11 Signs A Godly Woman Is Secretly Attracted To YOU! 😉 (Must Know Signs She Likes You)

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11 signs a godly woman is secretly attracted to you! These are must-know signs she likes you that every man needs to be aware of. Godly women act differently than other women. When you hear that, it's not much of a surprise. But we kind of forget to take that into consideration. Godly women have different standards and values. They have different goals than other women. This means if you are taking standard dating and relationship advice, you may totally be missing her signals or misreading them entirely. This is why if you want a high-value, godly, loyal woman, it's very important that you only get advice from someone who can share from that perspective. Only take the advice that leads you to what you ultimately want. Now the good news is you're in the perfect place. As a Christian dating and relationship coach for men, I'm here to share with you 11 signs a godly woman is secretly attracted to you. And let me just say, this is a really fun topic. So hit that subscribe button and let's dive in. Number 1, she compliments you for your virtues and your standards and your morals. These are things that a godly woman is very attracted to in a man. A good woman is not interested in the bad boy. Worldly women are. But a good woman, a mature woman, she wants a man who can be a good life partner. She wants someone who will draw closer to Christ with her. And so when she sees these virtues and values in you, that's like what dreams are made of. So if she compliments you for being kind, or she compliments your faith, or your knowledge of the scriptures, or your integrity, if she is pointing out these things in a positive light, it's because she's paying attention and she likes what she sees. Another sign that she's secretly attracted to you is that she makes herself available. Something I've taught in past videos, something I certainly talk about in my Academy, is that while men pursue women, what they don't always realize is that women in a way pursue men as well. She's going to do it in a feminine way, not a masculine way. It's not going to look the same. But she's going to try to show her interest in you as well. A fabulous feminine way she can do this is she can just be available to do things with you. She's not gonna chase you. She's not going to be blowing up your phone and asking you out. That's something that feminine women are not very comfortable with. However, when you reach out, when you ask her out, when you text, when you interact, she's engaged, she's open, she's excited. You can feel or see the enthusiasm. Now obviously as a relationship progresses, okay, yes, she will be much more willing to she texts you first and that doesn't feel masculine to her. But especially at the beginning and really throughout the entire relationship into marriage, that pursuing in a masculine way needs to come from you and she's going to be open and receptive and affectionate and loving in a feminine way. So if you feel that happy enthusiasm that she's there and she's excited and she's engaged, that's a fabulous sign of attraction. The next sign that she's secretly attracted to you is that she respects you in the way she speaks to you. This This is something high-value women do. There's not sarcasm, no subtle jabs, she's not testing you. Even when she's playful with you, it's kind and uplifting and positive. When a woman is showing respect for you, this is a fabulous sign that she does respect you. And respect is a very important element of love. The next sign she's secretly attracted to you is that she just lights up around you. Some women are going to be more bold and flashy and aggressive. Other women are going to be more subtle. And often godly women do not need to be the center of attention like other women frequently feel like they need or want to be. So it may be a little subtle. She may not, "Oh my goodness, I love you!" every time she sees you. But you'll see her face light up, you'll see you'll feel warmth. Maybe you'll even feel some of that nervous energy coming from her. I've talked about that in past videos as well. Those butterflies, that nervousness, can be there as well. She's not trying to get your attention per se, but she's genuinely excited to see you. That is a very good sign of attraction. Okay, the next secret sign of attraction is a really big one. This is that she asks you thoughtful questions. It's pretty common in society to just say, "Oh, well, what do you do?" Or just, you know, the general small talk questions we all ask. But if she goes a little deeper, like, "Well, what led you there?" or "What's the story behind that? How are you enjoying it?" If she's asking those deeper questions, she's expressing sincere interest in you because she is interested in you, she wants to know more about you. And because godly, high-value women are ultimately thinking about marriage, and just wondering if this is a good move. She genuinely wants to know more about you and if this is going to work, if it goes anywhere. The next sign that a godly woman is attracted to you is that she positions herself near you in a group setting. Or honestly, even not in a group setting. She will find subtle ways to be around you. So if you're having a conversation with people, she may just kind of hover nearby and try to join the conversation. If you're a part of some kind of group, she may really try to be a part of that group because she wants to be nearer to you. Maybe she will simply just linger nearby. Maybe when she would have the opportunity to just leave, she might just kind of linger for a minute hoping that you will take that opportunity