11 Weird Things Men Do That Women Find Attractive 😍 (You won’t believe the last one!)

11 weird things men do that women find attractive. And let me just say, you are not going to believe the last one. Men and women are different. We all know that, right? And when we take the time to get to understand each other a little bit better, that's what makes dating and relationships so much more exciting and interesting and simple. And the truth is, there are a lot of things that you do as a man that are ridiculously attractive to women that you you don't even know about. And that's one of the benefits of having a female coach is I am here to tell you these insider secrets that I really feel like you deserve to know. So are you ready to be in on these secrets? Make sure you stay with me until the end of the video. I say let's just get started. Let's just dive in with the first weird thing men do that women find very, very attractive. You ready? Number 1 is when you cry. Now I know what you're thinking. Just hear me out for just a second. Have you ever noticed that in chick flicks, things that are geared towards a female audience, that sometimes they will have a scene or something where the man is crying. There's a reason they do that. And that's because it just melts her heart and it just makes her go, "Oh!" And she wants to kiss it all better and make it all better. Here's the thing. Women are natural nurturers. We just are. That's just how we work. And just like you wanna take care of her in certain ways, she wants to take care of you in certain ways. And so when she sees you you feeling those strong emotions or feeling a certain way, you know, she wants to make it all better and she thinks it's adorable. In addition to that, as humans, when we're looking for a lifelong relationship, we want someone we can be open with and who can be open with us. We want someone who has, like, a real soul and who feels things deeply just like we do. And so when she sees that in you, it's really, really attractive. Now, obviously, that doesn't mean you just go around crying all the time. That's really not healthy. Unhealthy and certainly not attractive. But when you get to a point where you know someone well enough and if something happens and you feel like crying, let it out, boy, because it's actually really adorable. Okay, the second weird thing men do that women find attractive is when you're a little bit shy and nervous. We all have those moments, right? Where we feel shy, where we feel nervous, and we kind of tend to beat ourselves up about this sometimes. This is something I teach in my Academy. Just embrace it, okay? At some point we're We're all going to feel shy, we're all going to feel nervous, and it's often just best to embrace it. And the truth is, when you do that, one, whoo, it becomes a lot less awkward, a lot less pressure. And two, it's really cute because she's feeling shy, she's feeling nervous, and when she knows you're feeling that way too, she knows it's because you're attracted to her, because you like her, and that makes it even more endearing. So Don't beat yourself up if sometimes you feel shy and nervous. Instead, you may just want to embrace it because it's ridiculously cute. By the way, if you haven't yet, be sure to subscribe and ring the notification bell. My name is Melannie. I'm a Christian dating coach for men and creator of Attracting Lasting Love Academy. Are you interested in a happy, lifelong relationship without mind games, without drama? Is that you right now? If that's what you're looking for, you're in the right place. So subscribe, ring the notification bell, give me a big thumbs up. And if you would like to learn more about getting coaching from me in my Academy, just go to coachmelannie.com. All right, are you ready for the next weird thing that women find very attractive? The third one is when you run your fingers through your hair. Like, if you're just thinking or whatever reason it is, when you run your fingers through your hair. I can't really explain why that's hot, but it really is. It's a very, very attractive thing. Maybe it's partially because it shows off your arm at the same time. I don't know. Just trust me on this. So if you feel the urge to run your fingers through your hair when you're around her, go for it. It's not a bad call. I mean, don't overdo it or it might, you know, look a little obvious and weird. But definitely, definitely an attractive thing. And just because I know I'm gonna get questions about this, what if you're bald? What if you don't have any hair? That's okay. There are tons— like, yes, you can definitely be attractive and still be bald. So Don't worry about that. That is not a game changer. However, if you do have hair and want to run your fingers through it, go for it. Okay, the next weird thing that girls find very attractive is when you have a crooked smile or really anything about you that's just a little bit different that stands out. We all have things about ourselves that we kind of notice, maybe we think makes us really unattractive. If you've ever felt that way, welcome to planet Earth. Everybody feels that way too, okay? So you're totally normal. And the truth is often the The things we're the most self-conscious about other people find ridiculously cute and endearing and adorable. It's what makes you you. Something I teach in my Academy is how to just rock what you've got. And that's really the secret to life, is to just celebrate what makes you you. So if you have something that is a little unique or a little original or a little different, just celebrate it and embrace it and realize that she could be thinking it is ridiculously attractive without you even knowing it. Now with that in mind, you might actually be thinking, "Okay, Melannie, so