In this short monologue, the speaker (a dating‑coach style presenter) tackles what she calls the three biggest lies men are told about what women want. She argues that these lies—(1) that men must play mind‑games to keep a woman interested, (2) that men need to pretend to be someone they’re not, and (3) that men should give far more than they receive in a relationship—are propagated by toxic or “toxic women” and do not apply to authentic, high‑value women. For each myth she explains why it is unhealthy and how it contradicts the behavior of genuine, nurturing partners who seek authentic connection and mutual contribution. The video ends with a call‑to‑action, inviting viewers to check the description for more guidance on attracting high‑value women.
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Let's talk about the 3 biggest lies about what women want. There are some crazy toxic lies about what women really want. And honestly, I'm sure you've heard some of them. They're everywhere. Let's debunk these lies. Because while it might be true that toxic women want these things, authentic women, high-value women, good women, they never want these things. Number 1 is playing silly games. Lots of people will tell you, "Well, you have to play games or she won't stay interested in you." If she is so immature she can't stay interested in you without a mind game? Do you want that woman in your life? I don't think that's a good idea. Number 2, pretending to be someone you aren't. If you ever feel like you have to pretend to be someone you're not in order to be attractive to a woman, that's not the kind of woman you should be attracting. Good, authentic women, they don't want to play games with you. And they want to love the authentic you. She wants someone who she can be in love with her whole life. And in order for that to happen, it has to be authentic. And number 3, giving more to the relationship than you receive. Yes, you will always have seasons in a relationship where there may be a little bit more give or take. That's fairly normal. However, expecting a relationship where you give everything, she receives everything, and she doesn't give back, that's completely unhealthy. A high-value woman— women are naturally nurturers. We want to take care of the people who matter to us. And so she's going to want to give to the relationship as well. P.S. Plus, if you want to know more about how to start finding and attracting those high-value women instead of the toxic ones, check out the description below.