11 MASCULINE TRAITS GIRLS ACHE FOR! 😍 (Make her head spin FAST~)

Let's talk about 11 masculine traits girls ache for. Like, this is how to make her head spin fast. Feminine energy craves masculine energy. As a matter of fact, the more masculine you are, the more she can't resist you. So what does it actually mean to be masculine? Just so you know, it does not mean to be super aggressive or to act like a caveman. Far too many people aren't taught the accurate definition of being masculine. Masculine. So as a female coach, I'm going to deep dive with you right now and share some of those masculine traits that make a woman just long to be with you. These are the masculine traits that matter most to women. So, wanna know what they are? Make sure you stay with me till the end of this video because I actually have a bonus at the end that you're not going to want to miss either. So stay with me. Let's get started with the first masculine trait that women just Ache for and can't resist. This is one of my personal favorites, although they're really all my favorite. The first one is being protective and being sheltering. This is not to be confused with being controlling or manipulative. Instead, it just means that you're there for her and you look out for her. That right there makes her feel special to you, it makes her feel treasured, and it helps her feel very, very safe with you. She wants that strong man to help her feel feel protected. It can mean, you know, being willing to take a punch for her or throw a punch for her. But it can also be something that we would— we're more likely to experience in any given day. Like, for instance, just even placing your hand on her back and guiding her through a busy room. Or if there's something that you're not quite sure if it's safe or not, maybe you go first, or you offer to do something that could be a little bit dangerous. Something like that. Those little things are just ways to show her that that she matters to you, and it makes her feel like you're this knight in shining armor. The second masculine trait is leadership, being willing to lead out. There are a lot of people who talk about dominance and how dominance is attractive to women. You have to be really careful. I actually hate that word simply because— I'm not saying there's not some truth to it, but most people see dominance in a very aggressive, negative light. I prefer the word leadership. Here's a good example for you. Let's pretend you want to take her to a restaurant. If you were being super dominant and controlling, you'd be like, "Hey, I'm taking you to this restaurant. We're going here." Now, yes, occasionally there's a time when you really want to treat her to a special restaurant, or you really want to go to a special restaurant, or something like that. But if the whole relationship is like that, she's better off single than having her life micromanaged by somebody else. That just makes sense, right? So rather than being super aggressive and controlling that way, if you're a leader, You would do something as simple as, "Hey, I'd love to take you to dinner. Where would you like to go? Where should we go together?" You are leading out and causing it to happen, but you're also letting her be part of the relationship as well. It's so much more fulfilling for everyone. When a man leads out in a relationship or in life or in the conversation or whatever it is, it is a very, very masculine attractive trait. And P.S., before we get to the next secret, if you haven't yet, subscribe and ring that notification bell. My name is Melannie. I'm a Christian dating coach for men and creator of Attracting Lasting Love Academy. If you, my friend, are looking for a loving, tender, very close relationship, if you are aching to hold that feminine woman and to finally be done with all the ups and downs of dating and just have that forever girl, if that's for you, then you're in the right place. So subscribe and ring that bell. Okay, the third masculine trait is a man who is independent rather than needy. When you are independent, you can kind of rely on yourself a little bit, right? You don't have to rely solely or to an extreme amount on other people. And being needy can kill a relationship very quickly. It kills attraction very quickly. However, being someone who is independent, while yes, still needing someone else, but kind of, you're able to cope on your own as well, that's a very masculine and very attractive trait. It helps her see you as very strong. And as an interesting side note, often what makes someone feel needy is that they're just aching to have that love. You've probably felt that too before, right? Whether you feel like a needy person or not. Aching to just have somebody to come home to at night, someone to make weekend plans with, someone to share your life with. And there's nothing wrong with these desires at all. Even if you don't see yourself as a needy person, or even if you do, it can be very, very normal to wonder why you can feel like a masculine man and still be so terribly alone. What you need is the insider strategies, the roadmap, the proven path to the success in love that you deserve. This is what I help my clients with in my Academy all day long, and why they can go from feeling like they'll never have the love that they want, that it's too late for them to sending me updates about their wedding. So would you like to know more about these insider strategies that help her go from "uh, not interested" to "holy cow, I can't resist you"? Go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass and watch my free training to learn 3 of these life-changing secrets. I will put a link in the description below and a link in the pinned comment. Okay, the 4th masculine trait that is not to be missed is a man who takes responsibility. He doesn't blame everything on everyone else or even just wait around for other people to make things happen. He is proactive and takes responsibility. He takes responsibility for his life, for his possessions, for his actions. A masculine man is a strong man, and it takes strength to be responsible. But that strength is part of what really, really just makes you irresistible to a woman. And speaking of this strength, our next masculine trait is a man who has integrity. A lot of people try to make it sound like someone who has integrity, who's honest, who's loyal, who's pure, they try to— a lot of people try to make it sound like they're weak. Um, have you ever tried to be a good person? Anybody who has knows that it takes a ton of inner strength and that it's actually very, very fulfilling. So, being someone with integrity rather than the edgy bad boy— I'm not gonna get off on that rant right now. Being someone who has integrity is one of the strongest things you can do. And it's something that lets a woman know she's safe with you, that your future children will be safe, and that you are someone she can count on, you are someone she can trust. And that right there is sexy. And P.S., if you're loving this topic and would like even more, make sure you watch this video. I'll put a link in the description below. That's where I share 11 7 Things Guys Do That Melt Women's Hearts, like completely. So it's one you don't want to miss. Okay, the next masculine trait that just makes her ache to be with you is knowing what you want and going for it. Having the ambition, the drive, the confidence to actually decide what it is you want and then make a plan and act on it. This is true just in life in general, having