In this 45‑minute promotional video, psychic medium Christine J. Gold explains why people who identify as empaths often endure a tougher childhood. She begins by listing hallmark empath traits—hyper‑sensitivity to emotions, crowds, noises, smells, and a strong need for solitude—framing these as signs that the viewer may be an empath. Gold then attributes these patterns to intergenerational trauma and what she calls “preconceived energy,” an imprint that exists before birth. She contrasts empaths with narcissists, describing a family dynamic where one child becomes a narcissist by dissociating from overwhelming tension, while the other becomes an empath by over‑tuning to the environment as a survival strategy. The core of the video is an invitation to a free 45‑minute workshop titled “Empath vs. Narcissist: How to Heal the Power Struggle Forever.” In the workshop she promises to teach practical tools such as boundary setting, candle framing, meditation, cord‑breaking, individuation, and recognizing the DARVO pattern used by narcissists. Gold positions these techniques as ways to break generational cycles, become a “chain breaker,” and create a healthier legacy for future generations. Throughout, she emphasizes empowerment, self‑compassion, and the possibility of moving beyond codependency, perfectionism, and self‑sabotage.
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You're definitely an empath if you were labeled too sensitive, just too much, too touchy-feely, too emotional. If a friend is distraught, you feel it. Your feelings are easily hurt, emotionally drained by crowds, and you crave and need alone time. Oh yes. Do your nerves get jarred by noises or smells or excessive talk? Do you prefer to take your own car to places or just go on your own? As Fleetwood Mac would say, "Go your own way." Do you overeat or overdrink because of emotional issues? Are you afraid of being engulfed by relationships? Mm-hmm. So, you know, 1 to 3, you're saying yes, you're partly. 3 or more, you definitely are. And there's nothing wrong with you, by the way. In my new workshop, I'm going to teach you how to let go of old patterns so you can finally shift into a new reality. And really, empaths are people pleasers, perfectionists. They feel unworthy, and we tend to abandon ourselves so we can give value to others. And really it's all about intergenerational trauma. And even I will take it a step further as preconceived energy, an imprint before you were even born, even before you were in your mother's womb. And the key is to bring your energy back and stop tuning into the environment. And I'll teach you a little framing and a candle technique, a meditation, as you will. And you're gonna learn how to individuate and know the difference between yourself and others. So, hey, comment below if you're a people pleaser, you're codependent, you're a perfectionist, you're a self-sabotager, you're your own worst critic. You'll learn how to be the most magnetic version of yourself. So I guess my question is, why do— why did you become an empath? So let's say you're in a dual, like a sibling family, one or more siblings. Why did you— or maybe you're the narcissist— why did they become an empath and you became a narcissist? How does that happen? So just imagine one child trying to get their needs met, and then there's strife and trauma and neglect and addictions in the family, abuse. That one child disassociates. They turn the ability to, to feel the tension. It's just too much. Narcissist. The other child turns up like, "Oh, I need to fix this. This is my problem." They tune into the environment so they know how to be, you know, in order to survive. It's a survival technique. You don't need to survive anymore. So my 45-minute workshop is completely free, Empath vs. Narcissist: How to Heal the Power Struggle Forever. And if you don't know who I am, I'm Christine J Gold. I am a psychic medium and I woke up in 2017 through multiple dark nights of the soul. And really, I was the empath and I was attracting all these narcissistic type relationships. And family, by the way, is the biggest offender. Okay, so I'm going to teach you boundaries. I'm going to teach you how to tap into your empowered self. I'm going to teach you how to break those cords. I'm going to teach you how to go back 7 years, because they do say, especially in the indigenous realm, 7 years, where that's about 150 years worth of generational crap. And you are going to be The Chain Breaker. You are going to create a legacy for yourself, not only for yourself but for future generations, because this is not just about you, it is about whoever is in your collective atmosphere. So I can't wait for you to join me. These are things that I've learned in the last almost 8 years, and Comment below if you would like the link to this. I'm going to run this every month until there are so many empowered empaths who are now not identifying and being drawn, you know, drawn into any type of toxic relationships and turning and tuning into others. Um, and that is why— and, and here's the biggest one, and I really should have started the video with this— empaths are stuck in childhood. And here's the connection and the cure to a narcissist and an energy vampire, right? Because there's two choices that are made. I'll teach you the DARVO, which is the narc attack, something that you can recognize and break and heal, and then you'll no longer attract that type of energy and relationships in your life. I look forward to seeing you soon.