12 Signs She Wants You To Ask Her Out! 😉

12 signs she wants you to ask her out. In the next few minutes, you are going to learn something most men will never know. And it has the power to totally transform your experience with love and dating and relationships. There are ways without even asking to know how she is feeling about you and what she's thinking. And one of the best ways to avoid rejection and embarrassment is to look for the signs that she's attracted to you, she's interested in you, she wants you to ask her out before you ever make a move. This is going to help you feel so much more calm and so much more confident. And the best part is this has nothing to do with mind games or tricks. As a Christian dating coach, I would never teach you that stuff because it's just Awful. It really just comes down to becoming aware of how women act when they're attracted to you. The things she naturally does, often without even realizing it, that just reveals she's attracted to you. Most of us are aware of things like how people act when they feel upset or happy or nervous or angry or hungry or whatever it is. We've learned how to identify, "Oh, that person is feeling this emotion." Now you get to learn learn how women act when they are attracted to you. And I think you can easily realize just how powerful that is. And a high-value woman, she is not going to pursue you in a masculine way. She wants to protect her femininity and protect your masculinity. However, she is also going to want to show that she's invested, she's interested, and so she's going to be as open as possible without outright asking you out. Because once she asks you out, she has stepping into that masculine zone. And high-value women have too much respect for themselves, their femininity, and your masculinity to do that. So if you are looking for a no mind games approach to dating and love and relationships, make sure you hit subscribe, and let's get started with the 12 signs she wants you to ask her out. You ready? Number 1 is that she looks at you differently. This is so subtle but so powerful. Eye contact can reveal attraction pretty quickly. Her expressions may be a little bit softer when she's looking at you. Maybe her eye contact will be just a little bit longer than is necessary. You may feel a certain warmth when she looks at you. We've all seen that in movies, right? Where there's that warmth or there's that longing or that connection through eyes. And so if you pay attention, because if you're not paying attention you can completely miss it, but pay attention. And if you notice that or even Maybe if you just feel like, "Whoa, this kind of feels like a movie," that's a really good sign that she's feeling that attraction, she's feeling that connection, she wants to hold that connection with you. The second sign she wants you to ask her out is that she makes it easy for you to talk to her. Again, high-value women, they're not interested in playing hard to get, they're not interested in mind games and all that stupid stuff. She wants to make it easy for for you to talk to her and to ask her out. This means she's not going to just be polite, she's going to be engaged. There's a difference. You know, we can all do small talk, we can all, you know, courtesy laugh at the right times. But if she's engaged, then that shows that this is important to her. She cares about this. Some ways to identify if she's engaged are that she asks you questions back. So if you ask her questions, she asks the questions back, or maybe she even initiates some of those questions. You notice that conversations don't feel one-sided. You've been in that situation, right? Where you're talking to someone and it's like talking to a brick wall. It is so painful. That is a very one-sided conversation. But if it's going both ways and it's interesting and it's fun, that's a huge sign that she's enjoying interacting with you. Another sign that she's engaged in talking with you is that she lingers instead of rushing off. You know, there's a polite amount of time to have a conversation or to stay in a specific area. But if we have things to do or if we're not interested, particularly if a high-value woman wants to not give you false hope, she may just, you know, move on. But if she lingers and she doesn't have to, maybe the conversation is kind of wrapping up and she just doesn't quite want to leave, those are good signs that she's present. This is huge, so pay close attention. A woman who is not interested, she keeps things short. She doesn't want to waste your time, she doesn't want to give you false hopes. However, a woman who is interested, she keeps things going. She keeps the conversation going. Another fabulous sign that she really does want you to ask her out is that she creates one-on-one moments with you. This is true even in group settings. She's looking for ways, if you're at a party or some kind of gathering, if you're at church, whatever whatever it is, she looks for ways to kind of pull you aside and just have a one-on-one conversation with you. You may also notice that she focuses more on you than she does others. Again, even in a group setting, if the focus, the conversation, if it's kind of aimed towards you, that's a good sign that you are the one she is thinking about. And then she just finds moments, maybe even outside the group setting, to connect with just you. These are good ways for her to try to get your attention, to try to connect with you. It's also a good way for her to say, "Hmm," in her mind, for her to think about, "Would I enjoy a one-on-one situation like a date with this guy? Would that be fun?" Another really funny-sounding sign that she wants you to ask her out is that she laughs easily around you. This is especially true when you're not actually being very funny. We all have those moments. Except for me. No, definitely me too. Where we say something and we think it's funny or even we know it's actually not very funny. However, research has shown us over and over again that women think the men they're attracted to have a great sense of humor. And so if she's smiling a lot, if she laughs at your jokes a lot, especially if you notice she's laughing at you more than everybody else, that means she's not just a laughy person, but that she thinks you're funny. Maybe you say something that's actually