12 Questions Women Ask When They Like You 😉 (She's Hitting On You)

12 questions women ask when they like you. I mean, if she's saying these things, she's probably hitting on you. Stop and think about that for just a second. What if the questions she asks can reveal that she has feelings for you? Well, the truth is they totally can. If you don't know what to look for though, if you aren't paying attention to it, and you don't act, she's going to think you're not interested in her. It's going to feel like rejection and she's going to be embarrassed and she's going to move on. But if you know how to tell that she's basically admitting that she likes you, everything changes. The good news is you're here. Now you get to be one of the men who understands women in a way most men never will. So if that sounds like something you would like, make sure you keep watching. Not only will I be sharing 12 things women ask when they like you in this video, I'm also going to be sharing at the end some quick approaching tips. Because again, these questions mean that she likes you, she wants you to make a move, she wants you to approach. So make sure you stay till the end of the video so you catch those tips as well. And if you are done with sleazy mind games and tricks and you just want a wholesome, appropriate approach to dating and relationships, good news! You're in the right place. That's what I'm all about, so make sure you subscribe. As we dive into these questions, these things women say when they like you, there's something I want you to know right from the start. Women do not say things like this as a form of manipulation. Maybe there are some who do, but just avoid toxic women in general, okay? Instead, when she does things like this, it's a woman's way of being brave without totally risking rejection and humiliation. And that's part of the reason why we have things like flirting, is we can kind of see if the other person's interested without being too obvious. So when you learn how to read what she's saying accurately, you're honoring her courage rather than taking advantage of it. So it's not a manipulation thing. All right, so the first question that women may ask you they want you to approach when they're attracted to you is something like, "What was your first impression of me?" This is a fun question, a little bit dangerous, but it reveals that she cares what you think about her. She's trying to find out what your impression of her was. She's hoping it was a favorable one. She's hoping it's because you think she's attractive. You know, we all kind of want that person we're attracted to to, like, have that spark of attraction that perhaps we felt as well. So it's really not a question so much that's like, "Hey, I'm just curious what you thought." Instead, it's more likely that it's, "So, uh, what was your first impression of me?" Now with each of these questions, I also wanted to give you some potential ways you could answer the questions. Because, you know, it's good to know the questions, but you also need to know what to say. However, full disclosure with this, some of these answers I will share with you got a little bit flirty. And they're great and you should use them, but maybe don't use them if this is, like, your first time meeting her. It might be a little too much. But if you've seen each other several times at this point, okay, then yeah, maybe you can be a little bit more flirtatious with it. So just keep that in mind as we go through it. So what do you say if she asks you, "Well, what was your first impression of me?" The best thing to do in this situation is just be honest, be kind, you know? Don't say anything rude, obviously, but just be honest. If you wanted to be a little bit flirty, which is one of my personal favorite things to do— Guys, the speed at which I wrote down the flirtatious replies was shocking. Like, it came really, really easy to me. But if you wanted to say something flirtatious, you could just say something like, "Oh, I could tell you were trouble," or "Definitely good." That one's a little less flirtatious, but still a nice compliment. It lets her know, "Oh, he, you know, likes what he saw. Maybe he kind of likes me." Those are good ways for you to pursue her. Second question she might ask when she likes you, when she wants you to approach, is, "Why are you looking at me like that?" We've seen that in movies. Maybe she notices that you have been looking at her a little longer than normal. Maybe you kind of have that little bit longer eye contact If you've heard me talk about body language, that's not going to surprise you. But basically, if she's just, "Why are you looking at me like that?" This reveals that she's conscious of your gaze. She notices it and it has an effect on her. Now, keep everything in context. If she's saying it like she's mad or if she's saying it kind of unkindly or something like that, okay, she's just whatever. But if it's kind of Maybe she's a little bit nervous about it, a little bit bubbly about it. Maybe she's giggling a little bit or nervously unsure. Those can all be signs that it's like, "Oh, why is he looking at me like that? And does he think I'm cute?" So how do you reply to that? Well, if you would like to be flirtatious, maybe just say something like, "Well, you keep distracting me." Or, "Maybe I like what I see." Something else that women will say when they want you to ask them out, when they want you to approach, is something like, "Do you like something?" So hiking, musicals, dancing. She may just ask you if you like a certain activity because she wants to do it with you. So let's say you're having a conversation. "Oh my goodness, I love this so much, yadda yadda yadda. Do you like it too?"— that's one way she can connect with you. It's also, it makes it really easy for you to just say, "Yeah, I do. Do you want to go sometime?" So the way you reply to that is if you do enjoy that thing, just say, "Yes, I do. We should do that sometime. Are you free on Friday?" She's making an invitation as easy as possible. So if you're interested, take that and Do it! Another thing, this is a little bold, but some women will say this. Particularly if you kind of have a good playful relationship but you've never actually been out, she may just say something like, "So why haven't you asked me out yet?" There's really no reading between the lines to do here. She's not just saying that out of curiosity. A woman who does not want a man to ask her out is not going to say that. So if you want to ask her out, now's your chance! Do it! A really good reply for this would be something like, "You know, clearly something is wrong with me. Let's remedy that. Are you free this Friday?" This keeps it kind of playful and