👉 11 Things High-Value Men NEVER Do (But Low-Value Men ALWAYS Do)

What makes one person more attractive than another? When it comes to love and romance, we often think about it from a very emotional perspective. But at the end of the day, it comes down to a science. Attraction is a science. And what's beautiful is those who understand these strategies are the ones who can be the most attractive. So in this video, we're going to be talking about 11 things high-value men never do, but low-value men always do. If you want to be able to capture the heart of the kind of woman you're aching to hold close, then pay close attention to this video. As I share these 11 things with you, there are going to be some things that really resonate with you. I want you to celebrate your wins. And I mean truly celebrate them. At the same time, there will be some things that you might go, "Oh, Oh dear, I didn't realize that I was doing that. That's okay. This just means that you've found a solution, something you can work on that will make you even more irresistible. So it's a win-win either way. Let's start by quickly defining what we mean by high value or high quality. Basically, when something has high value, it's something that's highly sought after. It makes our lives better. It's desirable to us. So often when people hear "high value," they automatically think high status or very, very wealthy or something like that. And the truth is there are plenty of people with high status and high wealth who are losers. I mean, that happens. Now, that does not mean that everyone with high status and high wealth is a loser. But that's not what makes you a high-quality person. What makes you a high-quality person is that you are the kind of person who adds to someone else's life. Just like when she's a high-quality the woman she adds to your life. That makes sense, right? So with that as our basis, with that as our foundation, let's now dive into the things a high-value man will never do, but a low-value man does. Sound good? Let's get started! Okay, the first thing that a high-value man will never do is beg for affection and attention. When you see yourself as a high-value individual, you are not going to be in a situation where you have to beg for affection and attention. The truth is you should never have to beg for that. That is something that a high-value woman wants to give you freely and willingly. She wants to shower you with affection. And so, so many people are in relationships or have this mindset that they have to beg for that attention and beg for that affection. And that is not something a high-value man does. So if you've ever felt like you have to do that, know right here, right now that you absolutely do not. And by the way, if this is your first time watching one of my videos, make sure you subscribe and ring that notification bell. My name is Melannie. I'm a Christian dating coach for men and your go-to source to learn how to find that lasting, authentic love. The world is full of a lot of flings and shallow, dead-end relationships. But the truth is, as humans, we're just aching for something more, right? Aching for that one special person who can be with you forever. So if that's you, if you're watching this and saying, "Yes, that's what I want," you want, then this is definitely the right place for you. Okay, the next thing a high-value man does not do is let toxic women into your life. The truth is most people don't even know what a toxic woman is, especially because so many people are trying to make it sound like toxic women are the norm instead of a bad idea. This is why in my Academy I teach you in so much detail about what they are and how to avoid them, how to read the signs, and instead repel them. And the truth is, you would be shocked by how many men say they had no idea that this toxic behavior was not normal, and they thought that they had to put up with women like this. That is something you do not have to do. And high-value people, they educate themselves about this, and they decide to say, "Uh-uh, no, I am not settling for that toxic behavior." High-value people value themselves far too much to put up with a toxic relationship. Okay, the next thing that a high-value man will never do is forget to be faithful. The media at large is trying to glorify infidelity, but the truth is, there's nothing glorious about that. That is a very empty, unfulfilling lifestyle. And so, so many people are trying to say, "Oh, pfft, it's..." "it's not really that important," or, "Oh, you know, it's so much more glamorous to have flings," or whatever it is. But a high-value man has so much more respect for himself, for society, for God, and for women to be unfaithful. And in addition to that, he understands all of the benefits he gets from being faithful to a high-value woman. So someone who has that integrity and that, um, that who adds to the world in such a large way as a high-value man is someone who is faithful. Okay, the next thing a high-value man will never do is sacrifice your masculinity. The pressure in society right now is trying to force women to become more masculine and to make men sacrifice your masculinity. And the truth is that doesn't benefit anyone. It just doesn't. And so a man who's high-value, who truly owns who you are, you're not going to sacrifice that just because the pressures of society say you should. Now, one reason some people get confused about this is if you think of masculinity as something like ego, then you can be like, "Wait, maybe I shouldn't be masculine." Ego is not masculine, okay? So what