11 SIGNS A GIRL IS FLIRTING WITH YOU~ 😏 (“Does she like me?”)

In this YouTube video, Christian dating coach Melannie Gregersen presents a list of eleven common behaviors that indicate a woman is flirting with a man. She explains each sign in a conversational, instructional style, ranging from online interactions (liking posts, sending DMs, using cute emojis) to in‑person body‑language cues (moving closer then away, touching, playing with hair, maintaining eye contact, walking past repeatedly) and verbal cues (giving compliments, encouraging the man, playfully teasing, mentioning she’s single). Throughout the video she intersperses calls to action, urging viewers to subscribe, ring the notification bell, comment, and enroll in her free masterclass or coaching academy for deeper relationship guidance. The content aims to help men recognize flirtation signals, reduce uncertainty in dating, and ultimately move toward lasting, drama‑free relationships.
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11 signs she's flirting with you. Have you ever asked yourself, "Does she like me?" It's agonizing when you're crushing on a girl but you just can't tell how she feels about you. Are you there right now? In this video, you're going to discover some of the most common signs a girl is flirting with you. Female body language is one of the best ways to tell if a girl likes you. And let me just say, number 11 is pretty shocking, so make sure you stay to the end of the video so you don't you don't miss it. Are you ready for these 11 signs she's flirting with you? Let's dive in! Number 1 is that she's very active with you on social media. Let's say whenever you post something she likes it or she comments or maybe as soon as she sees you're online she sends you a DM or she likes your stories. If you notice that she's interacting with you a lot on social media this is one of the very most common ways a girl will flirt with you. Even a girl who's just kind of social online, she's not necessarily gonna go out of her way to interact with a guy that much unless she's interested in you. So if you notice that she seems to kind of interact with everything you do, it's probably because she's waiting for you to do something so that she can interact with you, get your attention. The second sign she's flirting with you is that she builds you up and she encourages you a lot. This can be in compliments, in you know, letting you know that, "Oh, hey, you're an attractive guy," or it can even just be, "Hey, you got this. You're awesome. You rock." Even if it may seem like a simple thing, if she is purposefully encouraging you and building you up a lot, that's a very common way girls flirt. She's hoping you'll notice her and that you'll be attracted to her. Again, it may have something to do with the way you look, how fit you are, something like that. Or it may just even be she might be supporting and encouraging your ideas and your thoughts. It's going to be a little bit different depending on the girl. P.S. Before we get to the next sign she's flirting with you, if you haven't yet, subscribe and ring that notification bell. My name is Melannie. I'm a Christian dating coach for men and creator of Attracting Lasting Love Academy. If you are looking for a loving, tender, lifelong relationship without mind games and without drama, then you're in the right place. That's exactly what I help you do. So subscribe, ring the notification bell, and if you'd like to learn more about getting coaching from me in my Academy, just go to coachmelanniegregersen.com. Melanniegregersen.com. Okay, so this next sign she's flirting with you sounds kind of funny when I say it out loud. This is one of those things when I first became a coach, I was first putting my Academy together and everything, and I was looking through the body language signs a girl likes you, this one blew my mind. Because as soon as I read it I was like, "Ah, I do that!" And I had no idea. This is something that she consciously will have no idea she's doing. The sign is that she will move in and out while you're talking. Again, she almost certainly has no idea she's doing this. But the reason why women will do this is she's just kind of seeing, without even realizing it, if you're okay with her being close to you and how you'll respond. Do you like it? Are you okay with it? And so she'll be talking and she'll move in and she'll move out. It's probably not gonna be you know, in and out like that. That'll just be awkward if she does that. It will probably be more subtle. She'll kind of come in for a minute and then back out while you talk and then come in for a minute and then back out. That is a key sign. That's a very, very common body language sign that she's attracted to you, she likes you, and she's flirting with you. And it makes sense, right? When we're attracted to someone, we want to be close to them. But if she doesn't quite know how you're going to respond to it yet, She's not gonna get too close. She's just gonna wait and see how you react. And that leads us right into the next sign she's flirting with you. And this is that she touches you while you're talking. Maybe even while she's doing that in-and-out thing, maybe she'll put her hand on your arm or something like that. If she's touching you, maybe a little playful push, that is one of the best ways to not, in a non-awkward way, in a not awkward way, break— that was kind of awkward right there. This allows her to break the touch barrier. And again, she gets to touch you, which is kind of fun. But also it helps her let you know that there's some interest, and hopefully you'll be interested back. So