How To Touch A Woman So She Never Forgets It! 🥰

Would you like to know how to touch a woman so she never forgets it? The kind of touch she daydreams about, that gives her butterflies, that makes her think about you and want to be with you more and more? Do you wanna know how to do that? Well, good. Touch is a magical thing, but the wrong kind of touch can seriously backfire. In this video, I'm going to be sharing specific ways and places to touch her, as well as some guidelines for success. You definitely need to know both so it does not backfire on you. Sadly, far too many people and AI channels are creating content that focuses on creating lust. That's not going to work for high-quality women. That's actually going to scare them away. So that's not what we're going to be talking about in this video. Instead, as a high-quality man, you want to create respect and admiration and trust. These are part of the foundation for a happy, healthy, lifelong relationship. So if that's what you are looking for, that wholesome approach to a lifelong love, make sure you subscribe. So as we dive into this, first, I am going to talk about kind of specific places and ways to touch her that are just gonna melt her heart. Then I'm going to share 4 guidelines for specifically how to touch her. And you need to know them so So it doesn't backfire on you. So do make sure you watch until the end of the video for that. The first way to touch her so that she will never forget it, she will daydream about it forever, is just placing your hand on the small of her back. So let's say you're already dating and physical touch and connection, that's already totally okay with both of you. If you just kind of place a gentle hand on her back, kind of like guide her through the room, or like when you're moving through a crowd, or if you just kind of want to pull Pull her closer to you. This is, like, some of the most romantic touch to a woman. It feels protective, it feels romantic, she feels even more drawn to you. It's one of those things that may sound simple, but it's really not simple to a woman. You've got her back, literally. And that helps build trust and helps her see you as that masculine man. The second way to touch a woman in a way that she will never forget is the lingering hug. Now, I do not mean that you hug her and you force her to stay there. Like, this is not— you're not taking her hostage. That will freak her out, that will creep her out, and you are out of line if you do that. What I mean by this is there's a difference between kind of just a quick hug, you know, that you do that with your friends and your mom. That's different versus just kind of relaxing and giving a warm hug. Just holding her. Let the moment linger a little bit. It's not about holding her in a hug. It's just about a warm embrace. This is especially powerful if she's reciprocating. That's your key. If she starts, you know, squirming, she's done with this hug. We're done. Okay, let go. But if instead she just kind of melts into it and she just enjoys it, that is huge. That is the kind of embrace that we all want and that she's definitely— it's going to matter to her. She's going to remember that forever. She's going to love it. So notice again, Another simple kind of touch. This is not about creating lust. This is about creating connection. Once you're married and you're both alone together in your room, yes, you can kind of create those more powerful feelings. You can and you should, and it's delightful and it's wonderful. There's nothing wrong with it. But until you're married, just focus on the little things. They're so powerful. And honestly, after you're married as well, because You know, they're an important part of the relationship as well. The next way to touch her in a way she will never forget is to take her hand, but take her hand like you really mean it. There's something very different between just kind of absentmindedly grabbing her hand versus intentionally taking her hand and letting your fingers interlock. Maybe kind of giving it just this little squeeze. You're saying that That this has meaning. It's not a casual thing. Often, the tiny gestures can be surprisingly intimate. Imagine for a moment you're in a crowded room and there's a lot going on, and you just kind of have that moment where you don't even have to say anything. But you just take her hand, you give it a little squeeze, and it says, I'm here, and I'm thinking about you, even with everything else that's going on. That's a very comforting, Connecting kind of touch. Okay, this next one is one of my personal favorites. This one is that you just kind of gently touch her face. You kind of brush a strand of her hair away or just kind of gently caress her cheek. Maybe you rest your hand against her face before a kiss. These kinds of gestures are so romantic. They're So charming and just endearing. They're in chick flicks for a reason. They're the kind of things women daydream about. And so when it happens to her, it's going to melt her. Now with this one and many of the things I'm sharing with you today, they do need to be reserved for when you're kind of in a more serious relationship because they are more intimate, they are more close, And so if you walk up to some random girl on the street, brush her hair away, and hold her cheek, she's gonna slug you in the