15 SIGNS SHE’S PHYSICALLY ATTRACTED TO YOU~ 😏
In this YouTube video, dating coach Melannie (a Christian dating coach and creator of the Attracting Lasting Love Academy) presents a list of fifteen common non‑verbal cues that women display when they are physically attracted to a man. She explains each cue—such as the "chin tuck" when eyes meet, feet pointing toward the man, exposing the wrist, touching the man's arm, mentioning free time, lip‑licking, pupil dilation, blushing, sitting close, laughing at jokes, following the man’s movements, playing with jewelry, flirting, maintaining prolonged conversation, and repeatedly trying to catch his eye—describing why these behaviors occur instinctively and what they signal about interest and pursuit. Throughout, Melannie emphasizes that these signals are unconscious, not mind games, and that recognizing them can reduce dating anxiety. The video intersperses promotional calls to action for her Attracting Lasting Love Academy, a free masterclass, and encourages viewers to subscribe, comment specific keywords (e.g., "signs", "flirting", "leopard print"), and join a secret end‑of‑video club. The tone is upbeat, conversational, and motivational, aiming to empower men with practical insight into female body language.
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15 signs she's physically attracted to you. There's nothing quite as fun as knowing that gorgeous gal you're crushing on is attracted to you too. Knowing female body language is a lifesaver in dating and relationships. It helps you know what she's thinking and know that she's attracted to you, she's interested in you. And before you freak out, no, it has nothing to do with mind games. This isn't something she thinks out and does to test you. If she's doing that, she's toxic. You I don't want anything to do with her. Instead, these are body language things. We just do these things as women without even realizing it when we are attracted to a man. And the men who know how to read these signs, oh my goodness, they are much more successful at love and relationships. It takes a ton of pressure off you because you know what she's thinking. If you could tell what a woman was thinking without even talking to her, would you want to do that? Of course you would, right? So make sure you stay with me to the end of this video because each woman is a little bit different. So I'm sharing some of the most common body language signs that most women use the most frequently. And it would be terrible if you missed out on the most important ones for the gal you're crushing on. So stay with me until the end of this video. Are you ready to stop feeling totally in the dark about how she feels about you? Let's dive in! Sign number 1 is that she does what I call the chin tuck. When your eyes meet, she looks away. Particularly down. That's the cute little chin tuck that's like, "Oh shoot, he saw me," and she like gets nervous and, "Oh, she's got to look away." It's crazy how much of a gut reaction this is for women and how once you're aware of it you can really start noticing it. It's very, very instinctive. Now she might just look away or she might look down and look back up at you. It depends on how well she knows you and it depends on the girl. Number 2 is kind of a funny one. This is that her feet are pointed at you. You may You may have heard me say this before, but I get so many questions about it, I'm just gonna mention it real fast. Where our minds are, our feet tend to point. And so if we are interested in someone, our feet tend to just, without us even realizing it, point at this person. So even if she's across the room or having a conversation with someone else, or if she's standing right in front of you, if her feet are pointing at you, that's a really good sign that you have her attention. P.S. Before we get to the next sign, make sure you subscribe and ring that notification bell. My name is Melannie. I'm a Christian dating coach for men and creator of Attracting Lasting Love Academy. I'm your go-to source to learn how to find the absolute love of your life without all the mind games and nonsense that's totally exhausting. So if you are ready for real, authentic, true love with a stunning woman, hit that subscribe button. And if you'd like to learn more about working with me in my Academy, just go to coachmelannie.com. Okay, this next sign she's physically attracted to you makes me giggle a little bit because it's ridiculously accurate. But it sounds funny when you say it out loud. This sign is that she exposes her wrist to you. Now she might, you know, lean her head on her wrist and her wrist is exposed to you or something like that. For some reason this is just what girls do when they're interested in you, when they feel safe with you, when they trust you, when she's opening up to you. I have to say as a woman when I first started learning about female body language of attraction it cracked me up because I was like, "Oh, I had no idea I was doing that." Holy cow, totally do that! So these things sound crazy, but it's totally what women do without having any idea. If I hadn't researched this, I still wouldn't know. The next sign she's physically attracted to you is that she touches your arm when you're talking to each other. Now that could be like a little playful push, or it could be that she puts her hand on your arm. Whatever it is, depending on the conversation, this is a really good sign that she feels comfortable with you. When we are attracted to people, we tend to want to touch them. Oh, newsflash! Didn't know that, right? And so it's something she can do without even realizing it. Especially as a girl starts to get to know you better and better. Even a shy girl could potentially show this sign just because she's feeling more safe with you and, you know, she likes you. Okay, the next sign she's physically attracted to you is that she mentions that she doesn't have anything to do or that she has some free time or that her weekend is open. This is especially true if she mentions it frequently. Like, it's because she's