21 Signs a Girl Likes You Over Text! 😉

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21 signs a girl likes you over text. How do you know if she likes you over text or even online? Maybe you don't get to see her much in person, or maybe even if you do see her in person, there's just a lot of texting going on. How do you know through your interactions that she likes you? Can you tell? Thankfully, there are clear signals even over texts that reveal that she has feelings for you. And I'm going to walk you through 21 of them right now. As always, when you watch anything from me, There are no mind games or sleazy tricks. Just wholesome dating and relationship advice that comes from the science of attraction instead of popular opinion and sleazy tricks. So if you're looking for an authentic relationship, make sure you subscribe. Let's dive into the signs she likes you over text. Sign number 1 is that she initiates sometimes. She doesn't just always wait for you to text her. This may not happen much at the beginning because she does want to see you as a masculine leader, she wants you to pursue. But that doesn't mean she can't ever reach out and text you first as well. So when she likes you, it's very common for a woman to, yes, to reach out and text you first. The second sign that she likes you over text is that when she replies, it's thoughtful. She doesn't just say one-word replies or just quick, um, whatever replies. Instead, Instead, there's some meaning behind what she says. She actually adds to the conversation instead of just saying "LOL" or "nice." She's contributing instead of just responding. The next sign that she likes you is that she asks questions. Texting can be a great way to get to know each other in between seeing each other in person. You should never have a relationship that's built entirely on texting. That's not good, that's not healthy, that's really not a relationship. But it's a fabulous tool. And so texting can be a great way to ask questions and get to know someone. If she is asking you questions consistently, it's a good sign. She wants to know more about you. She doesn't want the conversation to end. She's interested and curious about you. She wants to connect. She may ask you about your day, your future plans. She may ask you about your hobbies and interests. It's a very common way to make sure that she continues to get to interact with you. If she keeps asking questions and you keep answering, she doesn't have to stop talking to you. And speaking of questions, you need to use this as a powerful tool as well. It helps you get to know her better, and it's going to make her enjoy talking to you more. This is something I teach my clients in my Academy to help her feel very connected to you, just like you like Answering questions about yourself. She wants to feel needed and like she's interesting, so asking her questions is very important. It helps the conversation not be too one-sided. So just make sure you're asking her questions as well. The next sign that she likes you over text is that she remembers little details about you. Maybe she will bring up something that you mentioned days earlier, or she'll remember something important about you or something important that's going to happen. When we take the time to remember important things about someone, it reveals feels that they are important to us. Otherwise, there's no way we could remember all these little details about every single person. So that one can be easy to miss, but it's definitely powerful. The next sign she likes you over text is that she finds ways to keep the conversation going. We kind of covered this with her asking you questions, but it's not limited to just asking questions. She may introduce new topics just to make sure that she doesn't have to stop talking to you. When you're attracted to someone, when you find you get to text them, you don't want it to stop. You want to continue to be able to communicate with them in some way. So again, if she just gives a short response like "lol" or "cool," then no, she doesn't want the conversation to continue. But if she follows up with something else or brings up something new to talk about, those are fabulous signs that she wants to keep talking to you. This next sign that she likes you is a huge one. This is that she responds with enthusiasm. She's excited to text you. There is a difference between polite conversation versus warmth and enthusiasm. If she's expressive, if she's engaged, if she sounds happy to be talking to you, those are good signs that she is attracted to you. She's been looking forward to this. She is genuinely excited to be texting you. With this sign and And honestly, all the signs. It is important to remember that no single text is proof that she loves you. That's just not how reading signs of interest works. You want to make sure that you are noticing that there's just general interest, general signs of attraction, rather than just seeing one text and assuming, "Oh, she definitely loves me." So make sure that you see several signs of interest. Part of this is making sure that she's open to actually seeing you in real life and not just texting you. So do keep that in mind with all these signs. The next sign she likes you over text is that she playfully teases you. She may even outright flirt a little bit. But the truth is, lighthearted teasing is kind of a big part of flirting. So if she teases you over text, maybe has a little bit of obvious flirting, well, those are signs of interest. Don't just simply disregard them. When you're playfully teasing someone, it can be a great way to create some chemistry, to create some attraction, to make the interaction more fun. The next thing she might do when she likes you is another really good sign. This is that she will text you things that remind her of you. This one is kind of a bonus because the fact that she's texting you something that reminds her of you means that she's been thinking of you. You have been on her mind. She might send you a meme or a funny video or just a random picture of something. Maybe an inside joke, especially, you know, if you have kind of that playfulness going on when you text. These are all fabulous signals that you, my friend, are on her mind. Another type of text that reveals that she has feelings for you is she might just update you about her day. If she's is telling you little things about her day that she does not technically need to share with you, that's a good sign that she's feeling a connection with you. She feels safe sharing things with you. And they don't have to be, like, heavy big things. They can just be simple things. But it shows that she wants to connect with you. When something happens, she wants to share it with you. That's a big deal. It's a massive sign that she's feeling connected with you emotionally. You must have an emotional connection for love to grow and endure. This is so much of what makes love authentic. A lot of people don't stop to think about emotional connection, but emotional connection is what makes you feel seen in a relationship. So it makes you feel understood and accepted just for who you are. It's