to approach her, to pursue her, to talk to her. So do pay attention to the lingering because it's a real thing. Something to keep in mind with all the signs we've talked about and all the signs moving forward is you do need to make sure you keep things in context. This is something I teach my clients in my Academy. You need to make sure you're seeing more than one sign. Just one sign is not necessarily a sign. It may just be a personality thing or a situational thing. Also make sure that you keep things in context. For instance, is she lingering for you or is she lingering because it's her job to clean up after the meeting or whatever it is? So pay attention to all those little things. The next sign of attraction, this is a huge thing for high-value, godly women, is that she honors your boundaries and she has her own boundaries. A good woman is not going to test you. She's not going to play games with you. She appreciates and values your leadership, and she meets you with self-respect. Unlike some women out there, A good, godly feminine woman wants a man to lead. She aches for a man who leads. She wants to treat you with respect. She doesn't want to tear you down. She doesn't want to belittle you. She doesn't want to test you because she's so cool. She doesn't care about all of those stupid games. She wants to respect you. So if you notice that she honors and respects your boundaries, and she has her own, she expects you to to respect them as well, as you should. But if you're getting that feeling of respect, that is huge. Another fabulous sign of attraction is that she encourages you. You may even feel that she kind of speaks life into you, so to speak. You feel encouraged in your goals, in your faith, in life. She's kind of like a cheerleader. She's there for you. It's a good sign that this is a good woman to have in your life. When after interacting with her you feel encouraged, you feel uplifted and invigorated rather than exhausted or drained. And when a woman— one way women nurture our man is we want to support him, we want to be there for him. He's our hero and we want him to see himself as a hero as well. So one thing many women will do that is a hidden sign of attraction is that she's very supportive of you. Another key sign that a high-value woman is attracted to you is that she shows consistency. She's not hot and cold, she's not playing those stupid games. She's not interested in an emotional roller coaster. If she's interested in you, she's just going to have that interested energy towards you. Like I mentioned earlier, as women when we're pursuing a man, when we're interested in him, it's more about opening the door to say, "Hey, you make a move and I'm interested. You interact and I show enthusiasm." Her energy towards you is going to be steady, consistent interest and enthusiasm. And honestly, that leads perfectly into the next sign of attraction, which is that she subtly just opens the door for you to to lead. She does not chase you. She simply is as available as possible. Understanding that she is human, she does have a schedule, but she does the best she can to make it as easy as possible for interaction to happen. She gives you that space to pursue, but then she's very receptive to it. For instance, when you ask her out, she says yes warmly. She's excited, she's she's enthusiastic. Women who want to step into a feminine role, women who want to honor God and honor the femininity he gave us, she does not want to pursue in the masculine way. And she is craving your masculine energy. That's how God created us. You as a man probably adore her femininity and her femininity adores your masculinity. So use that to your advantage. Step up in that masculine role and she will love you all the more. Okay, this next sign that she's attracted to you is huge. This is a very good sign. This is that she invites you into her inner world. What I mean by this is that she introduces you to her family and her friends. This isn't just a casual acquaintance. This is her letting you into her life more. She might even invite you into certain group settings. She's creating ways for you to get to know each other better, to see if this is going to work, if this is a good thing for both of you. Oh! Sorry, wake-up call! Guess what? So the day I'm filming this video is actually my birthday. So If we're going to have something we say at the end of the video today, I think it should have something to do with a birthday. So if you would like to wish me happy birthday in the comments, you can go ahead and do that. I won't be mad. I won't be mad at all. You know, just saying. As you can probably tell, I'm turning 24 this year. I'm just kidding. I'm not 24 this year. But funny story for you real fast. So my grandpa was a delightful man. Yeah, he was full of so much personality. And he, for my mom's entire life, as long as she could remember, he was always 34. It's because he just decided he was gonna be 34 for the rest of his life. And I think that is just a nugget of wisdom right there. So I have decided to be 24 for as long as I feel like it. And then maybe when I get to be, I don't know, like 50 or something, I might upgrade to 34. We'll see. So anyway, There's your little nugget of wisdom there. And thank you in advance for your birthday wishes because that means a lot to me, so thank you. Okay, this turned out a little more awkward than I thought it would. Please wish me a happy birthday, okay, right now. That's okay. Now if you enjoyed this video, you are also going to love this video, which is 7 Signs She Wants You to Make a Move. I will link it here for you. Make sure you check it out. Thank you so much again, my amazing friend, and have an amazing day!










