12 Signs She Wants You to Make a Move 😍 (Don't Miss These)

Here are 12 signs she wants you to make a move. Are you wondering if that gorgeous woman that you're totally crushing on, if maybe she's just waiting for you to make a move? You really want to ask her out. You want to get to know her better. You want to take things to the next level. But maybe you feel some fear of rejection or fear of embarrassment. Imagine instead that you can clearly and confidently tell that she's totally attracted to you. She's very interested, and she really, really wants you to make a move. Can you imagine how different that would feel from the fear and anxiety you might be experiencing now? Well, I've got good news for you. In this video, I'm going to be sharing with you how you can clearly and confidently understand that she's attracted to you and she's wanting you to make that move. Understanding these signs makes all the difference in boosting your confidence And helping to ensure your success. And just in case you're wondering, this definitely is not about a mind game. I'm not talking about the kind of women who are testing you. Those are women you really shouldn't have anything to do with. This is not about a woman who plays games with you and sees if you'll chase her, see if you'll try harder. Those are toxic traits. I would never recommend pursuing a woman like that. Instead, this is about learning how to read the natural and often subconscious signals that she's already sending. When we're attracted to someone, when we like them, we react in certain ways.

We just do.

We can't even help it. And when you know what to look for, you can tell that she's attracted to you and that she likes you. The more you practice reading these signs, the more automatic it will become to you until you really don't even have to think about it anymore. So the more you know, the better, because that gives you a lot of knowledge to work with. So make sure you stay until the end of the video because I do have 12 of these for you. Real quick as we dive in, if this is your first time watching, make sure you subscribe and ring that notification bell. My name is Melannie. I am your guide to wholesome, authentic dating and relationship advice. No mind games or tricks. So if you are looking for a passionate, connected, authentic, lifelong love, then make sure you subscribe. Let's dive into the first sign that she is just waiting for you to make a move, that she really, really wants you to. Number 1 is that she hints at doing things she enjoys. It's pretty common in conversation to maybe just occasionally mention something that we enjoy doing. But here's something a lot of men don't understand about women. Women want to be pursued by you in a masculine way. She wants you to be the masculine pursuer. But her feminine energy is all about being receptive and warm and nurturing. And so she's going to want to pursue you in a feminine way. She's going to want to make it as easy as possible for you To ask her out, for you to make a move, for you to understand that she's interested and she wants you to step up in that masculine way. So a feminine woman, she's going to do something like hint at things she enjoys doing, hoping that you'll be like, oh, hey, maybe we should do that together. So yes, if it just happens occasionally, that's conversation. But if she brings up things she enjoys doing frequently or brings up the same thing more than once, this can be a really good sign that she's hoping you'll take the hint. Oh my goodness, I love Mexican food. I haven't had Mexican food for a while. I'd love to do that again.

That's what she's thinking. That's not what she's doing, but that's what she's thinking.

That's your cue. Are you gonna ask me to go? I just told you what I wanna do. Are you gonna ask me? So notice, pay attention how—

Sorry, I'm laughing at myself.

