11 Things Women Crave From Men But Rarely Say 😍

Let's talk about 11 things women crave from men but rarely say. Do you want to be the man she can't stop thinking about? The only man she wants in her life permanently? If you're nodding your head yes, then it's pretty important to know what her needs are, what it is she's craving from you. Let me ask you this. Are there things that you crave from women but you really don't ever say? Often we do this just because maybe we're not fully aware of what it is We're truly desiring. Or sometimes it's just because it's not the kind of thing you're gonna post about on social media. But those things we crave are important. It's a big part of a relationship. A relationship just wouldn't feel fulfilling without it, right? Now here's the cool part. When you meet a woman who can fill those needs, it's easy to fall in love with her, right? Well, the same is true for her. This is why knowing what it is she craves is So powerful. It's like I teach my clients inside my Academy. When she sees that you are her dream man, she's got to fall in love with you. That's just how it works. So let's dive into what it is specifically that women are craving from men. And as we dive in, if you want more wholesome, authentic dating and relationship advice, no mind games or tricks, make sure you subscribe. As a Christian dating coach, I'm never going to teach you the sleazy tactics. I will only teach you how to have authentic, Lifelong love. Okay, the first thing women genuinely crave from a man is to feel wanted, not just needed. She wants to feel like you are genuinely choosing her because you love her and you adore her, not just because you want to get a girlfriend or you want to get a wife. Sometimes people can get into this routine of, I've just got to have a relationship, and it really feels It's absolutely terrible to feel like, well, I just settled on you because I needed a relationship. And sometimes even when we don't mean that, we can make the other person feel that way. We all want to just feel loved and adored for who we are. And when she feels that from you, it's magnetic, it's electrifying, it's magical. There's something incredibly romantic about feeling seen. I'm chosen. This is something else I teach in my coaching. There is nothing quite like knowing that out of all the people you could have chosen, you chose her. That is something our souls crave as humans. We want to matter. The next thing women crave from a man is for you to just remember the little things. Her favorite flower, something she mentioned she wanted to try, an important event that she's a little bit nervous about. Remembering these little details helps her feel important to you, like she matters to you. She feels seen, she feels understood, she feels cherished. Now just in case you might be kind of freaking out a little bit and going, I am terrible at remembering those little things, that's okay. Learn. You can learn how to remember those little things. When we're terrible at something, it's a signal to stop being terrible at it, to learn how to not be bad at it. So whatever you have to If you have to take notes, if you have to put a reminder in your phone, on your calendar, hey, she has an important event today. I need to text her about it. Whatever it is you need to do— note to self, her favorite flowers are these. Whatever you need to do, learn how to be good at that because it truly does matter. And a relationship is built on all those little things. And when our love tanks get full by those little things, that's when we're just overflowing with love for the other person. The next thing women crave from a man is for you to be protective Without being controlling. A woman wants to feel like her man is looking out for her, like he's got her back, like she can count on him. That can mean walking her safely to her car. It can mean just standing next to her during a difficult moment, letting her know that you're there and you care about her, you support her. She definitely does not want you controlling her. She wants to be her own person. She needs her own independence. That's It's just healthy. However, she does want to know that you're there for her, that you are looking out for her. I don't think a man can completely understand what it does to a woman to know that her man is protective. That's what helps her respect and admire you. The next thing women totally crave from men is knowing that you are thinking about her even when she's not around. That's one of those really romantic, cute things. To just know That he's thinking about you even when you're not there. It's adorable! Part of the reason it matters so much to her is because she's thinking about you when you're not around. And it does not have to be complicated. You can just send her a quick text, hey, I saw this and I thought of you. That right there can be enough just to make her heart flutter a little bit or her knees weak because it means, aww, he was thinking about me! This doesn't mean that you have to be constantly texting her or anything. That's exhausting for you and kind of turns it into a needy Instead, it just means about being intentional. It's just about letting her know that she has a special place in your thoughts. The next thing women crave from men is for you to just notice when something is wrong. I'm not talking about a woman who expects you to read her mind. That's pretty out of line. Women really need to stop doing that. I don't understand that. I'm very much a communication person. But so we're not talking about that. Instead, it just means that you're paying attention for when she looks a little down or when things feel off. If she seems unusually quiet or bothered by something, you just lovingly check in and see how she's doing. This is one of those small things that's really not small. It's big. You want support when you're feeling upset. Women do as well. And women Especially tend to bond through talking. And so she wants to feel loved and noticed by you. And so if you do happen to notice that, huh, is something a little off? Just, hey, you've been a little quiet today. Are you okay? That's all it takes, but it completely melts her heart, it builds a deeper connection, and it helps her trust and respect you even more. And for those who are new here, we actually have a ton of new people here lately, which is super fun. So welcome! Thanks for being here. Before we continue with our list here, I just wanted to make sure you know about my free masterclass. This is where I share with you the 3 things you must know if you want to find, attract, and keep a loyal feminine woman. The kind of woman who will love you passionately for life. I'm going to reveal to you how women think, And what they need so you can be the only man she ever wants. Honestly, can you imagine how amazing that would feel? Just go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass or check out the link in the description below. Far too many men are struggling through love and dating when they don't have to. All you need is the right answers, and I'm here to provide you with that. So make sure you make watching that masterclass a priority. Like, The next thing that women crave in a man is honestly to see your softer side. This one surprises a lot of people, especially when society often tells you to be cold and dominant and distant and like this iceberg. Sorry, that wasn't very nice. But it's true! That's a bunch of nonsense. Unless you're talking about a toxic woman or a woman who loves Drama. A woman who wants a loving, closely connected, lifelong relationship, she