Claire HayekFounder, Mind. Soul. Purpose (MSP) Teambuilding · Pressure-Proof Leadership | Neuroscience-based leadership

No woman plans to be a ‘bitch'

8 Mar 2025 · 1 min

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In this impassioned YouTube monologue, speaker A argues that no woman chooses to be a “bitch”; rather, systemic societal oppression, misogyny, and neglect force women into anger and resistance. The speaker demands equity, safety, and fair pay, condemning specific harms such as lead contamination in tampons and the removal of functional pockets from women’s clothing. Addressing a figure named Steve, the speaker emphasizes that women are sacred and magical, and that violence and hostility toward women stem from a desire to control them. The piece repeatedly underscores that the label “bitch” is a product of patriarchal oppression, not a voluntary identity.

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No woman wants to be a bitch at first. No woman wants to be a bitch. Women become bitches because of systemic societal oppression, bullshit, and you not listening to me, Steve! But no woman wants to be a bitch. What we wanted was equity. What we wanted was safety. What we wanted was fair pay. And instead, they put lead in our tampons and they took our pockets! We wanted to be heard. You made us this way. No woman wants to be a bitch. No woman wakes up and sets her morning intention to bitch. No girl when she's little is like, when I grow up, I'm gonna be a bitch. No woman wants to be a bitch. Never forget, women are special. We are sacred. There is something so magical about us, and that is why people get violent and mean and horrific when they cannot own a woman.