gut. And you deserve it because you shouldn't do that to someone you're not actually close to. So I just needed to mention that. Let's carry on. Okay, this next one is another one of my favorites. Another way to touch her in a way she will never forget, a way that will just melt her, is to touch her when you're laughing together. Laughter is already a way to create connection. We feel connected with someone when we're laughing with them. Add touch into that mixture and it just became even more amazing and memorable and tender. Maybe you're laughing together and you give her a playful touch on her arm or her shoulder. This is the kind of touch that really makes you feel connected, and it also feels very natural instead of calculated. Like, you're just, you're so connected, you're enjoying it so much that you've just, you have that connection. You know what I was about to say? That this is another one of my favorites. Because it is. I think they're kind of all my favorite. This is a fun topic. But another thing, another way to touch her that will just melt her is really just that reassuring touch. There's something so That can make us feel so loved about being touched when we just need a little reassurance. If she is nervous or upset, having kind of a bad day, holding her hand gently or putting your arm around her or giving her one of those warm hugs, those are the kinds of moments that really help connect us to someone. It really helps a woman say, wow, I can trust this man. This is the kind of man who would be an exceptional husband. This kind of touch is very memorable because it just kind of lets her know, I'm here for you, and you're not alone. And I do want to mention, for those who are wondering how exactly you get to this level of connection, because again, these aren't things you're going to do with a random stranger, please remember that one of the very most important things you can do do for your love life and for happiness in your love life is to just learn how women think and what it is they want. The more educated you become on what women want and how they think, high-quality women, not toxic women, the more educated you are on that, the happier and more fulfilling your relationship can be. Something I like to teach my clients inside my Academy is that it's really hard to hit a target that you can't see, a target you don't know about. And so this definitely involves knowing what you want in a relationship, but it also needs to involve what she wants in a relationship. This is why I created my free masterclass for you, so you can stop guessing and finally just know what it is women want and how you can show her that you are the man of her dreams. Because something else I teach in my Academy, When she sees that you are the man of her dreams, she has to fall in love with you. That's just how it works. This is what makes her adore you and want to shower you with soft, tender kisses the rest of your life, to always be by your side. So go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass or check out the link in the description below. This next way to touch a woman is also incredibly powerful and very undervalued. This is the affectionate touch that's not trying to go anywhere. Men will often accidentally make women feel like every physical interaction is an attempt to escalate. And yes, there is a place for that when you're married, of course. But a woman needs to know that she's just loved for who she is. She needs to know that she can just enjoy being in your arms without any kind of expectation sometimes. And so having that gentle, affectionate touch that isn't trying to get anything else, anything bigger, that is incredibly powerful. And in fact, that will frankly make her so much more willing and excited for the rest. You know what I mean by that. So what does this look like? Well, it's affection that is just simply affectionate. So It's holding hands. It's the forehead kiss. All girls love the forehead kiss. It's just putting your arm around her. It's those little things that just make her feel incredibly cherished. And when she feels cherished by you, well, then she's going to feel safe with you. When a woman feels safe with her husband, that's what makes her want to spend more quality time in the bedroom with him. There you go. Just being real. The next way to touch her that just melts her, it's another very A very simple thing that's very powerful is when you just kind of pull her slightly closer when she's already leaning into you. Often, the best kind of touch is touch that's receptive. When she is showing you that tender affection, and then you as well, you just kind of lean into it, you pull her closer, this is that beautiful space where you're both just being genuinely affectionate with each other. It feels warm, it feels connected. Sometimes the most powerful thing, rather than calculating how you can touch her, is to just respond when she's touching you. She, you know, cuddles a little bit closer, so you wrap your arm around her just a little more securely. She reaches for your hand, and you take it and you hold it instead of just kind of not paying attention. Responding really does matter. The next kind of touch is the goodbye touch. This is holding her hand for just A second longer giving her a warm hug. It's giving her a kiss on her forehead or the