Only Two Things Change Your Life
1 Jul 2020 · 10 min
Brendon Burchard says only two things change your life: external circumstances arriving, or internal change you create. He argues the second is far more powerful. Take command of your finances, routines, and digital habits. Cultivate discipline, confidence, and strength. The resources you need already exist inside you.
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Hey, my friends, it's Brendon Burchard and welcome to the Brendan Show. This is a podcast about helping you reach high performance in your life, in every area of your life. It's about staying more motivated, more confident, more disciplined and on purpose. You know, the high performance experience is really about feeling more vibrant, more connected, more excellent, more fulfilled in your life. But it's also challenging you because you and I both know it's difficult to reach those levels of high performance without support, without ongoing commitment and dedication to your own personal development. So welcome to our HPX community. Thank you for joining us here on the Brendon Show. I'm super pumped for today's episode. Before we begin, I want to let you know that we have specials right now on our HPX nutrition line. If you didn't know it, I rolled out three specific products to help you with your performance. These are three specific supplements that will really give you the edge. Now, don't worry, I'm not starting an MLM or a downline. I'm not asking you to promote any of my products. And frankly, just like you, there's a lot of different companies and a lot of different products that I love and I enjoy and I'm not trying to compete with. It was specifically, I could not find three world class supplements that specifically helped me in these areas. So we've got HPX Optimize, which is a mental focus and energy product for your brain health. Then we've got Essentials, which is a functional multivitamin which we've basically enhanced for longevity, for joint health and for vitality and digestion. But what we did, instead of like making a multivitamin where they sprinkled a million different things in there that actually have no effect, we put in dosages here that you'll be amazed by. And then finally we've got HPX Organic Boost, which is the energy drink mix that I take because it's 100% organic. Organic. It's actually delicious too, I have to tell you that. So go check it out. Hpxwellness.com, everything you need to know is right there. And if you've ever wanted to know how to reach the high performance experience in terms of your biology and physiology, these products can really support you. Go to hpxwellness.com and without further ado, onto today's episode.
Only two things change your life. I'm gonna come back to this one. A lot, a whole lot. Only two things change your life. Either something new comes into your life. New friend New opportunity, new deal. You go to a new city, get a new certification, do new things for your health. Something new comes in and it shifts you. It turns the tide for you. New mentor, new leader, new coach, new role model, new daily experience. Whatever it is that's new that shifts the tide for people, but the thing that counts and is most, because new can be luck, right? And I'll say, hey, I love luck. I love grace. I just don't count on it when it comes. Thank you on high, but I'm going to work every day. And so why do I say that? Because the greatest changes come from within. Taking back command of your life. And everybody to a T in this room needs to take back command of your life, whether that means taking back command of your finances and being honest with them, whether that means taking back control of your daily experience, whether that means taking back control of your life from your phone or from Netflix or from any other distraction that's stealing your life. That's vital, that's so important. So from within, what's going to flower within for you here? What would you love to blossom inside, to grow up, to feel, to sense, to create? Because that's going to be your choice, not something I'm going to do to you. Something within has to change. You've got to access the next level of beauty, babe. You've got to access the next level of strength. You got to access the next level of discipline or confidence. You've got to find that next level of spirit, of vibrancy, connection, meaning whatever it is for you, you've got to go within and access to or unleash or open up or flourish or flow in whatever metaphor you want. The greatest things that will shift your life, they're already there. So I take comfort in that. The greatest things you already want are already there. And people don't understand the power of that. They're already there. You want another level of wealth, we think it's out there. It's already there. Change that. I'll start the dream when. No, no, no. I'll start the dream within. It's either I'll start the dream when something new comes in. I get the investor, the thing happens, right? I'll start the dream when? For people, when is usually someday completely undefined. Or it's. I'm. I'm going to start the dream within. I'm going to unlock it inside. Now, some of you haven't even unlocked happiness yet inside, and you think the.
Happiness will come from something else.
It's already in there. You know, so many great teachers have already taught happiness is so much of a choice, and it's inside, not outside.
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If you think of something you major and need to change, for some of you, your spouse, and you think, oh, when she changes, I will be a good man.