wants a real human, not an iceberg. For women who take emotions very seriously, emotions matter to women. She wants— there's something incredibly attractive about seeing a strong and masculine man Who can also be compassionate, who can also be gentle, who can also have feelings. Of course, this does not mean you suddenly turn into a crybaby or a super needy person. That's not healthy for either person in the relationship. But there does come a point when you need to open up. You need to let her see a little bit more of your vulnerable side, your gentle Your kind side, the side of you that feels things deeply. You have to have that in order for the two of you to really connect and bond on the deepest level. Something that we often see in chick flicks is when a guy's upset and maybe he even starts to cry. It is the cutest thing in the world when a guy cries. She wants to just kiss it all better. Now I'm not saying you have to go around crying all the time. But this perfectly illustrates why sometimes showing her your soft side is the most tender, adorable thing you can do. So sometimes that's just as simple as showing your gentleness, showing your compassion. And then as the relationship deepens and develops, you can show her even more vulnerable sides of you. Because if you want to be married, you're both going to have those vulnerable moments. And it's important To connect through that. And it's okay if you don't show the rest of the world that side of you. That's pretty normal. But if she knows that she gets to see that side of you, perhaps even especially if it's rarely shown to the rest of the world, that's a truly magical thing. The next thing women crave from men is very different from what a lot of people are telling you. This is when you are consistent in your affection. I know, I know. What? You're not supposed to pull away? You're not supposed to be manipulative and act like a jerk one minute and keep her guessing because she's a woman who can't handle it unless you keep her guessing? Only toxic women cannot handle a relationship that doesn't keep you guessing, okay? A mature woman, if you keep her guessing, she's done. She sees you as immature and inconsistent, which you are if you are acting inconsistent. Instead, a woman who is looking for a husband, a lifelong partner, a best friend to do life with. She wants someone she can count on, just like you want someone you can count on. A mature woman who knows her own worth doesn't want to be constantly guessing, trying to figure out if you actually like her because you're warm one minute and cold the next. Consistency creates trust, and you need trust for attraction to grow and blossom. Okay, this next thing women crave is one of my personal favorites. This is to just laugh and be silly together. The truth is, many women truly crave a man that they can just have fun with. This is kind of the opposite, again, of what a lot of people are saying. You know, to be masculine is to be strong. Yes, you can be fun and strong. Many women just truly want a man who's playful, someone they can laugh with, who makes life not feel quite so serious and heavy. That playfulness is part of how you make even ordinary moments feel like a little adventure, and it's delightful. The next thing women very much crave from a man is to just feel feminine around you. If you've seen many of my videos, we've touched on this before, but I'll just touch on it really fast again. Masculine and feminine energies are irresistible to each other. And a woman feels most like herself And most safe when she can truly embrace her feminine energy. And so when she's around a masculine man, he's taking care of the masculine part. So she can just kind of rest into her femininity. And it is magical what happens when she can do that. As a matter of fact, many women don't even know what that feels like because our society is unfortunately so aggressively forcing women to kind of fit into this masculine but super sexy box. It's stupid and ridiculous and whatever. But so many women, they don't even know the power of what it feels like when this masculine man comes into their life and they can just relinquish the masculine energy and they can just be feminine. It's truly unlike anything else. So when you show up as the masculine man in a very appropriate and respectful way, then she is allowed to just receive that femininity in herself. And that's what allows her to shower you with feminine love and affection and really just feel at peace. That feeling right there becomes addicting, and she wants more of it. This next thing that women crave is another one of my favorites. This is for you to be genuinely excited when you see her. To see your face light up, your eyes get excited. That feeling of being enthusiastically welcomed by someone is so special. We all want to feel like we matter. We want to feel like our presence makes the world a better place, that someone is happy because we're there. And so when she sees your face just kind of light up when joy, a big smile when you see her, that is the cutest thing ever! Especially when she feels the exact same way about you. The next thing women crave is to feel beautiful even when she isn't trying super hard. Now let me just kind of explain this. I'm not talking about a woman who does not try and who is just kind of sloppy and gross. I'm not saying that a woman like that is not inherently beautiful, but she's not using her beauty at all. So we're not talking about that. I'm talking about the days you just kind of have a messy bun and you're in just clothes you threw together because it's just a busy day. She wants to know that she's beautiful even when her hair's a mess, even when her makeup's not perfect, even when she doesn't look, whoa! She wants to still know that she's beautiful. Beautiful. So giving her those little compliments to let her know she still looks amazing to you even when she's not perfect date night put together, that's adorable. That just melts a woman's heart. There's a lot of pressure on women to look a certain way. And the sad truth is most women are doing that because they think they have to. They think they have to look like that in order to attract you. But when there's a man who says, look, girl, you just look great the way you are, that is such a comforting feeling. And it again creates that bond and that closeness and makes her wanna be with you even more. Because instead of raising the standard even higher, you're helping her know that she's amazing just the way she is. Yes, you want her to look as cute as possible whenever possible. But it's okay if as cute as possible is pretty normal. Letting her know you think she's cute even when she's got messy hair and sweatpants, those moments create these little romantic memories that women truly cherish. I was working out a new song in my head. I do that frequently. Okay, secret end of the video club. I tried to film this video yesterday, but it was raining so hard. The lighting was terrible. I couldn't film it. So instead, I did a DIY project in my laundry room, and it actually looks really nice. I'm super, super pleased with it. So our word for the end of the day, it's not really a word, it's an abbreviation, is DIY. Do it yourself. Because that's what I did. So there you go. Or if you want to put laundry room, you can put that instead. I don't really care. Thank you so much for being here! Thank you for humoring me with the end-of-the-video word. And never forget that you're amazing! Thank you so much for watching, my amazing friend! 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