This is a YouTube video titled "The easiest way to build a relationship with someone #shorts" containing a monologue by Brian Moncada recorded on March 29, 2023. In this short video, Brian shares personal insights on building relationships by memorizing and using people's names, illustrating the impact of this simple gesture through a story at his gym.
How to win friends and influence people. That book taught me a few things. Number one, the sweetest thing you can ever say to somebody else is someone's name is their name. One thing I started doing was memorizing people's names in the common areas that I would go. So the gym would be one of them. The front door guy, his name was Cam. I just would read his name tag and I'm like, yo, what's up, Cameron? He didn't know my name. He was like, oh, what's up, dude? I immediately knew he felt bad he didn't know my name. He looked down like trying to nonchalantly looking at my name and he goes, have a good one, Brian. And I was like, yeah. And then the next day I come in, yo, what's up, Cameron? Brian, what's up, dude? And like I would have conversations with him. Point being, memorize people's names. They're going to obviously take notice of you and try to memorize your name from there on point.