are some examples of sacrificing your masculinity? Well, some examples would be trying to make her take on the masculine role. For instance, having her pursue you in a masculine way. Another example would be that you stop being chivalrous because of those social pressures, stop being a gentleman. Or avoiding standing up for what you believe in when it's really important, or helping those in need. These are all masculine things that you don't want to sacrifice. Because the truth is, the world needs you and your masculinity so much more than you get credit for. Next up for what a high-value man will never do is enter a relationship without researching, like, how to make it a good one, how to be good at it. If you stop and think about it, we research and learn how to be good at everything that's important in life. We go to years and years of schooling, we learn how to do our jobs right, we even spend time learning how to be good at our hobbies and interests. But when it comes to relationships, it can be easy to say, "Oh, it'll just work out," and just wing it. And that doesn't work. We wonder why people struggle in relationships so badly. If you have high value, you have high respect for this relationship, and you want it to work. And that means you're going to research how to be good at it so that it can be magical and exciting for you and for her. Because, little bit of a spoiler here, a high-value woman is doing the same thing. She absolutely is. That's why she's a high-value woman. And this actually reminds me of a question I got recently. This person asked me, they said, "Look, the world has more dating coaches than it's ever had, but there are also more single people than ever and more people who are just unhappy and unsatisfied in relationships. Why is that?" And I was like, "Great question!" Let me answer that. This is one of the main reasons why I wanted to become a coach. Yes, there are more dating coaches than there have ever been, but they are teaching flings. They're teaching mind games. They're teaching absolute trash that doesn't work. And the reason they're doing it is to either, one, justify their bad toxic behavior. Yes, I said that. Or two, just because it's clickbaity. All they care about is getting the click. It doesn't really matter if it serves you in in the long run. So why in the world would you take advice from people who don't want a long-term relationship if that's what you're looking for? That doesn't make sense. So that's one of the reasons why, despite the fact that honestly so much of what's going on in my industry right now just makes me absolutely sick, that people would play with your hearts like that, that people would not take their jobs seriously enough to cause other people harm and heartbreak. It honestly makes me sick. So that's one of the one of the reasons why I do what I do. So where's the best place for you to start? How can you get that relationship advice that won't lead you to a fling, that won't attract a toxic woman, that will instead get you that soft feminine woman that you can wake up next to for the rest of your life, whose smile makes you feel like you're home? If that's what you're looking for, the best place to start is by going to watch my free masterclass. You're going to discover secrets about women there that most men will never know. And you're going to find out what has been keeping you from the love you desire. Can you imagine how good it would feel to just know what's been stopping you? Go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass now to watch that free training. I'll put a link in the description below and a link in the pinned comment. To a large extent, this is my way of trying to combat all the lies that are out there. And I can only do so much as one person, but I truly believe that you matter, your heart matters, your future relationship matters, the woman who's praying to meet you matters. And that's why I do what I do. So make sure you watch that free training to learn how you can turbocharge your love life fast. And yes, of course, you will learn more about becoming a high-value man as well. With that, let's keep talking about what high-value men never do. The next one is make fun of other people. Again, this is This is one of those things that some people call masculine, is when you act like you are above other people. Sometimes saying something a little bit snarky to get her attention, to make her want to chase you, to make her want more. Yeah, if she's a drama queen, she might, but if she's smart, she'll run. And do you really want to marry a girl who's not smart? I mean, just think about that for a second. A high-value man understands that part of being high-value is making other people's lives better. And when you put that out to the world, you will also receive it from the world. And high-value people want to make the world a better place. So of course you want to make people feel better instead of make people feel worse. So making fun of people is something you will never do. However, low-value men will definitely do that because of low self-esteem, because of ego, because of bad tactics, whatever it is. So if you want to be a high-value man, make sure you avoid that. Now the next thing actually goes hand in hand with this, and this is talking down to others to make them feel small. So there's, like, outright making fun of people, but then there's just kind of trying to downplay them or belittle them. This is another one of those things that a lot of people try to pass off as masculine. It's not. They try to pass it off as