really cheesy, is not very funny, and she still thinks it's hilarious. That's a fabulous sign that she's attracted to you. In addition to that, if she just kind of has this light, positive attitude around you, she smiles a lot, there's this positive, happy energy when she's around you, those are good signs that she likes being around you and she would like to be around you a whole lot more. This can be a really good sign of emotional attraction. And emotional attraction is something that must be there in order for love to blossom and to stay forever. As a matter of fact, in my Academy, Attracting Lasting Love Academy, where I teach you how to find and attract the girl of your dreams and keep that love permanently, emotional attraction is one of our main pillars. So if you see signs of emotional attraction, that's a huge win. The next sign that she wants you to ask her out is that she asks you personal questions. Now obviously I don't mean fake questions she shouldn't be asking, even if it's just because they're awkward. But she asks questions that are not just shallow. "Hey, how are you? What do you do for work?" "The weather sure is nice today." You know? No, she goes deeper. She's trying to get to know you and understand you. She may ask you why you enjoy certain things or what your favorite this or that is. As you become closer, she may want to know about your faith or your values or your goals or your relationship mindset and ideals. She's asking herself, "Could this man possibly be a good husband someday?" And so if she's going a little bit deeper when you talk, again, in ways that are not prying, that's a good sign that she's thinking about where this could maybe go and probably wants to just get to know you better. So she wants you to ask her out. Now remember with this sign and all the signs I'm sharing in this video, do keep things in context. This is something I teach my clients in my Academy. You want to make sure that you're looking for multiple signs of attraction. One sign, if all you're seeing is one sign, then that's more a personality thing or a situational thing. So make sure you're looking for multiple signs and keep them in context. Is she asking you a lot of questions because you're at some boring work dinner and she has nothing else to talk about, okay, keep that in context. That's just people talking. But if she continuously wants to know more about you, that's a fabulous sign that she's attracted to you, she's interested, and wants you to ask her out. Make sense? So look for several signs. I would say 3 to 5 is a fabulous place to to be. And do keep things in context. The next sign that she wants you to ask her out is a huge one. Pay close attention to this. This sign is that she gives you openings. She makes it easy for you to ask her out. When she gives you that opening, take it! It's kind of sad how many men miss this because they just don't recognize it for the massive green flag that it is. So if she says something like, "We should try that sometime." Or, "Oh, I've been wanting to go there." Or, "That sounds really fun. I'd love to do that." These are all huge openings for you to just say, "Great! You want to go on Friday?" When a woman says things like that, that's not just conversation. That's an invitation. And here's why. Let me explain why. As a woman, you are aware that there is a huge possibility men are going to ask you out that you don't want to go out with. And can I just say, as a woman, that is a terrible feeling. You don't want to crush him, you don't want to hurt him, you are aware that he's going to make someone an amazing husband, but you just aren't interested. And so high-value women get good at trying to avoid ever being in that situation. She's not going to create an opening for a man she's not interested in. However, she really, really, really wants that handsome, awesome guy to ask her out. And so she really wants to make an opening for him to let him know, "Yes, dude! I want to go out with you!" And so— she may not say it like that, but that might be what she's thinking. And so she's gonna make it as easy as possible for that guy. Now again, if you're in a group setting or if she says that to those types of things to everyone. Keep it in context. But usually if she's saying, "Oh, that sounds so fun! I'd love to go do that!" "Hey, we should do that sometime!" That is female knowledge 101. I am letting him know that I want him to ask me out. The next sign that she is attracted to you, she wants you to ask her out, is that she mirrors your energy. This is something we do as humans without even realizing it. And research shows us women in particular tend to mirror when they are attracted. So if you kind of are being playful, well, she'll be playful too. If you start to open up, well, then she opens up too. If you flirt a little bit with her, well, she kind of leans into it and embraces that as well. This is her meeting you halfway. This is showing that there's a connection, and there's chemistry. Now before we go any further, I want to give you another incredible tool for your dating and relationship tool belt. Would it be okay if I gave you that? Of course it would, right? Okay. Have you ever wondered what it is that makes a woman fall in love with you? And like, what keeps that love long-term? Because the truth is you can see signs of attraction, you can go out, but it's really disheartening when you go on a few dates and then it just fades away, or when maybe you're struggling to even just get that first date. So what is it that captures her attention and makes her say, "This is the man I want to be with forever"? If you've ever wondered this and if you want to know how to claim lifelong love, then I invite you to join me in my free masterclass where I'm going to be sharing 3 things you must have to create that connection and create that foundation for the love that you deserve. So if you're looking for a loving, affectionate, feminine woman who respects you and admires you and wants to adore you forever, you really need to know this information. So go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass or check out the link in the description below. The truth is you can't have too many tools in your tool belt, and this is going to be one of the most important ones you ever, ever use. So check it out! The next sign