So if you notice that she frequently brings up things she enjoys, she might be hinting. The next sign that she's attracted to you, she's interested, she wants you to ask her out and make a move, is that you have her attention. What I mean by this is that she is paying attention to you instead of everything else. Life is busy. We all have a lot of things running through our brain at the same time. And when we pay attention to something and we focus on that, it reveals that it matters to us, it's important to us. So an example of this could be that she puts her phone away. Instead of, you know, keep checking her phone or scrolling on her phone, she's focused on you. Instead of, you know, looking around the room, noticing everything else, she's focused on you. Yes, if something loud happens or something, she might look around the room. So don't freak out if she does look around the room. But if instead of going and doing other things, she's focusing on you, that means you're the one She's thinking about you. You're the one that's important to her. Another example of you having her attention is you can tell through her body language that she's focused on you. If her body language is closed off, maybe she's even turned away, okay, probably not super comfortable right now. But if her body language is open and she's engaged, if she's kind of pointed towards you with her body, these are small body language cues that reveal That you are the one who has her attention. That's a big deal! Sign number 3 is similar to sign number 1. And this is that she hints at having free time. So we already mentioned that she'll hint about things she enjoys doing, but she may even just, oh, man, I don't have any plans for this weekend. I wish I had something fun to do. This is another fabulous example of her trying to show interest in a feminine way. A feminine, high-value woman is not going to want to step into the masculine zone. Instead, she's going to want you to be the masculine leader. Because if she starts out as the masculine leader, there's a very high likelihood she will stay the masculine leader in the relationship. Feminine women aren't interested in that. Instead, she wants you to be the masculine leader, but she wants to take that very nurturing, receptive role. She wants to express that she's interested and make this as easy for you as possible. So one way she might do that is just by letting you know, I am free this day. If you want to do something, you could ask me right now. The next sign that she wants you to make a move is that she laughs around you a lot. Now, I don't mean laughing at you. That's just plain rude. But as funny as it sounds, research has shown us repeatedly That when a woman is attracted to a man, she thinks his sense of humor is amazing. And so she may laugh around you a lot more. She may think all of your jokes are funny. In addition to that, when we are attracted to someone, we have nervous energy, right? And for many women, that turns into giggles or nervous laughter. Another kind of body language type thing that women will sometimes do is when they are attracted to a man, they want his I mean, obviously. And so they sometimes will laugh more or laugh a little bit louder without even realizing it because they want to get his attention. So there are several reasons why she may be laughing around you. But if she laughs around you a lot, that can be a fabulous sign that she is very attracted to you. And it's probably time to make a move. The next sign that she's attracted to you is that she fixes her jewelry and/or her clothes when she's around you. This is a very common kind of gut reaction. Oh my goodness, that attractive person's there. Okay, do I look good? Am I good? It's one of those subtle things that most people don't really stop to think about. But it's a body language cue. And one of the wonderful things about body language is it's just kind of automatic. It's something we just do. And so when you're looking for those body language cues, you can tell how she's feeling just by how she's reacting. So if when you start to approach, or if you walk in the room, or your eyes meet, or whatever it is, and she starts trying to make sure she looks nice, that is a fabulous sign that she is attracted to you. She wants to look her best for you. Maybe she even has some of that nervous energy and it's gotta go somewhere, so she starts, you know, fixing her clothes. The next sign that she's attracted to you, she wants you to make a move, is that she touches you. Maybe she gives you lots of hugs when she sees you. Or maybe she, when you sit next to each other, instead of kind of giving a little space, she actually sits close. Maybe she kind of brushes up against you softly when she walks past you. Or if she's talking to you, she might place her hand on you or give you a little bit of a playful nudge. These are all things that are completely appropriate, that are Small and subtle, but they're actually very revealing. Women are generally pretty protective of who they let touch them, especially when it's a guy. If she feels unsafe in any way or if she's just really not interested, she's not going to be super open to touching you. But when we like someone, we want to touch them. And so if she touches you a lot, especially if it's in a playful, Or warm way, that's a fabulous sign that she's attracted to you. She's interested, she's trying, she's showing she's interested. And so it might be a good idea to ask her out, to make a move. The next sign, to some people they're gonna be like, of course, and other people haven't really stopped to think about it. This sign that she wants you to make a move is that she flirts with you. There are a lot of men who will just kind of disregard this. And assume that she flirts with everyone, or she isn't actually interested, she's just flirting. And if you do disregard the fact that she's flirting with you, you may honestly be rejecting something that's actually authentic. When we're attracted to people, we flirt with them frequently. Not everybody, because not everybody knows how. But there's a tendency towards flirting when we are attracted to someone. So don't automatically disregard that. Does she tease you playfully? Does she compliment you frequently? Are there a lot of smiles and eye contact? If she's flirting with you, especially if you happen to notice she doesn't flirt with everyone and she's mostly focused on you, these are fabulous signs that she really wants you to make a move. Like, really bad. She's interested, she's attracted, and she's just hoping that Someday this guy will wake up and say, oh my goodness, she's gorgeous! I need to make a move! I need to ask her out! So don't automatically disregard if she's flirting with you. Take it seriously. She's flirting with you. That's a big deal! The next sign she wants you to make a move is that she finds ways to talk to you. Maybe she randomly texts you random things. Maybe she will frequently start conversations. Maybe she will ask you random questions or ask for help in random ways. Usually, especially if it's random, but even if it's not, it's just her just trying to come up with a way to talk to you. She's just trying to find a way to connect with you, to have a conversation, to get your attention, hoping that you will say, wow, she's beautiful. I should ask her out. She may just kind of try to be wherever you are, hoping that she'll catch your eye and that you'll talk to her. But basically, her whole goal here is to interact with you hoping that you will like her back and that you will make that move. Our next sign she wants you to make a move is that she plays with her jewelry. So we already talked earlier about how she might fix her jewelry, you know, make sure everything