Women notice how a man sounds and looks at them. A nervous, fast voice reads as insecurity. But kind eyes and calm tone signal confidence and character, which changes everything in how he comes across.
A confident, calm, and warm voice is much more attractive than a nervous or monotone voice. Our tone of voice definitely affects how people feel around us and how they perceive us. Women also notice things like if you talk too fast or if you mumble. Have you ever tried to talk to somebody who mumbles? It's very difficult sometimes to hold a conversation with them. So the way you talk as well as the tone is something she's going to pay attention to. And you want your tone of voice to signal that you are confident, that you are warm, and that you are calm. Another thing women notice that many men may not realize is your eyes. I'm not just talking about the color of your eyes, although of course she's going to notice that as well, but the kind of eyes, the type of eyes you have. I've talked to women before and We say things like, "Oh, he just has such kind eyes," or, "He has just gentle eyes." The eyes are the window to the soul. And if we can tell if somebody is cold by their eyes, we can tell if they're gentle, if they're kind through their eyes.