then if I should just rock what I've got and if I should just celebrate who I am, why am I having such a hard time finding the relationship I want?" Is that what you're thinking right now? That's a really good question. Whenever you're in a situation where you're just a decent guy, you're just doing your best, and you're really struggling to get that relationship you want, to attract the kind of woman you want, there are just a few missing pieces to this puzzle that you're missing, and I'm here to fill those in for you. I've put together some free training for you where you're going to discover how to completely transform the way women respond to you permanently, and how to make the kind of woman you're aching to hold fall passionately in love with you on the deepest level, like forever kind of love. Does that sound like something you'd like to know how to do? Well, good! That's what the training's for. Go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass I'll put a link in the description below and the link in the pinned comment. If you are serious about love and you're sick of feeling like you have no idea how to get it, it's time to get those answers, right? So go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass. I'll see you over there. Now the next weird thing men do that makes— that's just really cute to women is when you blush. Have you ever been around a girl when she blushes and it's just adorable? Well, that's kind of how she feels when you blush too. Far too many people think that, um, There's some lies going around, and honestly, I am really irritated with the people who keep spreading these lies that, "Oh, women only want men who are super cold and who have no emotion and who are always dominant," and all this just nonsense, okay? It's just complete nonsense. Toxic women want that because toxic women want a robot who makes them feel good. That's all I'm going to say. I'm not going to get on my soapbox right now. But you're being told a lot about how women just want guys who have no feelings and who are robots. It's not true at all. A woman who is tender, who is feminine, who is loving, who is nerdy just like you, who has weaknesses just like you, who sometimes feels shy and nervous and vulnerable just like you wants a man who does that as well. That's the man she wants to be her husband, the man she wants to be the father of her children. So, and by the way, if you have no idea what I'm talking about with toxic women, watch this video. It's a lifesaver. I'll put a link in the description below. Now, when you are vulnerable in a way like where you blush, or like I was saying earlier, when you cry, or when you get shy and nervous, that just shows you're human and it shows that you have feelings and that, you know, you're attracted to her and you think she's cute. And that just That's a really fast recipe to just melt her heart and make her even more attracted to you. So if you feel a little bit of blush going on, you know, it's not the end of the world. The next weird thing that women find attractive, this one really does sound weird when you say it out loud, is when you're a little bit dirty because you've been working hard. So for instance, if you have been doing some yard work and you're kind of sweaty and dirty, or maybe if you've been working on a car or something like that, it's ridiculously attractive. And I kind of can't even completely explain why. It's just like this gut thing. But part of it is also because it shows that you are a hard worker and you're capable and you're dedicated. Just like it's probably not very interesting or attractive to you when a woman, like, does nothing. It's pretty boring and uninteresting, right? However, if she has some drive, some ambition, some interest, some hobbies, some things she's good at, that makes her such a— so much more interesting person to be around, right? Well, the same is true for her. When she sees that you're hardworking and masculine and dedicated, it's very, very attractive to her. So, you know, if you happen to be doing something where you've been working hard and she sees you or whatever, you don't necessarily need to be embarrassed by it. She might be saying, "Holy cow, he's so hot!" I don't know, maybe I'll just throw this in as a little pro tip. Let's say you've been working hard. You know, maybe, like, take a picture and send it to her with some excuse or something. If you haven't seen this video on texting, I'll put a link in the description below. Talk a little bit more about that there. But don't be afraid to use those situations when they come up because it can be very, very attractive. And this leads us right into the next weird thing. And that is when you have calloused hands. A woman wants a man who is strong, who is capable, who's a hard worker. Again, people who do nothing all day are really boring people. But instead, when she sees that you're dedicated and a hard, good worker, that's very attractive. That's certainly going to make you a better husband and father. And so you don't need to be embarrassed if your hands are calloused or something. The truth is that's a very, very attractive trait. Okay, so the next weird thing surprises like everyone. But before we get to that one, I have a quick question. Are you enjoying this video and would you like more? The truth is I had a blast putting this video together for you. If you would like more, comment "yes" to let me know. That feedback really helps. And if you'd like another one, I need to know. So just comment "yes." And a huge shout out and thank you to those of you who are so amazing and generous with the Super Thanks. It touches my heart. It helps me continue to make these videos for you. So thank you a million times. You guys are absolute