17 SIGNS YOU’RE MORE ATTRACTIVE THAN YOU THINK 😏

Did you know you are more attractive than you think? I know what you're thinking, but hear me out. You have been told a pack of lies about what women really want, especially if we're talking about, like, loyal, good women. This comes from both my insight as a woman and my extensive training and research as a certified coach. I've been doing this a long time now. The last sign I'm going to share with you is the most surprising, but it's also, like, the most powerful. And it's super, super easy to do. So make sure you stay with me until the end of the video. Are you ready for these signs you're more attractive than you think you are? Let's get started! The first thing— Can I just be brutally honest for a second? Is that okay? You have been told a pack of nonsense about what women really want in a man. What most people talk about are things that women who are only looking for a fling or drama queens who are toxic are wanting in a man. What I'll be sharing I'm sharing with you today are things that truly matter to a feminine, loyal, loving woman. One thing that sets my channel apart from so much else that you will find on the internet is I never teach you how to have a one-night fling. I'm all about long-lasting, fulfilling, tender, passionate, lifelong relationships. If you can dream it, you can have it. You just need to know how. So as we go through this list, there are 2 things I want you to do for me. The first thing is when you hear a sign that's like, something you're doing, something you're already good at, I want you to celebrate that, okay? I want you to pat yourself on the back and truly enjoy that because it shows that you have some of the most attractive traits. So let yourself get excited about that. That's pretty cool. The second thing is also pay attention to the things maybe you're not doing yet, the things that don't describe you yet. And then commit to work on that. It's actually exciting to find the things that we're not doing because that tells us how we can improve. Makes sense? Can you do that for me? All right, let's jump into these signs now. The first sign you are more attractive than you think you are is that you look people in the eye. This is true for, uh, the girl you're, like, attracted to, but it's also just true for people in general. When we look people in the eye, it creates a connection with them. As a matter of fact, there's been research done that shows that just making eye contact can greatly increase attraction. So it's kind of a win-win situation. There are a lot of people who try to make it sound like acting like you're cooler than everybody else is what's actually attractive. What it really does is it makes people think you're a jerk, okay? Unless, of course, she's toxic and a drama queen, then yeah, maybe she'll like the challenge, but only until the challenge is over and then she moves on. That's why that only tends to work with girls who are looking for flings or who are looking to manipulate. If instead you look people in the eye and you treat people like they are your equal, that right there is the kind of man people will respect. That's the kind of man she feels safe with, and she feels like you're masculine and protective and someone she can trust. Add that to the added benefit of that attraction that can increase with eye contact, and, uh, yes, that's a very attractive sign. The second sign you're more attractive than you think is that you listen to people. Everyone wants to feel heard. Everyone wants to feel like they matter and like their opinions are important. Women really bond through talking. And when a man is willing to listen to her— and yes, obviously, just to make sure we're clear about this, it needs to go both ways, obviously. However, when you are someone who does go out of your way to listen to her, that right there is ridiculously attractive. That's something she wants in her husband. So if you happen to be a good listener, pat yourself on the back right now. Real quick before we get to the next sign, make sure you subscribe and ring that notification bell. My name is Melannie. I'm a Christian dating coach for men, and like I said, your go-to source to learn how to have a fulfilling, passionate, lifelong, loving relationship. So if that's what you're looking for, make sure you stick around, subscribe, and ring that bell. Okay, the third sign that you're more attractive than you think you are is that you smile. There is something magical about a smile. Have you ever felt that way? When somebody smiles at you, whether it's a stranger or someone you know, it quickly lifts your mood, right? It makes you feel seen, it makes you feel important, and it gives you a boost. Well, the fact is it actually gives us, like, a chemical boost within ourselves. And we tend to like people better who smile at us. It can, again, create that connection connection and make her feel so much more attracted to you. A lot of men think that the best thing they can do to appear masculine is to look super tough and kind of intimidating. You don't want to intimidate her. Drama queens are going to like that because, again, it's the challenge. Instead, you want to feel protective. You want her to feel like she's coming into your protection. And that's what makes her feel even more drawn to you. So a man who she feels like she can trust, someone who would be fun to be around, someone who smiles is incredibly attractive. The next sign you're