29 Things Women Say When They Like You 😉 (She's Flirting!)

29 things women say when they like you. Honestly, if she's doing this, she's flirting. What if? What if she's totally flirting with you, but you just don't know it? Sometimes flirting can be easy to miss because it's playful and casual in nature. But here's the problem. If you miss her flirty signals too often, she's going to think that you just aren't interested in her. She's going to think you don't like her back, she's going to be embarrassed, and she's going to move on. But when you're the man who sees and understands that she's flirting with you, everything changes. This is a skill every man needs to know. And thankfully, you're in the right place. Because in this video, we're going to be focusing specifically on what she says that reveals that she likes you. Sometimes it's nice to know what, like, actually is said. So to make this easier to understand, because I'm going to be sharing a lot of things women say, a lot of phrases. To make it a little easier, I'm going to break it into categories. So you're going to walk away from this video with a massive list of what women say when they like you and kind of a quick explanation about why she says that. As we get started, if you are looking for an authentic approach to dating and relationships, no mind games or sleazy tricks, if you want real lifelong love, you're in the right place. This is exactly what I help you with, so make sure you subscribe. So our first category for a woman says when she likes you is what we're going to call playful teasing. Flirting by nature is very, very playful. And so we can miss it. Like I mentioned earlier, it can be easy to just totally miss it. So let's kind of break down some of the flirty playful things she will say. She might say something like, "Oh, you're trouble." Basically what this means is, "I'm feeling something around you. You make me feel things, and I'm just being playful about pointing that out. Another playful thing is something like, "Oh, I don't know if I should trust you." Pay attention, you know, is she smiling? Is she like, "I don't know if I should trust you." Okay, she's maybe just freaking out. But if it's like, "Oh, I don't know if I should trust you," this is a very playful way to kind of create some of that playful tension. Have you ever been in that situation where she says something like, "You think you're really funny, don't you?" Another way to just be playful, again, if she's laughing. You know, if she's offended, that's not a good sign. But if she's laughing and being playful, that's just some of that playful connection. She might say something like, "Wow, okay, I see you." This just means she noticed something attractive about you and she wants you to know it. She's admitting it. Okay, this next one has to be done playfully. I just need to emphasize this. This can be seen as unkind, but if it's playful, well then it's playful. This is when she says something like, "You're kind of annoying," or "You're kind of annoying, you know that?" So like, let's pretend she was trying to take the lid off a pickle jar and it didn't work, and then you take it and it comes right off. You know, she might say something like, "You're kind of annoying," you know? She's just being playful with you. Another thing she might say is something like, "Well, I'm not saying I like you, but..." Dude, if she says that, she's probably totally saying that she likes you. Our next category of things women say when they like you is a compliment with interest. If you're flirting with someone, The compliments often show or hint to deeper interest. So an example of this would be, "You know, you're actually really easy to talk to." This is huge. She's letting you know that she feels emotionally safe and comfortable with you. And women have to have that to fall in love with you. Another thing she might say is, "You're different from most guys." This shows that she's separating you from the crowd. She sees something different about you, something exceptional, something that stands out in a good way. Another thing is, "I like the way you think." This is deeper than kind of a surface-level compliment. It's hinting towards a connection. She might also say something like, "You have really good energy," or, "I feel really happy or good when I'm around you." This means that she feels really good when she's around you. That one is easy to miss, but it's powerful. She feels good when she's with you. Another phrase she might say is, is, "Wow, you're really a gentleman." Or maybe, you know, you do something kind or gentlemanly and she says, "Wow, you're such a gentleman." This shows that she's thinking about you in those positive terms. And that is a big deal for a high-quality woman. The deeper meaning is that she respects you, that she feels safe with you. Another phrase many women will say is something like, "You're going to make a girl really happy someday." Many times when a woman says this, she's kind of testing the water. Especially if she's kind of wistful or nervous perhaps when she says it. If she just says, "Dude, you're gonna make a girl really happy someday." Okay, she might just be mentioning it. But if it's, "You're gonna make a girl really happy someday," she's feeling those butterflies and she's like, "Oh, wow. He's really awesome." She's pointing out that she sees what about you would be good in a relationship. That's huge. Another category of things women will say when they like you and they're flirting is just curiosity about your romantic life. For instance, she might say, "So, are you dating anyone?" This is classic, honestly. This is just, you know, "Seeing if you're, like, available." Something else she might say is, "How are you still single?" Let's say you just did something nice for her, or maybe you just did something that was attractive in some way. Like when you flex your arms when you pick up something heavy or something like that. You know, yes, we pay attention to things like that. Basically, it's a compliment disguised as a question. "How are you still single?" AKA, "You are dreamy, man." Something some women will say, might be a little bold for some women, but some may say, "What's your type?" She's wondering, you know, if she like is that type or not. If a woman asks at the appropriate time, this is perhaps not like first date kind of questions, but if she says something like, "So do you wanna get married someday?" Or really just asking you about your opinions on marriage. "Do you like marriage? Is that something you would eventually like?" For a woman who wants a lifelong relationship, a woman who wants to be by your side forever, that's something important to her. She wants to know. Something else she might ask is something like, "Well, what kind of girl do you usually go for?" She's trying to see if she's the kind of girl that you usually go for. That's a scary question to ask, just to be clear. So there are a lot of women who might not ask that. Something else she might say is something like, "I bet girls are always flirting with you." She may be kind of, you know, like, testing the waters a little bit to see like, "So do women