trying to get a feel for if you're free, if you're interested, and let you know that she's interested. Now on this note, I'm about to reveal something to you that most people don't even know exists. Like, they're clueless about this. Do you wanna be in on this secret? Okay, here it is. Women pursue men too. I know, everybody thinks that men do all the pursuing, and if you're in a toxic relationship, that is true, and that's not a good relationship to be in. However, in a healthy relationship, both people are pursuing each other, and that happens for the entire relationship. Now, when a woman pursues a man, it just looks a little different than when a man is pursuing a woman. But that makes sense. Men and women do things differently. That's kind of part of why, you know, there's some attraction there. That masculine-feminine thing gets going. So when she lets you know she has some free time, this is her way of trying to pursue you while still letting you be masculine by asking her out. She's trying to in a feminine way say, "Hey, I'm totally interested in you." Now here's kind of the tricky part. If she's trying to show that interest and you don't make a move, it is hardcore rejection for her, okay? It's the same as if you had asked her on a date and she turned you down. That's how badly it hurts her. She's embarrassed, she's crushed, and often she's not going to open up again because she's so hurt and embarrassed. So it's critical to notice that and know how to make a move from there. So getting some insight into how she thinks is great. Also knowing what to do next and how to pursue her effectively is what sets you up for that lifetime of love. That makes sense? Doesn't it? Now don't overthink and worry all about that. I've put together some free training for you where I'm going to share with you exactly what it is that makes a woman fall deeply in love with you. I got 3 life-changing secrets that again most people don't know anything about. Just go to CoachMelannie.com/Masterclass. I will put a link in the description below and a link in the pinned comments. Are you sick of feeling like you have no idea what you're doing? You need to go watch it right now. It's going to help save you a so much heartache. Our next sign that she is physically attracted to you also makes me really kind of giggle because just saying it feels weird. This sign is that she licks her lips. Now research has shown us over and over again that this is a solid body language sign. This is something women do around men they are attracted to. It could be because she's just thinking about lips right then. It can also be because when we're nervous our mouths tend to dry out. So if you notice that she licks her lips around you a lot, and you're not like, you know, jogging every time you see her, if you notice that she licks her lips a lot, it can be a really good sign that, yeah, she's totally physically attracted to you. Our next sign is that her pupils dilate. This is a very, very common sign of attraction. So when you're talking to her, spending time with her, if you notice that her pupils are dilated, that's definitely a good sign of attraction. The next sign is pretty adorable. I'm pretty sure you're going to agree with me on that. This sign is that she blushes when your eyes meet or when you talk or when she knows you're looking at her. The blush is a dead giveaway, so pay close attention to it. Sometimes it can be subtle, but it's powerful. Next up, she sits close to you. This is especially a good sign if she doesn't have to to sit close to you. You know, if, like, there's plenty of room, but for some reason she decides to sit where you're actually touching each other. This, again, when we're attracted to people, we want to touch them. And this is something she could do without even realizing she's doing it. So pay attention. "Hey, there's tons of room, but she's, like, sitting close enough to, like, touch me." That's a huge sign. You're not going to do that with someone that you're you're really not interested in. You're just not. This can be another way that a woman is actually pursuing you. By the way, if you haven't yet seen this video and this video, I will put links in the description below to both of them where I explain a little bit more about women pursuing and signs she's pursuing you. Check it out. Okay, the next sign she's physically attracted to you is that she laughs at your jokes. This is one of the key things women do when they are attracted to a man. They just tend to laugh at your jokes. She tends to like your sense of humor, she tends to think you're funny. It's just something that happens. It's not like a deliberate thing. "Oh, he's attractive, so I'm going to laugh at all his jokes." No, she just suddenly starts thinking that you are a really funny person. So kind of a fun way to, if you're wondering if she's attracted to you, you can't quite tell, is maybe crack a few really corny jokes. Not dirty jokes, because those are never funny, but a couple of corny jokes and just see how she responds. If she's like the only one laughing, well, there's a good chance that it's because she's attracted to you and really legitimately thinks you're funny. The next sign of physical attraction is that she goes where you go. When— this is again kind of a way a woman will try to pursue you and/or she has no idea she's doing this because this is very common where she's like, "Oh, he's over there. I'm gonna go over there too." "Ooh, he's over there. I'm gonna go over there too." "Hmm, how could I walk past him? I want to be closer to him. I'm just gonna go over there too." And so if you tend to notice that she happens to just be where you are, maybe you're at a party, or maybe there's a place she knows you go frequently and she just happens to be there too, that's a really good sign that she's interested in you and she wants to get to know you better. She wants to spend more time with you. She wants you to notice her. Because there's that attraction. The next sign is that she plays with her jewelry. Now this can be seen a couple of different