more attractive than you think is that you ask questions. This is one of the basic and most powerful tools when it comes to conversation and talking to people, getting to know people. When you are asking questions, the other person— well, one, it makes the conversation a lot more interesting. And two, it makes the other person feel more relaxed because we know what to say when somebody asks us a question. It also makes us feel like an interesting person. And again, just like I mentioned earlier, this does need to go both ways. It's important that she's asking you questions as well. But if you are someone who, while you're chatting with people, will ask questions, it shows you're a good conversationalist. You're interesting to be around and someone people feel really good when they talk to. And again, because women bond through talking, that is very attractive to her. And P.S., if you haven't yet seen this video on what to text girls, I give you some other conversation tips in there as well. So I'll put a link in the description below if you haven't seen that video yet. Check it out! Okay, the next sign you are more attractive than you think is that you have a good sense of humor. Women tend to be very attracted to men that they think has a good sense of humor. It's just one of those things. It's just built into a woman. It's just what she wants in her man. And so if you are someone who has a classy sense of humor— I'm not talking crass and inappropriate. That's not a sense of humor. That's just inappropriate. That makes her feel uncomfortable. If you are someone who has a classy sense of humor and who is willing to laugh when something is funny and enjoy that sort of thing, yeah, that makes you a very attractive man. And this actually leads us right into the next sign. This sign is that you laugh with others, not at others. Laughing at others is mean. Laughing with others and being just playful and kind of lighthearted, oh, that's a very, very attractive trait. Something I teach my clients in my Academy is that being immature is one of the least attractive things you can do. However, being light-hearted, and playful, childlike instead of childish, is ridiculously attractive. That's the kind of man she can say, "Wow, I would enjoy spending the rest of my life with him every single day. I can see him being a good husband. He would be a fantastic father." These are the things that make her truly drawn to you and make her want to be with you more and more. So if you are someone who can laugh with others, not take life so seriously, be a little bit playful. Sometimes that even means being a little bit silly. That right there is a very attractive trait. It's actually one of my favorite traits, which you probably know if you stay and watch till the end and see my bloopers. You probably already know that about me. Okay, the next sign you're more attractive than you think you are is that you take pride in how you dress and the way you present yourself, how you look. Let me ask you a question. Do you like to see her dressed up and looking all nice? Do you like to see her hair looking great and appreciate how attractive she is? Is that something you want in a woman? Well, she wants that in a man too. She wants to see you looking really awesome. And the best part is, some people get a little confused about this, it does not have to cost a lot of money in order to dress really great and feel amazing. Something I teach my clients in my Academy is that is how to dress like a model on a budget. It's not so much about how much the pieces cost. It's wearing the right types of pieces, putting them together well, and making sure that the fit is really nice. So even if you're on a budget, you can dress exceptionally well and really show that you take pride in how you look. And that right there, yeah, that's something she's going to notice. Every woman wants a husband who will continue to look amazing for her, just like you want your wife to continue looking amazing for you. You. Okay, the next sign you're more attractive than you think you are is that you take care of yourself and your belongings and other people's belongings. Somebody who isn't very tidy, who doesn't take care of their possessions, or who doesn't take care of your possessions when you meet them, like, they're really an uncomfortable person to be around. However, someone who does take care of themselves, take care of your house, you take care of your car, you treat your things with respect, you treat other people's things with respect, that says a lot about who you are as a person. That sets you apart from others and makes people say, "Wow, this person is a high-value person," which tells her a lot about what she needs to know about you. So if you are someone who takes care of yourself, takes care of your belongings, that is a very attractive trait. So pat yourself on the back. Okay, I need to answer a question that you probably have at this point. By now you might be thinking, "Wow, these are in many ways easier than I thought. That's really cool. Hey, Melannie, if I'm so attractive, why am I still single?" Is that what you're thinking? That's totally okay. I've actually put together some free training for you where I'm going to tell you what has been keeping you from the love you want, what has been keeping you from attracting the kind of woman you're aching to hold. And I'm also going to teach you how to forever transform the way women respond to you so you can make her