flirt with you a lot? Are you like—" "how do you respond to that?" Like, you know, she's just trying to get a feel for the situation. It's also like a compliment while she's also getting very important information. As a quick bonus tip for you here, remember that you do need to pursue her. When you're seeing that she's interested in you, if you don't make any kind of a move, well, then she's going to think you're not interested. She's going to move on. She wants you to show up as the masculine leader. In this relationship. So as fun as it is to know how to identify if someone's attracted to you and kind of some of the early relationship things, it's equally or perhaps even more important to know how to make the connection even deeper. What is it that makes her fall passionately in love with you and want to stay by your side forever? How do you create that kind of connection? You need to turn the attraction into love. Now, many men are good at attracting women, but they're not good at helping her see that they're the kind of man she would want to be with forever. This is why I've created some free training for you so that you know how to turn that attraction into deep desire and love and affection. You're going to learn 3 things a woman has to have in order to fall in love with you. And the good news is they're not super overwhelming, but they are very important. So you need to watch this training. Go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass or check out the link in the description below to watch this free training. Another category for how she'll flirt with you, what women say when they like you, is she may say things to create opportunities. This is very common because, of course, she needs you to pursue her with your masculinity. But her femininity is going to want to pursue you in a more feminine way. One way she does this is she creates opportunities. She lets you know, "Hey, you sexy man, you." She may not think that, but she may think that. "I am going to make it as easy as possible for you to pursue me. Please come and receive my femininity with your masculinity. I am going to make it as easy as possible for you to lead. And she's going to be very receptive. So if she's creating those opportunities, that's basically her saying, "You pursue me." One of the things she might say is, let's say she's talking about some kind of event or something she's doing, and she says something like, "You should come." This is especially true if she invites you to something specifically rather than just casually or generally. Like, if she invites the whole room. You know, that may or may not mean something. But if she specifically wants you to come to something, that's a big deal. Another huge one, you've probably heard me mention this before, is "we should do that sometime." If she does not want to do it with you, she's going to say, "I should do that sometime." But if she's saying "we," that doesn't mean she wants to do it alone, okay? It means she wants to do it with you. This is one of the biggest signals a woman will send a man. If she is saying, "We should do that sometime," that is her saying, "I want you to ask me out." No, she's not going to ask you out because then she's claiming the masculine energy. She wants you to be the masculine leader, not her. So unless you want her to be the masculine leader, then you need to step in as the masculine leader and ask her out. She's told you she's going to say yes. Another way she could be creating opportunities is she may say something like, "Would you teach me that?" Or, "You'll have to teach me." Maybe you're talking about a skill or something you enjoy doing. She's inviting you to have more time in her life, in her week. She's basically just creating a reason to spend more time with you. Something else she may say is, "Hey, I need your help with something." Sometimes she does genuinely need your help with something. And maybe she went to you specifically because she prefers your help over anybody else's. But it could also just be an excuse. Full disclosure here, she may just have come up with an excuse because she wants to spend time with you. Something else she may say is, "You should text me." Dude, if she says you should text her, then you should text her. Maybe you're talking about an event or an activity and she said, "Let me know when you're going." She's trying to be a part of it. She wants to go when you go. She wants to be there. When you are there. This next category, in all honesty, I didn't quite know what to call it. So we're going to call it "Exploring Your Confidence," because that was the best name I could come up with, but it's flawed. She may say something like, "Are you always this confident?" Basically, this reveals to you that she's noticing your masculine presence, and she's appreciating it. She might say something like, "Do you say that to all the girls?" Or, "I bet you say that to all the girls." Basically, when she says that, she wants reassurance that you don't say it to all the other girls. She wants reassurance that there's something special about her and the connection that she feels with you. Now, she may say something like, "You're pretty bold." If she says this warmly and receptive, then it shows that she likes that you are taking initiative, that you're being proactive. She may say something like, "I didn't expect that from you." This can mean that she's surprised by you in an attractive way. Something caught her attention. She was kind of taken a little off guard by it, but she likes it. Something else she might say is, "Okay, now I'm impressed." She's letting you know that you caught her attention in a good way. That that was a good— whatever it is you just did, that was good. You know what? You can't see it, but below the camera, as I am saying these lines, my body language is flirting. I'm telling you guys, it's real! When I get in the zone, it's the actress in me. When I get in the zone and I'm like— I will often overact things when I show them to you so that you can obviously see them. But when I get in the zone, my body language just follows. You can't see the rest of me. That's so funny. I don't even remember what I was saying. I'm trying to think of a word, but it's not coming. I only came prepared with one word today. 'Cause I usually film 2 videos at a time. 'Cause I'm cool like that. I need to get off camera really fast. I am tired. Okay. One of our last videos, I don't remember which one, our word for the end of the video was fire. So the word for the end of the video today is smoke. 'Cause that's really clever. If you watched to the end, comment smoke so that I know you did. I always look forward to your comments. Comments. Thank you so much for being here. Never forget that you're amazing! Well, now that you know 29 things women will say when they're flirting with you when they like you, make sure you also check out this video, which is 9 ways women will flirt without being too obvious. Now that you know what she'll say, it's time to learn what she'll do. I will link that here for you. Thank you so much for watching, my amazing friend! 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