looks good. But she may actually play with her jewelry. Now this one sounds funny. It's like, how could that be A thing women do when they're attracted to you. Oh, no. No, we do. I learned this through personal experience, actually, after studying this. I was in a situation where there was a really hot guy, and I started noticing, oh, wow, I am playing with my jewelry. So I was like, put my hands down. And, you know, a few seconds later, I was playing with my jewelry again as I was looking at this really hot guy wishing he would, you know, talk to me. And so it's Definitely something women do. It's one of those body language kind of gut reaction things. So if you notice she plays with her jewelry while she's looking at you or talking to you, that's a fabulous sign that she's attracted to you. And yes, she does want you to make a move. The next sign she wants you to make a move is that she gets close to you. So we talked about how she might, you know, sit next to you and actually touch you when she's sitting next to you. But she may also kind of lean in a bit. This is a huge body language That we're engaged, we're interested, maybe we want to be close. And so when she's talking to you, or if she's kind of, you know, sitting next to you, whatever it is, if she just kind of gets close, even if it's just leaning in a little bit, that's a huge sign that she's attracted to you. And it might be a good idea to make a move. Because remember, if she sends all these signals that she's attracted to you and you don't make a move, she's going to be crushed. She's going to think it's just because you don't like her. So it is important when you're seeing signs of attraction to actually make a move. Okay, this next sign that she's attracted to you I've shared many times over the years, and people think it's hilarious because it is. This sign is that her feet are pointed at you. When we have open body language in general, it shows that we are engaged, we're interested, we're attentive toward this person. The most important The most powerful thing perhaps to notice though is the feet. Because our feet, that's usually what we're not paying attention to. You know, sometimes you're trying to be polite, and so your body will be facing someone, or it's an important situation or whatever, so your body will be facing them. But our feet, they're kind of the ones that get away when we don't even realize it. And our feet tend to point wherever it is we want to go or what we're thinking about. So if her feet are pointed at you, whether you're standing in front of her talking to her or maybe you're even across the room, if her feet are pointed at you, then that means you are the one she's thinking about. You're the one she's focused on. And women can totally be talking to somebody else or doing something and look like they're really focused, but have their foot pointed at you because they're actually thinking about you and just smiling and nodding to the person in front of them. So pay attention to her feet. This is especially true of our dominant foot, which for most people tends to be the right foot. So maybe one foot is pointed at them and one foot is pointed at you. Well, which is her right foot? Is it pointed at you? Okay, this next sign that she wants you to make a move is one of my favorites. It is one of the most used body language signs because it's very natural to women. It's also one of the most overlooked, but it's so powerful. This sign is that she looks at you, smiles, and looks away. Perhaps especially if she looks down. You may have heard me call this the chin tuck before. She's going to try and catch your eye, she's going to smile, hoping you'll be dazzled and think she's gorgeous. You have that moment of connection, and then she looks away. That's a whole lot less awkward than just staring at you the whole time. It's also that nervous energy, those butterflies, you look away. It's kind of a feminine trait. I hate to use the word submissive because society has taken that so out of context at this point. But it's, for lack of a better word, it is kind of a submissive, oh, you're a big strong man. I'm a feminine beautiful woman. Are you attracted to me? Now here's the important part. Please pay attention. You with me? Women assume you know what this means because it's very obvious to women. It's actually very obvious to most married men as well. And so women assume that you know what it means. That's why all the married men are like, dude, she's totally giving you— like, dude, make a move! And a lot of single guys just don't know this, so that's why I'm I'm here to share it with you. Women think you know what this means. It means, hey, you're really attractive. You should come talk to me. You should ask me out. If you miss this sign, she will feel rejected. She will think that you're not interested in her, and she might just, you know, just go find somebody else to flirt with, frankly. And so most women will only send this signal Maybe 3 to 5 times. At that point, she's like, wow, he's not interested. Or even if he is interested, he's not man enough to walk across the room and talk to me. And so she's going to move on. So if you see this signal, don't just do nothing unless you're not interested. If you are interested in her, you need to make a move. If you're interested in learning more about how to make that move, how to approach effectively, how to pursue in a way that's appropriate and super sexy, those are things I go over with you inside my Academy. So next time we open enrollment, I do invite you to join then. Now I have a surprise for you. You have just learned 12 signs she wants you to make a move. And that's a lot to keep track of, so I've put together a free guide for you that actually has 13 signs she's waiting for you to make a move. Download this, review it. It's nice to have those signs there where you can just quickly skim over it. And when you're in that situation where you're wondering if she likes you, rather than having to find this video again, you can instead just look at that quick guide. So I will put a link in the description below to where you can get that guide. It's totally for free. You just enter your email and I email it to you. So do make sure you grab that. It's a very valuable resource. I have also included in that guide a list of guidelines to help you make sure you are reading these signs accurately and properly. So do make sure you get that. It's a fabulous resource.

That's your cue.

Are you gonna ask me to go? I just told you what I wanna do. Are you gonna ask me? So notice, pay attention how—

Sorry, I'm laughing at myself. That was funny. I should be a comedian, you guys. I missed my calling in life. I don't know that anybody would come to my shows, but I would laugh at myself. So I think I've mentioned— see, I'm making myself cry, I'm laughing.

I think I've mentioned in previous videos I'm actually writing a novel, which is a blast. I've really enjoyed it. And the funny thing is, is it's kind of a comedy, but like action comedy, because I don't do anything small. I go all the way.

Anyway, all right, I gotta get back on topic.

Oh, man, I don't have any plans for this weekend. I wish I had something fun to do.

I almost went again, but I didn't because it probably looks really stupid. I'm having too much fun today. I think the hidden message in my videos—

this is the reading behind the lines version. Or behind the lines? Between the lines? This is the reading between the lines version of my videos.

Don't take yourself too seriously and enjoy life. Okay, that's just the secret.

If you want to do something, you could ask me right now. I suddenly turned into a ballerina right there.

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