fall passionately in love with the real, authentic you. Does that sound like something you'd want to know? I put this together for you in my free training. Just go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass. I'll put a link in the description below and a link in the pinned comment. The fact is, yes, you are more attractive than you realize. You just need to know how to unleash that and make her see you for the amazing man that you are. And when that happens, she can't help but fall in love with you because you are the man she's been looking for. You just need to know how to show that to her. And I'll walk you through that. This is also what my Academy is all about. So you'll learn more about that in the free masterclass if you decide you'd like to work with me as well. One more time, just go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass. Okay, now that I've answered this question, what to do next, let's keep going with more of these signs. The next sign is that you are proactive about your health. Healthy people are naturally attractive people. That's just how God created us. We are drawn to health. It makes our skin glow, it makes our eyes shine, it makes our teeth look good, our hair look good. We tend to just be more attractive when we're healthy. Now something I do want to point out is being proactive about your health does not mean going to extremes. As a matter of fact, extremes are usually not so healthy. It means just putting in some thought and putting in some effort and making sure you're doing what you need to do to be a healthy person. Taking responsibility for your health instead of pushing it off onto someone else. The next sign you're more attractive than you think you are is that you don't criticize others and you don't criticize yourself. Have you ever been around someone who's really critical? I'm sure you have. We all have. They're exhausting, right? And you get terrified whenever you see them because what are they going to say that's mean about you or someone else? Nobody likes being around someone who's critical. However, when you're around someone who's encouraging and uplifting, oh my goodness, you feel so good when you're around them, right? And you find yourself wanting to be around them more and more. The same is true about criticizing yourself. Sometimes we think if we make jokes about ourselves where we're criticizing ourselves, we think we're just being funny or something. In reality, it usually makes people very uncomfortable. Because if they agree with you, and laugh, then they're basically being mean to you. But if they disagree with you and don't laugh, then it's just awkward, and so they just— it's not comfortable. It doesn't show confidence from you either. So if you are someone instead who is uplifting about others and yourself, that makes you a very attractive person to be around. And the good news is, is it's pretty easy to learn how to do that if it's not something you've started doing yet. This leads us right into the next sign. This sign is that you are a positive thinker. There is something just— I don't even know what— incredible about being around someone who's a positive thinker, someone who chooses to see the good. A positive thinker doesn't pretend there's no bad. A positive thinker is fully aware of the bad. They just choose to focus on the good instead. And being around someone like that, there are endless possibilities, that life is a beautiful place, And every loyal woman, every woman who's looking for a lifelong relationship, is asking herself, "Is this man going to be enjoyable to be around every day? Is he someone I'm going to enjoy being with, spending my life with?" And a man who's a positive thinker is definitely someone who is delightful to be with, someone she looks forward to coming home to. She looks forward to you pulling her close in your arms. She longs to be with you, and she feels safe with you. Okay, the next sign you're more attractive than you think you are is that you are a confident person. Confidence is something we have to create within ourselves. We do this through habits. And as we maintain those habits, we become a confident person. And confident people are magnetic in all kinds of relationships. People want confident friends, confident coworkers, and certainly a confident partner. When you are confident, it shows that masculine energy that her feminine energy just craves. And it makes her feel more safe with you. It also helps you really rock what you've got. So you actually become more physically attractive as well. Confidence is really a win-win situation no matter how you look at it. That's why one of my favorite things to teach you how to master in my Academy is becoming a confident man, those confident habits. It is ridiculously powerful. And it's something everyone can learn. So if this is something you're good at, pat yourself on the back. Good job! If it's something you don't feel like you excel in, or even like you could just do a little bit better in, great! Now you know something you can improve on. And that will make you even more attractive. Okay, the next sign is actually going to surprise some people. This sign is that you are a gentleman, that you are chivalrous. Some people worry that chivalry is dead. And if you're talking to toxic women, well, yeah, but the fact is toxic people just like to cause a scene about everything. Everything! So if you're chivalrous, they're going to cause a scene. If you're not