No.
That's just not how it goes, right, ladies? That's just not how it goes. And I don't mean to play that, but guys, who else has found that to be true, right? It's like, oh, no, we had to. We gotta shift things as gentlemen inside. You want more intimacy. That's not about her yet. That's about you, gentlemen. That is about you shifting how you interact with your lady, your love, your spouse, your partner. No matter what gender it is, when we want more love, we tend to complain to get it. And last time I checked, complaint wasn't super sexy. I've never seen a book cover complaining is sexy. No, no, no, no, no. You want more from your partner, your spouse, your love. You gotta open, you gotta unlock. You gotta tap someone within that attracts them, that makes them say, who are you? And when they first go, who are you? You keep showing up every day. Because you know what? Nothing gets believers like consistency. So when you show up, open, flowing, ready, accessing something within that is beautiful, that is divine, that is powerful, that is strong trust that you do that time and time and time again. The change, it's a coming. Something's going to shift something within. I really want you to hear this. It's something within. If you want to be happier, it's going to be an inside game you're going to handle. Whether that's here in these three days together or it's later, it's there for you. And I am here to tell you, whatever you want in your whole life, it's already there for you.
It's like the seed.
Even if you're like, well, Brennan, it's not completely manifested. I'm like, no, but the fact that you want it means that seed has already been placed inside that desire. I personally believe that our desires and the things we really want in life, those were gifts that were given to us, right? I think that for me personally, since I'm a person of faith, I believe that God has kind of sowed a seed of a dream in your heart. And you might not know that seed is there, but then one day you kind of, oh, my gosh, this thing.
And you get excited about it and.
You feel that impulse. You're like, this is my thing. I'm like, oh, that was a seed sown in your heart. And maybe your creator is saying, oh, water that dream. Let that dream flourish. Make that dream come true. You were given that as a gift, as a challenge to activate your potential, maybe for some of you, as a purpose. But I think if within you have an impulse to do something extraordinary with your life or for your family, I'm like, hound that down, follow that, manifest that, access that something within you is stirring. It is a restlessness, some people call it, some people call it frustration, some people call it anger, some people. But it is a desire for something better. And that desire for something better, you got to access it within first. You've got to let something inside break free or unlock or expand or flourish at the next level for you to have next level success. Who hears what I'm talking about at hpx, ladies and gentlemen?
All right. Hey, it's Brendan. I hope you enjoyed that episode and I hope it helped you, you reach another level of high performance in your life, whether it's just a shift in your mindset or shift in your habits or a shift in your intention for the day. I really honor you for listening to the Brendon show and I'm deeply thankful. So could you do me a favor? Could you just go onto itunes or Apple Podcasts and rate and review this episode or any of our episodes? And also while you're there to help me, just download the last five episodes too, onto your phone because, you know, Apple really cares about the downloads and the rating and reviews, and I've never really asked for that in six years of podcasting. And finally my friends convinced me to ask you to do that for me. I've never asked anything with my podcast community ever, but I really, really appreciate if you could do that. Also, if you would like some more in depth training, please don't forget that every single month I go live for two hours and teach new and original personal development research, new frameworks to my entire virtual community in our HPX coaching program. And you can just go to hpxcoaching.com that's hpxcoaching.com to learn all about the different options there. But listen, I'm live two hours every single month with literally thousands of high achievers from around the world who tune in to get these new frameworks from for reaching high performance in their life. Sometimes we talk about relationships, sometimes we talk about breaking bad habits. Sometimes we talk about achieving another level of confidence or discipline or goal attainment. But we are there every single month. And I'd love for you to join us. Just go to hpxcoaching.com to see all of your options and really join us. Dedicate yourself to personal mastery. Dedicate yourself to this journey. Not just once in a while with an episode here or there or a book there, but literally a program that could change your Life. It's called HPX Coaching and you can go to hpxcoaching.com until next time, my friends, please remember every single day you can choose to be average or ordinary or just kind of go through the motions. Or you can be more intentional, more disciplined, more excellence driven what you do because you know you need to serve those you love and those that you lead. You can choose to be extraordinary. So my friends, go out there today and be extraordinary.