casual and lighthearted, but also accomplishes the goal of asking her out. Something else that a woman might say that's kind of flirty when she's interested in you is something like, "Are you always this charming?" This is a compliment disguised as a question. It's a way for her to compliment you, let you know that she thinks you're charming. That's really what she's saying. It can also be a way for her to kind of gauge, "So, like, do you act this way around everyone, or is it just with me? Do I have a special effect on you?" So some good flirtatious replies would be, "Well, maybe you just have a good effect on me," or, "Maybe you bring out the best in me." This is fabulous for flirting because, again, it's pursuing, it's coming from a place of confidence, and it's letting her know that, yes, there is something special about her that you are feeling. Our next question is very similar. "Do you always make girls laugh this much?" When she's asking that, one, She is acknowledging the fact that she enjoys being with you, she laughs when she's with you. Which, by the way, when women are attracted to a man, his sense of humor becomes very attractive. Like, that research shows us that when we're attracted to a man, we just think he's a lot more funny. So that reveals attraction. In addition to that though, this is kind of a way for her to gauge, "So does he just, like, have girls everywhere he goes? Is he someone who's not really serious about a relationship, or is he someone who, you know, maybe would be interested in something more? So there's a lot more to this question than just a subtle compliment. It's also her trying to figure out what kind of guy you are and how many other women may or may not be involved in your life. Now one of my favorite ways to reply to this one, this one would be a bit much if this is the first time you met her. But if you are genuinely interested in her and you're ready to pursue, this is confident masculine pursuit in action. You could just say, "I'm not really sure. I don't pay attention to every girl." This lets her know that she's special in your eyes, that there's something about her that you care about, that you're not just a player going out and trying to get the attention of every woman you see. Instead, you actually care about connecting with her. Okay, the next thing women will ask when they're interested in you, they want you to approach, is classic. It's something we casually say, but we mean something more. We just do as humans whenever we say this. This question is, "Well, did you miss me?" There are a million scenarios in which this can show up. Maybe there's an event that she didn't make it to that you went to, or maybe she left the room for a minute, or something like that. If she's saying, "Did you miss me?" it's because she wants to know if she's important to you. Did you actually miss her? We all want to know that we're so important to another person that they would actually miss us if we were gone. So yes, it's a casual, playful thing, but playfulness is the heart of appropriate and uplifting flirting. So If you wanted to do a little flirting back, you could just say, "Is it that obvious?" Or, "Terribly." Or, "You know I did." These are all ways to just kind of flirt back and let her know, yeah, you did miss her. You do appreciate when she's there. Our next question she'll ask when she likes you, this is something that you would ask when she would ask when you're having a conversation and you bring up something maybe that she mentioned 2 weeks ago, or you happen to remember the name of her dog or her favorite color or something like that, she might say something like, "Wow, you remembered that?" And express that she's impressed or shocked that you actually remembered that about her. What this is, is this is a sign of some of that emotional connection happening. We all want to matter for more than our looks. We want to matter as a person. Yes, we want our looks to be appealing, of course. But we also want to matter as a person. And so when somebody actually remembers something about us, that makes us feel important and seen and understood and wanted. And so when someone you're attracted to shows that they remember something about you, it touches you. So a good reply to that could be, "Well, of course!" Nothing super flirtatious there. Just, "Yes, I do remember." That one was hard to think up. I know, you're welcome. I went to the hard work for you. If you wanted, you could just give a little explanation about why. "Of course I remember because such and such." This next question is one that shows that she's trying to get to know a little bit more about you in a romantic way. Way. This is, "What would you do if you liked a girl?" This is her trying to understand what kind of guy you are. Maybe she's kind of hoping that you're doing those things for her already. It's a good way— You don't just ask something like that to just anyone. So if you would like some flirtatious lines, again, don't say these things unless you are actually interested in her, okay? Like, Don't do this too soon because it's very forward. However, if you do want to pursue her, use these lines. They are fabulous ways to pursue her as a confident masculine man. So if she says something like, "What would you do if you liked a girl?" you could just say something like, "Well, pay close attention." Or you could just say, "Can't you tell?" That's really cute. Those are the kinds of lines when a guy says it to you, you're just like, "Oh, I like him even more than I did 5 seconds ago." Something to keep in mind with this question all the questions, is one question alone does not guarantee that she loves you. We have to remember to keep everything in context when we're trying to gauge how someone feels about anything, whether it's attraction or anything else. You need to keep the entire interaction in mind. So does she say these things with a warm smile, maybe some flirty body language? If you haven't seen my videos on body language, Women's Body Language of Attraction, you need to watch those too. Just pay attention to how she says these things and how often she expresses attraction. If it's just one random question, doesn't necessarily mean anything. But if you're getting those attraction signs from the entire interaction, that's golden. Honestly, one of the most important skills you can ever learn is just how to understand women in general. This is more than just the signs of attraction. It's how women think, what they need and desire to fall in love, to want a relationship with you. The men who understand women are the men women are the most drawn to. They're the most irresistible to women. And I'm not talking about in a manipulative way. I don't teach that, and