that she wants you to ask her out is that she kind of keeps putting herself in your orbit, so to speak. She, again, is trying to make herself available. She's trying to be engaging and create openings for you. And so she'll just kind of be where you are. For instance, in one of my videos where I talked about signs she likes you at the gym, I mentioned she may kind of hover around the equipment you you use or you are currently using. Maybe if you go to events she'll sort of be in the same area of the event you are. Maybe she'll even purposefully join groups that she knows you're a part of. Maybe at church she'll try and sit next to you. She just kind of randomly, but not at all randomly, ends up where you are. And she finds reasons to interact with you Whenever she can. This is not just coincidence, this is intention. Even if she's maybe not thinking, "I'm going to follow that man around," that's really not what she's thinking. She's thinking, "Oh, he's cute. He's over there. Mm, I think I want to go over there too." The next sign that she wants you to ask her out is that she responds warmly. This includes over text as well as in person. So in person, she gets excited when she sees you. Over text, she may reply quickly. But not just quickly, it's also warm. Exclamation points, thoughtful replies, cute emojis, smiley faces, things like that. She's being warm and inviting. She may be really playful when she responds to you, showing her personality rather than just a polite reply. She will also, again, try to to continue the conversation instead of just ending it. So like, have you ever texted someone and they give you like a 1 or 2 word reply with a period? That's usually somebody who's not interested. But if she's like, "Oh my goodness, so happy to hear from you!" smileys, emojis, and playfulness, okay, those are all fabulous signs that she is very, very happy that she got a text from you. Another green flag that she is interested is that she doesn't mention other men, especially romantically. A woman who's interested in you is not going to talk about other guys. She's not going to tell you about other people she's been dating. If she's talking about that in front of you, that can actually be a sign that you're in the friend zone. Now thankfully, I did just do a video about how to escape the friend zone, so I will link that for you in the description below. However, when she doesn't mention other guys, she doesn't talk about other guys she's dating, this can be a sign that she's kind of holding this space open for you. She's not interested in other guys, she's interested in getting to know you. The next sign that she is attracted to you, she wants you to ask her out, is that she invests effort in how she shows up for you. She may just look a little slightly more put together. She may have more intentional energy. This shows that she cares how you view her. She cares about being attractive enough to catch your attention. She wants to look nice for you. So if you happen to notice that she tends to put in a little effort, a little extra effort if she's going to see you, or maybe if she tries to like fix her hair and how she looks when you're around, that's a fabulous sign that that she's really hoping she looks attractive for you. The next sign she definitely wants you to ask her out is that she makes it clear that she is available. Again, high quality women are not going to do that for a man they're not interested in. They're just not. I mean, women who just want to get attention from as many men as possible will, but I would not suggest dating those women. I'm talking about high quality women, good women, loyal women. Some of the ways she'll make it clear she's available is she will perhaps mention that she's single. Yes, when she is attracted to a man, she wants that man to know she's single. She definitely does. Now she needs to be tactful about this. You know, you don't want to just say, "Hey, did you know I'm single?" because then that makes it really awkward. So she will find ways to subtly fit it into conversation. She may also talk about what wanting a relationship. This just lets the guy know right up front, "Hey, I am open to relationships. I am open to going on dates. Some women aren't, but I am." This is a way, again, for her to remove any obstacles that could keep you from asking her out. This is how she creates an opening. This is how she's inviting and encouraging by just letting you know, "Hey, by the way, I'm single and I'm looking for a relationship, and so if you want to ask me out, go right ahead." Mm-hmm. I swear this mic is shorter. It's definitely not that I'm taller, because that's just never gonna happen. I've accepted my fate. You know, come to think of it, that's actually kind of funny. Because I feel like most people, when they meet someone in real life that they've seen on camera, I feel like the thing most people think is, "Oh, you're so much taller than you look on camera." That is not the case for me. I feel like even on camera I look short. Most of it's probably the placement of my shelf, but still, I'm just gonna be short. In choir, I was in an Easter choir for Easter, it was awesome. But for choir, they were like, "Oh, we're gonna put you in rows of tallest to shortest to tallest." I got put in front of people who were taller than me. It was very hard to see, it was like, "Hi guys, I'm here too." Oh well, it's fine. No, I was put behind people who were taller than me. That makes more sense now. I think I said in front. Behind. I was behind people who were taller than me. Never mind. Okay, okay, secret end of the video club. I was trying to think of a good word, and I'm trying to think of words I haven't used before, and it's getting kind of hard at this point. I've done so many videos. So we're going with aqua because I think that's a nice color, and I think we've done all the normal colors, you know, like pink and blue and brown and yellow and stuff like that. So we're going with aqua. So if you watched to the end, comment aqua. Never forget that you're amazing! Thank you so much for watching, my amazing friend! If you enjoyed this video, you will also enjoy this video, which is Signs She Wants You to Make a Move. I will link it for you here. Thanks so much, my amazing friend! Have an amazing day, and I will see you in the next one.