someone who's interesting because they're involved in life. It also applies to relationships. What do you want from from a relationship? And how are you planning to achieve that, those relationship goals? This is something I cover for my clients in my Academy. That purpose, that drive, is ridiculously attractive, and it helps with that sheltering feeling as well. Okay, the next masculine trait is confidence. This video would not be complete without talking about confidence. However, there are a couple of things about confidence that many people don't know. Confidence is actually something we learn how to have. Nobody is just born with confidence. Some people are born with an inclination to it, and then they are raised learning the traits that make them confident. That's totally a thing. But at the end of the day, anyone can gain or lose confidence. Something that is nothing short of irresistible is a man who is confident in himself. He's confident in his abilities, in the relationship, in his future. The way I like to teach this in my Academy to my clients is I like to teach 2 strategies for this. One is actual confidence, like in your abilities and who you are. The second is really nurturing some self-love. Self-love and confidence are technically different things, but when you have both of them and you put them together, holy cow, you are a sexy man. And you feel amazing and strong and masculine, which is what you deserve. All right, this next masculine trait might surprise a couple of people. This trait is kindness and taking care of those around you, especially those who might be weaker than you. Sometimes we're a little afraid in society to talk about how women can be weaker than men. I'm not entirely sure why because that doesn't bother me personally. She's looking to you for that strength. And yes, it does not always mean physical strength. It can also just mean strength of character or strength of of emotional strength. And those are not— those are really attractive things. It's not a bad thing for her to need to lean on you sometimes. There's something incredibly magical about a man who looks out for other people, who is kind even if he doesn't have to be, someone who has that inner strength to look out for others. That right there is a game changer. That right there is what helps her go from "Um, yeah, he's a nice attractive guy too. I think I might want to marry this man. I want to spend my life with him." Okay, the next masculine trait is making health a priority. Taking care of yourself, being physically in good shape. Now, that does not mean you have to be a mountain of muscles. Although if that's something you enjoy, go for it! However, just being someone who tries to eat healthy, tries to exercise, tries to be a healthy person is incredibly masculine and again helps her feel sheltered and safe because she knows that you're a healthy person. It also helps you look more masculine and therefore more attractive. Quick question before we get to our next masculine trait. I haven't done too many videos on masculine traits. Is it something that maybe you'd like to see more videos on? I actually had a lot of fun putting this one together. And your feedback would really help me. Comment "masculine" if this is something you really enjoyed and would like to hear more about. And a huge, huge thank you to everyone who's so generous with the Super Thanks. It really helps me continue to create this content for you, and it really just kind of cheers me on and makes me feel super motivated. So thank you! And whether you've ever used the Super Thanks before or not, if you are enjoying this video and would like to use it now, It would mean a lot to me, so thank you. Okay, this next masculine trait is one of the fastest to start applying and has one of the biggest, most far-reaching effects. I get really excited about this one, can you tell? This secret is a man who has masculine body language. I nerd out about this so much, it's one of my favorite things to teach my clients. When you have that masculine body language, you will naturally feel more masculine, which is a pretty good feeling, and she will see you as more masculine. It's going to help you feel more confident and more attractive. It's a very, very powerful tool that every man should be using. The way you hold yourself can be very masculine without being aggressive, because aggressive body language is terrifying to women. That will chase women away very, very quickly. But when it's in instead? Confident? Shut up, boy, she's gonna think you're hot. And our next masculine trait is a man who pursues. Pursuing is a very, very masculine strong trait. And again, feminine energy can't resist masculine energy, just like a feminine woman is attractive to you. So if you really want to ignite that attraction and make her feel like she can't resist you, nor does she want to resist, then pursuing is one of the best things you can do. This helps her feel more feminine, it helps her see you as protective and strong and sheltering and driven. It's really a win-win situation no matter how you look at it. And before I get a whole bunch of comments about, "Oh, how pursuing doesn't work," yeah, pursuing doesn't work if you do it the wrong way. That's why I'm so committed to teaching you the correct way to pursue. And if you'd like to learn more about how I can help you with that, make sure you watch that free masterclass I mentioned earlier. Okay, are you ready for the bonus tip or the bonus trait? This is kind of an interesting one, kind of a fun one. Another very attractive masculine trait is a man who is passionate. Now what I mean by this is a man who is passionate about life and his interests and what he does, and also a man who can be passionate with her. That's a very attractive trait. That's something a woman wants. Now, with that being said, save it for marriage, okay? That's only something that is satisfying on the highest level when it has the highest form of commitment. Don't cheapen it. Don't cheapen yourself and don't cheapen her by sharing that too soon. Instead, that should be saved for marriage. But do know that, yes, women want that too. And it is very much something that they want. And something that is very, very attractive to her. And so having some of that masculine passion is certainly not a bad thing. Just make sure you're saving it for the right time. And in case you're wondering, "Okay, so how exactly do I get to that married stage?" Like, how do I find the kind of woman you actually want, and how do you get her to fall in love with you to the point where she wants to spend her life with you? Do you ever wonder about that? Does it ever feel like this crazy puzzle that you can't figure out? That's totally understandable, and that's what I'm here to help you with. I already have these insider secrets and I cannot wait to share them with you. So I'm gonna remind you one more time to watch that free masterclass. I'm gonna share the deets with you there, so make sure you go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass. Thank you so much for watching and joining me with this video. It was one I really enjoyed putting together. If you would like more like this, comment "masculine" to let me know. And make sure you share this with a friend. If you don't yet follow me on social media, there are links in the description below, so make sure you follow me there. Thank you so much again, my amazing friend, and have an amazing day! 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