chivalrous, they're going to cause a scene. That's just who they are. That's why we don't care about their opinion. A woman who is loyal and loving and feminine and sweet is going to adore that about you. That level of respect means so much to a woman. It shows that you're confident in who you are. You're confident in your respect for yourself and for other people. So even if a guy opens the door for a girl, even if there's no romantic anything going on there, it still makes her day. So never discredit forget the importance of something like being chivalrous and being a gentleman. The fact is our world needs more kindness. It needs more respect. And if you're someone who's doing that, who's willing to do that, it says so much about you. And it's something, again, that her feminine energy just craves. Okay, the next sign you're more attractive than you think you are is that you're a generous and a giving man. Someone— we read We respect people who are generous. We respect people who are giving. This tells her you will be a compassionate and an understanding husband and father. Those are the kinds of things she's paying attention to. Again, if she's just interested in a fling, why would she care about that? She doesn't care about that. But a woman who's looking for something permanent, she just wants to give her love and her kisses to you forever. That truly matters to her. That's one of the main things she's looking for in a man. So if you are a generous and giving man, That's fabulous! You're very attractive. The next sign you're more attractive than you think you are is that you have a growth mindset. Basically what that means is that you're open-minded about improving and growing rather than saying, "Nope, this is what it is, this is who I am, and I'm going to stay just like this." Do you really want to marry a woman who's like, "This is as good as I'm ever gonna get and you're just gonna have to tolerate that"? What would be attractive about that, right? Well, The same is true for her. If instead you're a man who says, "No, I can improve. I can grow. I can do this and I can do that." When you have two people doing that in a relationship, the relationship becomes magical. It becomes passionate. It becomes very, very tender because you're both always getting better. So being open to learning new things and learning from other people and working on those things That right there is a ridiculously attractive trait. It means your attraction is unlimited. The next sign you're more attractive than you think you are is that you have good work ethic and you have interests and hobbies and things you're doing. We're not attracted to boring people. We're attracted to interesting people. And so if you are someone who has good work ethic and you have things things you're interested in, things you're involved in. It makes you a very interesting person to be around and to get to know. And it certainly makes you a much more attractive person. Okay, are you ready for the most surprising trait? This is going to surprise a lot of people because it's definitely not what you're going to hear if you're listening to people who are teaching about flings. You ready? The most attractive trait, the most sought-after trait in a partner, is kindness. There was a study done across 33 countries and 6 continents. They asked the participants what they valued most in a partner. And the top answer was kindness. That makes sense though, right? Do you want to marry a girl who's a jerk? No. Why in the world would women be so stupid that they would not want to marry a man who's kind? She wants someone who's loving and tender and supportive. She wants to feel sheltered and safe in your embrace. She wants to look into your eyes and know that you're the one she loves and trusts the most. Now, the reason a lot of people get confused about this and they say, "No, no, no, no, girls don't like kind men," is because sometimes they say, "Well, I'm a kind man, but I'm not getting the girl I want." And that's frustrating. I call completely validate that. However, kindness is not the problem. And there are many men who are ridiculously kind and find it ridiculously easy to attract women. So that's not your problem. What your problem is is what I'm going to share with you in that free masterclass. I put together a whole video for you on it so that you can understand the truth about this. Again, just go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass. The good news is it's actually a lot more simple than you think, and I'll walk you through it there. Okay, friend, that was a little bit of a long video, but I hope you enjoyed these signs. If you would like more videos like this one, comment "more" to let me know. And if there's a specific thing we talked about that you'd like to know more about, then tell me what that is in that comment as well. Huge shout-out, huge thank you to those of you who are so amazing with the Super Thanks. Thank you for supporting my channel. Thank you for supporting wholesome, decent Christian content and making the world a better place by promoting that. It really means a lot to me, so thank you. And whether you've ever used the Super Thanks before or not, if you'd like more videos like this one, consider using the Super Thanks because it really does help. If you haven't yet, subscribe and ring that notification bell. Make sure you share this video with a friend who would enjoy it. 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