ways. She may just play with her jewelry when she's talking to you or looking at you, or you may notice that she, you know, adjusts her jewelry when she knows you're in the room. She's trying to make sure she looks nice for you. Or even just playing with the jewelry is totally something girls do when they're attracted to a guy. This is actually the first body language sign I noticed myself doing when I very first started learning about female body language. It's ridiculously accurate. I actually shocked myself when I noticed I was doing it. I was like, "Holy cow, it's totally true!" Quick question before we get to some more juicy signs. Would you like more videos like this one? I've made tons of videos on female body language at this point. However, it's kind of been a minute since I made them. So Would you like more? If you would, comment "signs" to let me know. That feedback really does help. And if this is a topic you're enjoying and you'd like to see more on, I need to know about it. So please comment "signs." And a huge, huge thank you and shout out to those of you who are so generous and kind with the Super Thanks. It touches my heart and you're truly helping me continue to produce these videos. So Thank you a million times! And if you've never used the Super Thanks before, or if you have and you're really enjoying this video and you would like to use it again, that would mean a lot to me. So thank you! Okay, the next sign she's physically attracted to you is that she flirts with you. Now, yes, to some people that's going to sound really obvious. To other people, they never really stopped to think about it. It's very common when you are attracted to someone to act more flirty around them to try and get their attention, to hint and be playful about the fact that they're attractive and hint and be playful about the fact that, you know, you're attractive and maybe they should notice it. So if you notice that she's flirting with you, that's a really good sign. And by the way, would you like me maybe to do a video about signs she's flirting with you? That's an idea. If that is something you would like, comment "flirting" to let me know. And the next The next sign she's physically attracted to you is that she talks, like, a lot. Like, she tries to keep the conversation going. It doesn't matter if this conversation is over text or social media or in person. If she doesn't want to let you go from the conversation, it's because she doesn't want to let you go. Like, she wants to spend more time with you. She wants to keep that conversation going. She wants to keep you there with her. So it's a key sign of that physical attraction that she's definitely interested. And the next sign of physical attraction is that she tries to catch your eye. This is one of the main signs, actually. If you're, you know, across the room or whatever it is and she's trying to catch your eyes, there might be the chin tuck in there, but she's trying to catch your eye. This is a very common thing of, "Oh, did he notice me? I don't know. Oh, I hope he noticed me. Hey, hey, hey, I think he noticed me." This is actually one of those really magical signs because if you happen to notice it happens multiple times, like, in the same day where she's, you know, trying to catch your eye, your eyes meet, this is a really huge indication that she is hoping that you will pursue her in that masculine way. So if you're ever in that situation where you're like, "Man, our eyes keep meeting," well, there's a really good chance it's not a coincidence. It's a sign that she's like, "Holy cow, I've got butterflies. I really, really hope he notices me." Now at this point you might be thinking, "Why does this have to be so complicated?" And just so you know, she thinks you're kind of complicated too, okay? That's part of what makes relationships a little bit exciting but also a little bit nerve-wracking. Men and women are different. Now here's the thing. When you have two people who are willing to learn how to understand the other, that's what creates a magical, happy relationship. It doesn't have to be complicated. We just need to educate ourselves about each other. The couples who do this are the couples with the most exciting fulfilling, ridiculously happy love. And this is why having a female coach is so life-changing, to get that insight into the female mind. As a matter of fact, the men who've been through my Academy, that's one of the things that they mention over and over again, is that having that female insight can change everything. So would you like to learn more about working with me? All of my coaching is done through my online Academy, Attracting Lasting Love Academy. And you'll learn more about that if you decide you'd like to join me there in that free masterclass as well. So not only are you going to learn 3 ridiculously powerful secrets that nobody else is talking about but everybody should be talking about, you will also learn about how you can join me there if that's something you decide you'd like to do. So just go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass. I will put a link in the description below and a link in the pinned comment. Thank you so much for watching, my amazing friend! Be sure to be sure to subscribe and ring the notification bell and give me a big thumbs up. I want to hear from you in the comments. Would you like more videos like this one? Comment "signs." And if you would like a video on specifically the signs she's flirting with you, comment "flirting." Be sure to share this with a friend, and if you don't yet follow me on social media, there are links in the description below. I share exclusive content in my Instagram stories, so make sure you especially follow me on Instagram. Thank you so much again, my amazing friend, and have an amazing day! The couples who do this are the couple— the— What was that? Okay, secret end of the video club. Hey, how's it going? Doing pretty good. I'm a little tired today because I'm filming at 7 o'clock, which I almost never do. 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