cheek, depending on where you are in the relationship, how close you are. That tiny moment of being reluctant to leave is so romantic. It is so charming. And it's the kind of thing that she's going to remember. So if you're feeling that reluctance, It's okay to show it. It's really cute. Just remember that the touch that is the most memorable usually is not the most seductive one. It's the one that makes her feel safe and wanted and feminine and completely cherished. Those are the things she's going to remember. Now let's move on to some of the guidelines for this. We've kind of touched on some of them lightly as we've moved through this. But they're so important, they need their own time. So let's go over them! Number 1 is to keep your touch gentle. So if you're laughing together, you're being playful, don't, like, shove her hard. Like, it's a playful, light touch. Soft touch is tender, and it creates a bond. It creates trust. She respects a man who respects her and who is kind to her. And I bring this up just because Sometimes it can be really easy to be a little rough with her. She is a woman. She's not one of the guys. So just make sure that your touch is gentle and kind. The next thing you need to know about touching her is make sure your touch is intentional. What I mean by this is don't try to hide it. Sometimes it is so awkward when it's like, hold your hand. Okay. You know, if you're gonna take her hand, Take her hand. If you're going to put your arm around her, don't kind of wimpy put your arm— No, put your arm around her! Be intentional. This shows that you are confident, it shows you are masculine, and it's a fabulous way to pursue her. Now, of course, don't do something she's uncomfortable with. Do not force your arm around her. Instead, respect how she responds. But especially when you're at the point where you're in a relationship, don't be wimpy about holding her hand or putting your arm around her. Just do it! This leads us right into the next guideline, which is be respectful and aware of timing. This is something I teach my clients in my Academy. You really have to treat relationships with respect. And there's a certain time when it is appropriate And a certain time when it is not. For instance, don't go trying to kiss her face on the first date. That's really low quality. I don't care what anyone says. Kissing someone's face on the first date is just really out of line. Even kissing her face or her forehead is completely out of line. You need some— you need an emotional connection first, and then a physical connection is more appropriate. So So don't be touching her a lot if you're not in an actual relationship with her. That's why we get into relationships with people. That's one of the many reasons. It's very important to treat that with the right kind of respect. So absolutely do the things I've shared with you in this video, but make sure that you have that emotional connection, that you have an understanding Before you start doing too much. And this leads us to our last guideline, which hopefully I don't have to say, but I am just going to say it anyway because it's important. Guideline number 4 is to always keep your touch appropriate. We've talked about this a little bit throughout the video, but to put it even more bluntly, you do not get husband privileges unless you are her husband. It is not appropriate. to have very, very intimate sexual interactions with a woman you're not married with. That's not the popular thing to say, but it is the truth, and so I'm going to say it. So absolutely enjoy touching her and look forward to the time when she's your wife and everything is appropriate. But until you are her husband, do not ask for husband privileges. The next way to touch her that is incredibly powerful, that just melts her, is when you just kind of pull her slightly closer When she's already leaning into you, onto you, into you, onto you. Yep. The next way— Oh, yeah. What? I'm just— Okay, I got this. The next kind of touch that just melts her is when you just kind of pull her slightly closely— Why is this so hard to say? I've been on this one thing for like 5 minutes. Pull her slightly closer when she's Already leaning into you. Ha! I just said it. Good job, me. Hi, secret end-of-the-video club! Guess what? I have a word today. Already. I know. I am filming this on the 2nd of October, I think? Anyway, one of the first days of October. And October makes me happy. I just hit my mic. October makes me happy because I think about pumpkins and corn mazes and all those happy things. So our word for today is pumpkin. I even wore kind of an orange color. 'Cause it made me feel festive. It's the only orange color I have. So anyway, comment orange— no, comment pumpkin. What did I say? I meant pumpkin, but you can comment orange if you want to. That's fine. You could even comment pumpkin orange or orange pumpkin. Anyway, thanks for being here, and I'll see you in the next one. That was funny. Oh man, somebody's gotta laugh at my jokes, so I always rise to the occasion. Thank you so much for watching, my amazing friend! If you enjoyed this video, you will also love this one, which is on 12 signs she likes you more than she is letting on. I will link it for you here. Thank you so much for watching, my amazing friend! Have an amazing day, and I will see you in the next one.