maturity and consciousness says, if doubt has been plaguing you, let's have a look at it and let's realize, well, how do you banish it? Well, every single thing that we know from spirituality, from philosophy, from the great writers, in the great texts of human culture, has all revealed one thing where there is doubt. Grant me faith. That we have to have faith. And faith does not mean the absence of doubt. Matter of fact, the very definition of faith. Realize that doubt is still there, right? You can't have faith unless there's some part of you that says, well, I'm going to go anyway, despite the doubt. So I'm not saying we have to get rid of doubt forever and handle it. I'm saying doubt should never prevent you from advancing. When you feel like advancing that in your own mind, you must say, okay, I must trust in my abilities. I must trust that I will figure it out. I must trust that I can build it. I must trust that I can get some help and progress, even though the doubt might be there. Look, the hero is a hero because the hero does it anyway, right? Even though the hero is terrified and risking it all goes anyway. And we're all heroes in some way. We. We can all be courageous. But I also think, you know what? Society overblows courage. Society says, you know, courage has to be some big magnificent act, but it's not. I mean, courage in this world anymore is just having the belief in yourself and having the ability to genuinely express who you are. If you're doubting yourself, the only way through is to give yourself more faith and take more action. And with more faith and more action comes more competence. With more competence comes more confidence. In psychology, they call it the competence, confidence loop. Right? The more you learn and try, the more you master and develop. So go out there even with that. Yes, let the doubt be there, but do it anyway. I think the second great enemy we all have is delay. And I think delay is one of our great challenges. And delay doesn't just come from doubt, though. They're very related. And if I'm doubtful, I'm more likely to delay. But a lot of people delay just because, frankly, they have something in themselves that either they have a competing priority or they're lazy or they're uninformed. And that's hard to say. I get it. But it is true that there's a part of us that, you know, we don't go and do our own desires not because we're not smart. It's because Seinfeld is on or, you know, some new show is on that we want to watch. So we watch that show. And that's indolence. That's not ignorance. It's just sitting around. And so often we delay. Well, I'll get to that tomorrow. No, you probably won't. You're not going to get your dreams in 50 years. Most people awake with a dream in their mind, but they let that dream die in the daylight. You know, they have the dream at night, it dies in the day because they take no action towards it because they're fooling themselves. Maybe someday I'll get to that. But, you know, no one wants to be that person who ends up at the end of their life regretful because they never began what they wanted to. So what are you waiting for right now? What have you been delaying for way too long that you know you need to get to? Maybe today's the day to put your feet on the ground, say, I'm gonna begin this. Because you know what? The only way through delay is also action. So what's the third one? I think the third one is division. And what I mean by division is we feel divided. We feel different from other people. We feel like there's this great divide between us. There's this chasm between us and other human beings. And you can recognize this person all the time who's really having challenges in their life, who really is struggling from division. Because they say the same thing. They always say, oh, well, they can't understand me. Or they spew hate. And their hate or their belief that other people can't understand them accomplishes the same thing. It protects them and keeps them from connecting with other people. And because those elements of ourselves and our beliefs about other people divide us from humanity, divide us from others, guess what we do. We don't ask for help. We think, well, they can't understand me. I'm not going to ask for help. Guess what we do? We judge other people. We become critical of other people. We push away other people. We stop being kind and respectful to other people. And so that division, that part of us that believes that we are separate from others, that forgets about the reality that humanity is really united by a common energy, by a common force, by at least a common purpose to thrive and survive. That if we forget those things, then life loses its color. That when we are no longer connected to other human beings, we can no longer be connected to ourselves. We can no longer be connected to God, to the Creator, to the cosmos, whatever you want to call it, the vision. And that sense within us that we are separate is what prevents us from getting ahead. So what can we do? All that we can do. Again, action. The only way to get over that divisiveness between us and another person is to go be kind, to go say something to explicit, to ask, to put ourselves into play with other human beings again. In ways that we build magnificent relationships, that we build real connections that are meaningful and deep again. Look, all these things, doubt and delay and division, all these things can be overcome. We just have to learn to recognize them. The first step is always awareness. So what have you been doubting in your life that's preventing you from moving ahead? What have you been delaying in your life that's preventing you from moving ahead? How have you been perceiving other people that have been preventing you from developing relationships and moving ahead? When you start to see these things, you can break through, but it's only with that deep desire within yourself to have faith, to take action, to become your highest self, to overcome the very things that are limiting you. That's what makes us great. That's the great shine of becoming a mature, conscious human being. So I say, why not make this day the day that we redesign our lives so that doubt, delay and division are handled by faith, action and love. Hey everyone, it's Brendan. Did you like this episode? Be sure to subscribe to the next one and tell a friend about us. If you want free books and world class traffic training on motivation and high performance, visit me@Brendon Burchard.com and enter your name and email for our newsletter list. Until next time, stay charged and go out there every day of your life and live fully, love openly and make your difference. Today.