Help your toddler adjust to a new sibling by giving them a specific job caring for the baby, carving out one-on-one time even if it's brief, and telling them you enjoy it. Savor the early days yourself.
Adapting to a new baby. Number 1: Give your toddler a role. Give them something that they can do that's their job to help with the baby. Number 2: Have some alone time with them, even if it's a really snatched moment, and make sure you tell them how much you like having time alone. Number 3: Enjoy it when you can. The baby is little for so long, and actually there are some really special moments, so just enjoy them.