the kind of relationship that feels safe. It feels like home. A lot of people don't have good relationships because they don't have that emotional connection. So to learn more about emotional attraction and what it is that makes her fall passionately in love with you, because the truth is emotional attraction is only one piece of that puzzle, but to learn more about that and how you can have authentic love, make sure you watch my free masterclass. Go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass or check out the link in the description below. If you are serious about authentic love, you need to know these things. I can't wait to share it with you. Our next sign that she likes you over text is that she sends random pictures to you. Maybe she sends you a picture of the sunset, or her pet, or her outfit. It's an even better sign if it's like a selfie, if she's like in the picture. Maybe she's just sending you a picture of something funny that happened. These are all ways that she is connecting with you. Maybe she's hoping she looks really cute in that selfie and that you'll notice that as well. But these are fabulous ways for her to connect with you, for you to be a normal, natural part of her life that shows that she wants you in her life. Another sign that hopefully is fairly obvious is that she will use affectionate or flirty language. Maybe she has nicknames for you, she may compliment you, maybe she even sends subtle hints. That again can be part of the art of flirting. If she is trying to express attraction or interest, don't just disregard those things. Don't just assume it doesn't mean anything. If she's texting you that way, it's a big deal. Another sign she likes you over text is that she texts you at meaningful times. For instance, she might reach out first thing in the morning, or possibly before bed, or before something big happens. This again shows that you're an important part of her life and she wants that connection. Another sign is that she opens up emotionally. Maybe she shares personal feelings or things she's worrying about or some of her hopes or dreams. Maybe she shares stories that require trust. These are all signs that she does trust you, she does feel a connection with you, and that means you are important to her. Another sign is that she mentions that she's single. When, you know, you're attracted to someone and you want them to notice you and you want them to ask you out, you want them to know you're single. And so if she mentions, not in a needy way, but if she casually, you know, finds a way to fit that into the conversation. It's a way for her to emphasize perhaps that, "I am single, so I'm available, you know, if you want to ask me out," or something like that. The next sign is very similar, and this is that she may ask you about your dating life. Questions about who you like or the type of women you like. This can honestly just be as simple as her way of finding out if that you are available, as well as maybe hoping that you would be attracted to someone like her. Our next sign she likes you over text is that she will hint at things you can do together, or possibly suggest things you can do together. For instance, "This place sounds fun. We should go sometime." Or, "I've always wanted to do that. Maybe we could go together." This is her giving you an opening to lead, to pursue. "Great! I would love to do that with you. Why don't we do that this Friday?" The next sign is that she responds positively when you flirt with her. So yes, she may flirt with you, but if she's very receptive when you flirt with her, that is another fabulous signal. If you flirt and she ignores it or maybe changes the subject, well, that can be indicating that she's not interested, she's uncomfortable. But if she's receptive, maybe does a little flirting back, that is a big sign that she's attracted to you, she does like you, she wants more flirting. Another good sign is that she notices when you temporarily disappear. I am not talking about pulling away to get her attention or make her jealous. Those are mind games. They're not going to lead you to a happy relationship because they're not authentic. But if something happens, you don't have a lot of time to text, you're super busy, whatever it is, and she notices that, that's a big deal. Maybe she checks in with you or asks where you went or just checks in to make sure everything's fine. This leads to another good sign that she likes you, and that's that she makes time to text you even when she's busy. Maybe she doesn't have a ton of time to text, but she does still find time to text you even when her life is busy. This reveals that making time for you is important to her. She may respond later because she can't right now, but she does return to the conversation. She does connect and she is engaged when she can be. Another really good sign that she does like you is that she wants texting to become more. She doesn't want it to just stop at texting. Some people may be okay just having a million texting buddies, But when a woman wants a relationship with you, she doesn't want it to just be over text. This means she will be receptive and excited about meeting in person or having an actual phone call or a video chat, a real date. She's not going to want to just keep it at texting. She's going to want to connect with you in bigger ways as well. This is one of the biggest signs you can get that she is interested, she does like you. And the next sign is that she uses flirty emojis. Sometimes, you know, some people will overlook that and it won't be obvious to them that that's flirting. That is flirting, okay? So if she uses winks or if she uses heart eyes or the emoji with, like, the hearts, you know, rotating around you, or hearts, if she's using flirty emojis, this is a way that through text, which is pretty emotionless, we can insert some of the emotion that we are thinking and feeling. So when she sends those emojis, particularly if it happens frequently, take them as the signal they are. She is flirting. The next sign that she likes you over text is that she— her— You want to make sure that you are noticing a general What is that word? Yeah, I can't remember the word. Thank you so much for watching, my amazing friend. I just totally forgot what I was gonna say next. Okay, secret end of the video club, our word for today is tomatoes. My neighbor gave me some fresh tomatoes from her garden. And I grew up in a garden. I don't have a garden right now, but I love fresh produce. And those are so good. I almost cried when I ate them. So we're just gonna celebrate it. So comment "tomatoes." Bonus points if you want to tell me your favorite thing from the garden. Thanks so much for being here, and I'll see you in the next one! If you enjoyed this video, then you'll also enjoy this video, which is how to go from texting to actually dating her. Because if you just stay texting buddies, it's not really gonna benefit you much. So you need to know how to, like, actually date her. I will link that video for you here. Thank you so much for watching, my amazing friend! Have an amazing day, and I will see you in the next one.