I never would. I mean in an authentic way, that makes her feel deeply connected to you. Would you like to understand women more in that authentic way? I've created some free training for you where I'm going to reveal to you the 3 things women must have to fall in love with you. And they're not super overwhelming. It's not about changing who you are. But if you don't understand it, you're really going to struggle in love. When you do understand it, everything can transform very, very quickly. So that's why I created it for you. Go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass or check out the link in the description below. Our next question women will ask when they're attracted to you is another one of those where she's kind of trying to gauge if she's special to you. She's trying to assess, like, is he someone who just plays with the hearts of a lot of women? Like, what kind of guy is he? This question is, "Are you popular with women. Now this can also be a compliment disguised as a question. She's expressing that she thinks maybe you're the kind of guy that girls really are attracted to. So, you know, that's kind of nice. Take that compliment. But again, she's seeking reassurance that you're not just somebody who flirts with every woman you see. So if you wanted a flirtatious reply that is good for pursuing. This is again, you know, make sure you actually want to pursue her before you say this. But you could say, "Maybe, but I really only want the attention of one." And, you know, she's gonna hope it's her. She's gonna think it's really cute. Another variation of that would be, "Well, I can be, but I really only have my eye on one." That's like, "Oh, what? Oh my goodness, this guy is so hot!" She's gonna think about that for the rest of her life. If you do get married, she's gonna tell your children and grandchildren about it because it's so cute. Another question she might ask when she wants you to approach, she's attracted to you, is, "What kind of woman do you think would be good for you?" Honestly, the only answer to this is to answer honestly. I know, another hard one, another hard one. Keeping in mind that you don't have to share everything anything that's personal in your heart about this. When a woman asks a question like that, it's usually because she's kind of hoping she's, like, got some of those traits, you know? She's hoping that she's the kind of woman that you think would be really good for you, the kind of woman you want. So it's the kind of question that really reveals attraction for you. Our next question is just kind of another relationship question. Because women who are interested in relationships, they want to know if you're the kind of guy who thinks deep enough to think about relationships too. Because a lot of people out there don't think about how to have a good relationship. So a question she might ask you is, "What's a deal breaker for you?" Because just in case you've not thought about this before, you have to know what your deal breakers are. This is something I teach in my Academy. As much as you need to know what you want, you also need to know what you absolutely will not tolerate. So it's a very good question to know about someone. Really, the only way to answer it is just honestly. So by the way, if you haven't thought about your deal breakers yet, you really need to. Now that you know 12 questions she'll ask when she is interested in you, let's talk a little bit about some approaching tips. Just some quick tips that will help you approach well and help that approach be successful. The good The good news is if you're to this point you have hopefully already noticed signs that she's attracted to you, signs that she wants you to make a move. So that's good. You can usually move forward with confidence at that point. So my first tip for you is be clear that this is a date, not just hanging out. This is going to help you be seen and help you just be the masculine leader in this situation. It's going to help her respect you so much more, and it's just going to help clear up any kind of confusion. So it's not just, "Hey, you know, you want to just whatever?" It's, "Hey, I'd like to take you out. Can we do something this day?" Be clear about it. Tip number 2 when approaching a woman: always ask for her number. Never give her yours. Masculinity and femininity are irresistible to each other. So if you want a feminine woman, you need to step up as the masculine man. And when a man gives you his number, you feel like he just passed the masculine role on to you. That's a good way to kill attraction fast. I'm not saying you can't recover from that situation, I'm just saying don't get into it in the first place. So never give her your number if Instead, ask her for yours— or ask her for hers. This shows that you are confident, it shows you have self-respect, it shows that you're the masculine leader, and it shows that you are pursuing her. And a high-quality woman, she wants that from you, she craves that from you. Tip #3, text her within 24 hours. Hopefully a lot sooner than that. Text her within 24 hours. Or she's going to think you're an airhead or not interested. She is not going to respect you. A high-quality woman isn't into games, okay? She's not like, "You must wait X amount of time before you text me back." No, she's like, "Grow up, boy. If you're interested in me, text me." You don't want her to think you're an airhead who forgot about her. So text her within 24 hours, ideally pretty early on in those 24 hours. Tip number 4 is to remember your body language when you're approaching her. Shoulders back, smile broad, deep breath. You can do this, my friend. You've totally got this. Guess what? I had Chipotle for lunch today. I love Chipotle! This is not sponsored, but if you're Chipotle and you would like to sponsor me, you just let me know. I had a quesadilla with that new honey something chicken. I can't remember what it's called, and it's so good. So our word for the end of the video today It's quesadilla because, you know, why not? I just had to celebrate my chipotle today. It's worth celebrating. Just being real. Our next line is actually— or the question. Our next question. Our next question is abso— I can't talk. Okay, let's try that again. I'm a romantic. Can you tell? It's not obvious, right? The good news is most women love cheesy lines like that, okay? If you liked this video, you will also love this video, which is 29 Things Women Say When They Like You. This is perfect if you want to know what to listen for when she likes you instead of specific body language things to look for. I will link that video for you. Thank you so much again, my amazing friend. Have an amazing day, and I'll see you in the next one.