What if I've been dating someone and I've asked God over and over if this is the one, but I hear nothing? What do I do? What am I looking for?

CHChrystal HurstFounder/CEO at The Sister Circle

Is he "the ONE"?

16 Feb 2018 · 1 min

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Chrystal Hurst tells a viewer named Faye that if God stays silent about whether her boyfriend is the one, she should pause the relationship. Trust in Jesus matters more than marriage, and any partner who isn't a clear yes should be treated as a no.

Questions this video answers

If God is saying nothing, you should do nothing. Trust Jesus as your Savior first; marriage is secondary. Seek wise counsel from family and friends, and treat a partner without a definite divine yes as a provisional no for now.

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Hi there! I told you you could ask me anything, and you have indeed asked me some questions. Faye wants to know, "What if I've been dating someone and I've asked God over and over if this is the one, but I hear nothing? What do I do? What am I looking for?" Listen, if God is saying nothing, you should do nothing. Trusting Jesus Christ as your Savior is the most important decision you will ever make. Getting married is number 2. So if you hear nada, do nada. Listen, invite people into your life that can give you wise counsel, family and friends who love you, to speak into your life. But if that man is not a definite yes, he should be a definite no, at least for the time being. Listen, do you have a question? Go to chrystalevanshurst.com/askmeanything.