if you notice that she's touching you while you're talking, it's a very good sign that, yes, boy, she is flirting with you. And can you imagine how exciting that would be? It would be insane, right? And just in case you're wondering, "Okay, so how do we move from flirting to, like, making her fall passionately in love with me?" Would you like to know how to do that? It's kind of an important next step, isn't it? I have some free training that's going to teach you how to do that. So just go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass. These are insider secrets that nobody else is talking about, but you need to know. And I feel like you deserve to have answers, and that's why I put it together for you. So there's a link in the description below and the link in the pinned comment. Just go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass. The next The first sign a girl is flirting with you and a great way to be able to know if she likes you is if she lets you know that she's single. Now you don't want a girl who overdoes this, you know, "I'm single. Did anybody know that I'm single?" You know, that's just awkward. That's what that is. But if instead she just casually mentions that she doesn't have a boyfriend or she, you know, she's single right now, that's her way of saying, "Hey, I'm single and, you know, you're single, so I'd totally be available if you wanted to ask me out right now and I'd really like I like you too. Most people aren't just going to go around telling everybody that they're single. Usually if you are sharing that with someone it's for a reason. And especially if this comes up more than once it's a really good sign that she's flirting with you. She wants you to know, "Hey, I'm available. Let's do something." The next sign she is flirting with you is that she tries to catch your eye and she holds it. Now if you have seen this video, if you haven't there's a link in the description below, but if you have seen it you know that the chin tuck is one of the best signs that a girl likes you. When your eyes meet and she just goes into the chin tuck. She might look back up at you, she might just look away. Either way, very common sign a girl likes you. However, some girls, maybe they'll do the chin tuck and look back at you, maybe they won't, but they'll be trying to catch your eyes. And they will be trying to maintain that. It's a key way that she's trying to, like, see if you're interested, trying to get you interested, keep your attention, get your attention. And so if you notice that she's trying to maintain that eye contact, it's a huge sign that, yeah, dude, she likes you. She wants to talk to you, she wants to get to know you better, she's trying to flirt with you. The attraction is there. And on that topic, before we get to the next sign, I'm gonna guess that right now you have one of three questions. Tell me which one it is. Number one is, "Awesome, that's great! But what do I do next after I see these signs?" The second one is, "Okay, awesome. I see these signs. I've seen them in girls in the past, but my relationships, they never go anywhere. Even if I see signs, pretty soon it completely crumbles." Or number three is that, "I've never seen any of these signs. What if I've never seen a girl attracted to me?" Is one or more of these things on your mind right now? No matter which of these things is on your mind, the solution is ultimately the same. And I'm going to share that with you in my free masterclass I mentioned earlier. There are 3 insider secrets that nobody talks about but have the power to completely transform your love life forever. So if you've been struggling in love, with love in the past, it's because of one or more of these things. So you need to know what it is, right? Just go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass. Okay, the next sign a girl is flirting with you is one of my personal favorites. And it's that she teases you playfully. I want to emphasize "playfully," okay? A lot of people think banter is flirting. It's not. It's banter. There's a big difference, okay? And when she— in the media and such it's often portrayed as "Oh, she's belittling him, she's being mean to him, she's criticizing him, she must really like him." No! We're not mean to people we like. If we are, we have a problem. If instead though she teases you playfully or even teases you in a way that builds you up, that right there is the appropriate way to flirt. And it's a key sign that she likes being around you, she likes how she she feels around you. She wants to be around you more. She wants you to notice her. So if you notice that she playfully teases you, it is a fabulous sign that yes, she is flirting with you. Quick question before we get to the next one. Would you like more videos on flirting? If you would, comment "flirting" to let me know. I always like to talk about flirting. So whether it's signs or just flirting in general, tell me what you'd like to see in the comments. And a huge shout out to those of you who are so amazing with the Super Thanks! It truly helps me continue to bring you this content, and it warms my heart to know that the videos I'm creating are truly helping you. So thank you! And whether you have ever used the Super Thanks or not, if you're enjoying this and would like to use it, it would mean a lot to me. So thank you! Okay, our next sign is another key, very common body language sign. And that is that she plays with her hair when she's around you. This is something most girls have no idea they're doing. It's not like, "Oh, I want to flirt with him, I'm going to play with my hair." No, this is something she