rock stars. And whether you have ever used the Super Thanks or not, if this video spoke to you, if you really liked it, and you would consider using the Super Thanks, it would mean a lot to me. So thank you. Okay, so the next weird thing that women find very attractive is when you have gray hair. There are a lot of men who start to get really self-conscious when you get some gray hair. Whether it's just like a little bit on these edges or whatever, or if it's all gray. The truth is there are a lot of women who are legitimately attracted to a man with gray hair. So if you've been worried that maybe you have to get touch-ups and get it covered up, you may just want to embrace it and just celebrate. Again, rock what you've got, be who you are, because there are many women who find that very attractive. And while we're on this topic, I'm actually going to answer a question I get a lot. I have so many men ask me, "Does what you teach work for men who are older as well?" And the truth is an absolute resounding yes. I purposefully designed it that way, so much so that at least half the men who are in my Academy— there are hundreds of men in my Academy at this point, and at least half of them are over 50, well over 50, and their results have been amazing. Once you have the right secrets and the right keys, which I lay out for you in a very easy-to-understand way, you can get results ridiculously ridiculously fast. So yes, everything I teach works ridiculously well for men who are older as well. That includes clothes, that includes hairstyles, all of these things have been carefully designed to make you the most attractive version of yourself. So even if some of what I teach you're like, "I don't know about that," don't worry. This is what I'm good at. It works. The next weird thing men do that women find attractive is when you open up to her and when you are vulnerable. We already touched on this a little bit, like with blushing or maybe crying in in front of her, being shy and nervous. It also can go deeper than that though, where you just open up and you share your thoughts, you share your dreams, you share things about your past or about how you feel. Opening up to someone like that truly helps us fall in love with the real them. And in a marriage relationship, a lifelong, a forever love situation, you want two people who can open up to each other like that, who can share things. And when she sees you're willing to do that, that helps her see your soul. It helps her see who you are as a person. And again, a non-toxic woman, someone who's tender, who's loving, who's authentic, she wants a man who's tender and loving and authentic as well. And so she doesn't want this, "Ugh!" you know, caveman who has, like, no emotion. Again, that's what toxic women want. Someone who's real and authentic and sincere. She wants you to be as well. So opening up to her like that is ridiculously adorable. Very attractive. Now, you probably want to wait to open up too much until you, like, know each other really well, you're, like, in a serious relationship. Don't pour your guts out to somebody you just met. That makes people feel awkward. But instead, as that trust builds, absolutely, it's very attractive to open up to her. Okay, the next weird thing men do that women find attractive is when you do home stuff like cleaning or cooking or doing the dishes. These things are attractive for so many reasons. It again shows that you're capable. It also though shows that you're a team player. It shows that you are concerned. It shows that you are willing to be supportive and help. And there's just something really attractive about a guy who knows how to do those things. For instance, maybe cooking her a meal or something. That doesn't mean you have to clean everything and cook everything. That would be out of bounds. Maybe not the best idea. However, the fact that you're willing to and that you're able to is very, very attractive. Anytime we can be proactive about quality of life, it's a very attractive thing. Okay, the next weird thing men do that women find very attractive, this one really is going to surprise a lot of people, is when you like romantic things too. For instance, liking chick flicks. It's really cute when a guy likes chick flicks as well, when you like cliché romantic moments. A lot of guys can feel embarrassed about that and feel like maybe that's super cheesy or maybe that's not a masculine thing to do, okay, throw that trash out the window, okay? Romance and those cute moments are really adorable. Now that doesn't mean you have to enjoy chick flicks. However, allowing yourself to embrace liking romantic things and express that to her and celebrate that and share that with her, that's ridiculously attractive. That helps keep the spark alive in a relationship forever and helps helps make the relationship exciting and fun and very, very loving. So never feel like you have to, like, hide that side of you or like there's something weird with you. No, that's a cute, adorable thing that women find very attractive. Speaking of romance, are you wondering how you're going to find a non-toxic woman? The kind of woman who is going to celebrate these things about you, who's going to be completely twitterpated and wants to just adore you forever? Are you wondering how to do that? The truth is I am the perfect person to teach you, to help you master finding the love of your life and making her fall so passionately in love with you that you get to wake up with her by your side forever. I help men do this 24/7. That is exactly what I designed my Academy to train you how to do. Now you will learn more about that as well as those 3 secrets I mentioned earlier in my free masterclass. 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