In this YouTube monologue, Coach Melannie explains three behavioral cues that indicate a woman wants a man to initiate a date. First, she frequently talks about activities she enjoys, subtly inviting a partner to join. Second, she gives him her undivided attention—putting away her phone and focusing on him—signaling personal interest. Third, she mentions having free time or a lack of weekend plans, hinting at availability for a shared activity. Melannie warns that ignoring these signals may cause the woman to assume disinterest and move on. She concludes with a call‑to‑action, offering a free guide that lists 13 additional signs and tips for interpreting them, available via the video description.
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3 signs she wants you to make a move. Number 1 is that she hints at doing things she enjoys. This is a fabulous way for a woman to make it really easy for you to ask her out. If she mentions things she really wants to do, she really enjoys— this is especially true if she does this frequently. If it just happens once or twice, that's just conversation. But if she frequently is talking about things she really wants to do, or maybe she takes quite a bit of time to Talking about how much she would like to do this one thing, it's because she's hoping you will say, why don't we go together? I'd love to do that too. How about this weekend? Number 2, you have her attention. Meaning she puts her phone away. She's not trying to join every other conversation. She's not looking around the room looking for an exit. Instead, she's focused on you. When you have her attention, that means there's something about you that's important to her, that matters to her more than everything else going on in life. And that's a really big deal. Number 3, she hints at having free time. Maybe she doesn't come right out and talk about things she would like to do, but she just lets you know, man, I don't have any plans for this weekend. I'd love to do something. Or, oh, I've had a lot of free time lately. I wish I had something fun to do. These are ways she is making it as easy as possible for you to say, great, let's do something together. Now here's the important part. If you miss these signals too many times, if you don't make a move, she's going to think you're just not interested. And she's she's going to move on. So it is important that you do make that move. I have a free guide for you where I share 13 signs she's waiting for you to make a move and guidelines for reading these signs successfully. Check out the description below to learn how you can get this guide totally for free. It's a fabulous resource to quickly reference and know that she likes you.
