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How do you deal with a full on tantrum?

Name: How do you deal with a full on tantrum?
Uploaded: 2024-01-07T16:00:05+00:00
Duration: 4 s
Channel: Camilla McGill
Description: In this brief parenting segment, two speakers discuss effective ways to respond when a child throws a full‑blown tantrum, such as demanding ice cream at…

7 Jan 2024 · 0 min

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In this brief parenting segment, two speakers discuss effective ways to respond when a child throws a full‑blown tantrum, such as demanding ice cream at bedtime. They first warn against common counterproductive reactions—getting angry, scolding, or trying to reason with the child. Instead, they recommend three supportive steps: (1) get down to the child’s level, (2) pause, breathe, and wait, and (3) show empathy by naming the child’s feelings and reaffirming love. The speakers emphasize that during a tantrum a child may feel unlovable, so expressing unconditional love is crucial. The segment ends by directing viewers to a booklet for more detailed information.

If your child's having a full-blown, full-out tantrum—
'I want an ice cream right now!'—
what do you do? So, one thing not to do: don't get cross with them— 'Now stop it! This is ridiculous!'— or try to reason with them— 'You simply can't have an ice cream, it's bedtime!' Three things you can do: get down beside your child, Wait and just breathe. You can show some empathy. Oh, you feel so frustrated because you really want an ice cream right now? Or tell them, I really love you. You know, I really love you. Because at the moment a child's having a tantrum, they feel totally unlovable. Look below and get some more information and a great booklet.