Christine J GoldOwner, Soul Healers Sanctuary · ADHD Burnout Recovery Coach

Unlocking Love: Debunking the Myth of It Just Happening | NicoleTalksLove

21 Aug 2023 · 1 min

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Yeah. Or I also have a lot of women that have the belief like, well, I thought it would just happen by now. Like, I thought it would just happen by now. So whether it's their first relationship that they're looking for to have a committed partnership to have children with, or they're looking for their second partnership to retire with, sometimes as women we just assume it should just happen. And we have that belief too, because everybody says you'll find it when you're not looking. It'll show up when you're not looking. It'll happen when you're not looking. And I really have a hard time with that. I actually think that's inaccurate because we then put on this barrier— I don't know, I keep saying that word— but this block that we don't have to do anything to create love or to bring that in. And yet I believe that's not true. I really feel that we have to create this openness and this receptivity and this desire to draw in what we want. And like you mentioned a moment ago, it's like noticing what are we doing that's causing that block at that unconscious level? What are we deflecting from? And then also