banter. It's not. It's just plain rude. The next thing a high-value man never does is forget to set appropriate boundaries. Setting boundaries is one of the most masculine things. It's very strong, it's very confident, it's very important. Far too often as humans, and perhaps this especially happens with Christians, we feel like if we set boundaries we're being mean. You're not being mean. As a matter of fact, setting a boundary lets everybody know where they stand, and it makes everything so much better, so much easier. So Being a man who's willing to set appropriate boundaries is incredibly high-value, and it's incredibly attractive to a woman. It helps her see you as more confident and more masculine. Okay, the next thing a high-value man will never do is ask for husband benefits before you are actually her husband. I've— sometimes people ask me what I mean by that. You are not going to ask her to have sex with you unless you are her husband. The truth is we have to earn the rights to be that intimate with someone. Intimacy, despite what Sex and the City wants you to think, is actually a very sacred thing. We are being very, very vulnerable with another person. A man who truly respects a woman and truly respects himself would absolutely never ask for those benefits unless he's earned them. Just like a high-value woman would never ask for wife benefits if she's not your wife. Okay, next up for what a high-value man will never do is neglect your mind. If you're high-value, again, you respect respect yourself. And you certainly respect your mind. And so you're going to continue to learn, you're going to continue to be interested and enthusiastic, you're going to continue to improve, just like a high-value woman will. This is something that makes people ridiculously attractive. They become magnetic. They're very interesting and fun to be around. They're exciting to be around. In addition to that, it feeds your soul, it feeds you. So making sure you do not neglect your mind is a very, very important thing to do. Where low-value people, they don't really care about the value of their mind. They're certainly not feeding their minds good things. And the next thing a high-value man will never do is allow their self-esteem to fall too low. Now, what I mean by this is sometimes we try to push off the job of building our self-esteem off onto another person, especially someone we're in a relationship with. Yes, they can certainly help. And yes, there's something magical about someone reassuring us and helping us know we're attractive and appealing and enjoyable to be around. But at the end of the day, confidence is really a personal job. It's something that nobody else can give us. And so a high-value person values themself enough, or at least starts working on it so they get to the point where they value themselves enough to build their own self-esteem and their own confidence. Most people don't know this, but confidence is not something that you're just either born with or you're not. It's something that you have to gain, and then you have to maintain. Now, the good news is it's pretty simple to create. As a matter of fact, that's the fastest result men see from my Academy. Like, just a few days in, and your confidence can absolutely soar. So it doesn't have to be a long drawn-out thing, but it is something we have to take responsibility for. And it actually feels really good when we do. So a high-value man will take that responsibility, where a low-value person doesn't. They try to push their self-esteem off onto somebody else. It's somebody else's job. When in reality, it's yours. And if you would like to learn more about my Academy, all the secrets you'll learn there, how you can boost your self-esteem, how you can be the one telling your family and friends you're marrying the love of your life, If that's something you're interested in, you'll learn more about how you can join me in my Academy in that free masterclass as well. Just go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass. Okay, I know that was a lot to take in, so let's quickly recap all the things you just learned about what a high-value man will never do. You ready? Number 1 is beg for affection and attention. Number 2 is let toxic women into your life. 3 is forget to be faithful. 4 is to sacrifice your masculinity. Number 5 is to enter a relationship without researching how to be good at it. 6 is to make fun of others, where 7 is to talk people down and make them feel small. 8 is to forget to set appropriate boundaries. You never want to forget that. 9 is to ask for husband benefits when you are not her husband. Not a classy move. Number 10 is neglecting your mind and your intellect. And 11 is to allow your self-esteem to fall too low or to push that responsibility off onto someone else instead of taking responsibility for your own self-esteem and confidence. Thank you so much for watching, my amazing friend! Again, make sure you watch that free training to learn your next steps to find the love of your life. Thank you, my amazing friend, and have an amazing day! Ba-da-ba-da-ba-da-ba. Ba-da-ba-da-ba-da-ba. That's my Happy New Year's song that I made up just for you right now. You're welcome. I should charge royalties for that. I'll make a million. Lamest song long ever. Okay, anyway, moving on. Ouch. My hair does not wanna cooperate. Usually it cooperates more with a hat, not less. What's with that? I don't know. Okay, I gotta focus. I just believe in having fun wherever I am. With a few exceptions. 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