doesn't even realize she's doing, but it indicates attraction. Research has shown this over and over and over again. So if you notice she's playing with her hair a lot when she's talking to you or even just looking at you across the room, it's a huge sign of attraction and that, you know, she wants to look nice for you, she's hoping you'll notice her, and she's flirting. The next sign that a girl is flirting with you is that she texts you random things. Have you ever just gotten a text that you're like, "Where'd that come from?" Well, it's probably because she's desperately thinking, trying to think of something to text you because she wants to talk to you, she wants your attention. And this, by the way, would also go with like a DM on social media or something like that. If she's just reaching out with random things, it's a really good sign that she's just trying to think of a way to talk to you. And by the way, if you haven't yet seen this video on 5 texts women love, it will help you a lot. So I'll put a link in the description below to that one as well. The next sign she's flirting with you really goes hand in hand with this one, and it's that she uses cute emojis a lot. Particularly, like, the winky kissing face, or like the one with like the smiling eyes and the blush. You know the one I'm talking about, right? From my face you can tell. "Kiaju?" Obviously. Or like the smirk face. That's one of my favorites. If she's using a heart, you know, things like that, if she's using cute emojis, then that's a really good way to express interest. Sometimes we are more willing to try and flirt online or through text because it's less scary. Pretty much everyone feels that way. And especially if it's kind of early in her getting to know you, she doesn't know you super well yet, it's a really good way for her to kind of see how you will react. So something like sending cute emojis and things like that is a really good way for her to start flirting with you. And the next The next sign is again one of my favorites. This is one that I was like, when I learned it, I was like, "Oh yeah, totally done that a million times as well." This body language sign is that she walks past you a lot. I know that sounds kind of weird, but it is so true. It's because she keeps walking past you hoping you'll notice her, hoping to catch your eye, hoping that you'll want to walk over and talk to her. It's a really good way for her to kind of see, "Wait, did I have his attention? I don't know if I got his attention." And again, there's a really good chance she has no idea she's even doing it, but she wants to be close to you. So if you notice that she just keeps walking past you, and she might seem like she has a reason, like maybe there's a dessert over there or a glass of water or whatever it is, but if she just keeps walking past you and this happens a lot, it's a very good sign that she wants you to notice her and she's flirting with you. Now remember the 3 questions we talked about earlier? "Okay, this is awesome, but what do I do next?" Or "Okay, I've seen these signs in the past and it's gone nowhere." Or even "I don't see any of these signs." If you're asking any of these questions, remember, the solution is the same. So would you like the solution? Would you like to know what to do so that you don't have these relationship problems anymore? Lasting forever love sounds really good, doesn't it? So much better than heartache and frustration. I put together this free training for you so that I could share insider secrets with you. Go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass and check it out. Thank you so much for watching, my amazing friend! Be sure to subscribe and ring the notification bell. Give me a big thumbs up. Do you have a friend who needs to know these signs as well? Share it with him. It would mean a lot to me, and I know it would mean a lot to him as well. And if you don't yet follow me on social media, there are links in the description below. I share exclusive content in my Instagram stories, so make sure you especially follow me there. Would you like more videos on flirting? If you would, comment "flirting" to let me know. And leave any other ideas or comments there as well. Thank you so much again, my amazing friend, and have an amazing day! That's her way of saying, "Hey, I'm single. Oops." I just did that. I'm trying to think of a word. Can you tell it's not working? I was thinking it would be May the 4th, but then I realized it's March. Not May. Small detail. Not really that important. Hello, secret end of the video club! Thanks for being here. If this is your first time, we always have a special word at the end of the video so I know who watches to the end, and we became like this super secret awesome club. So All you have to do is this week our special word is spring. Why is that our special word? Because I'm really longing for spring. It just keeps snowing and I love snow. I really do, but I'm ready for spring. So our special word is spring. Thank you so much for being here and you're amazing. I did it! Doodah doodah day! Anyway, I should get off now. Like, right now before I do anything else embarrassing. I just don't really care anymore. When I first joined YouTube years ago, I was so nervous. So nervous. Like, my first videos never got posted on YouTube because I felt so scared. Yeah, I've been doing this long enough. I'm just like, look, I'm not in here for vanity metrics. I'm just here to help people. So I just embrace the embarrassing things now. I think there's a life lesson there. Just move on and stop worrying. 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