7 Clear Signs YOU BOTH Like Each Other 😏 (And Should Stop Overthinking It!)

7 clear signs you both like each other and should stop overthinking it. You know those thoughts, right? "So does she like me or does she not? Am I going to embarrass myself if I make a move? But what if I don't make a move and another guy makes a move first and he gets the girl instead of me?" You've been there, right? When you have feelings for someone and her every move makes your heart race, it can be very easy to doubt yourself from time to time. And you can overthink every single little thing. Thankfully, you don't have to do that anymore. You can reject overthinking and instead take a proactive, empowered approach. You can learn what signs to look for that say you are totally attracted to each other. I am sharing 7 of these signs in this video. So if you are sick of overthinking and ready to know the signs that she likes you back, make sure you keep watching. As we dive in, a huge welcome to all my first-time viewers here. And all my long-time viewers too! Just in case we haven't formally met, my name is Melannie. I'm a Christian dating coach for men and your go-to source to learn how to make attraction, love, and connection feel effortless. If you are sick of the mind games and you're ready for a wholesome, authentic approach to love, then make sure you subscribe because you are in the right place. All right, are you ready for our first sign that you both totally like each other and should just stop overthinking it? Sign number 1 is that she chooses to spend time with you when she doesn't have to. It's one thing if you have to spend time with someone, but if she doesn't have to and she still chooses to spend time with you, it's for a reason. A good way to spot this sign is if she volunteers to do things with you. Let's say you're a group and, "Oh no, we forgot this!" And you say, "Oh hey, I'll go pick that up." And she says, "Hey, I'll come help you." She's going out of her way to spend time with you when she doesn't have to do that. This leads us right into the second sign. This is that she's excited to see you and excited to do things with you. This is a key indicator that the attraction is mutual. She's excited to to spend time with you. There's a big difference between someone who's just being polite and someone who's actually excited. One way to know she's excited is that she takes you up on the offer. For instance, if you ask her out, she says yes instead of hems and haws and tries to come up with excuses. Now, yes, sometimes we do legitimately have things already planned, and so that should not always be seen as rejection. But if she's trying to make this work, she's excited to say hi when she sees you, she's excited to to hear from you, that's key. Now I do want to mention real fast, a really good thing to look for is that she's excited to see you even if she's not necessarily getting anything from it. Sometimes there can be a huge concern about a woman who's just using you, right? There's a big difference between a woman who's only excited to see you when you're buying her something or when you're paying for the meal. But if instead she's just excited to see you whenever, then that's a good sign that it's authentic attraction. And actually, speaking of knowing if a woman's using you or not, I've been wondering if you'd like a video on signs she's using you or why women use men, something like that. If that is a video you would like to see in the future, please comment "yes" to let me know. I really appreciate your feedback. The third sign that this attraction is definitely mutual and you don't need to overthink it so much is that you have long, engaging conversations. Have you ever been chatting with someone and it doesn't feel painfully drawn out? I mean, yes, we all kind of have moments where there's, like, an awkward pause sometimes. That's normal when you're getting to know someone. But when you just, both of you, are engaged in the conversation, it's interesting to both of you, some of the body language for this is you're both kind of maybe even leaning in because you're just so into this conversation. That is a fabulous sign that she's enjoying interacting with you, she's enjoying spending time with you, that this connection is mutual. Our next sign that the attraction is definitely mutual is that the body language signs are on point. Meaning you are seeing tons of body language and consistent body language signs that she totally thinks you're hot, that she's interested in you. Body language really just kind of comes down to a science. When we feel certain ways, you see it in our bodies. When somebody's hot, when somebody's cold, when somebody's angry, when somebody's happy. We can tell by their bodies. Now what's not as obvious to everyone is the signs of attraction. However, once you learn them, they become very obvious. So this actually brings up a good question. Would you like to master the art of reading women's body language? That sounds like a pretty powerful tool, right? It is. The men who understand this are the ones who can be the most successful in love. And I have an incredible resource to help you with this. I created Mastering Women's Signals to teach you exactly how to read women's signals in all kinds of situations. I also share with you the biggest mistakes to avoid and how to make sure you're reading the signs correctly. I want to give you 1 week of free unrestricted access. It's almost a 3-hour course and you get it for entirely free for 1 week. So check the link in the description below. I will also put a link in the pinned comment. If you're wondering if she likes you, you need to know these things. So make sure you sign up for it. Again, there's a link in the description below and a link in the pinned comment. That's going to help you master reading her body language signals incredibly quickly. And to bring this full circle once again, one of the most accurate ways to know that she likes you back is through her body language. The next way to know that this attraction is mutual, that she likes you back, is that she looks out for you and you look out for her. At its core, what a healthy relationship truly is, is a team. It is a team where a man and a woman can rely on each other. They care about each other. They want to take care of each other. That's why God designed it this way. It's such a beautiful, beautiful type of relationship. And So if you kind of notice that she's got your back a little bit and you've got her back a little bit, that is a wonderful sign that this attraction is mutual, that there's something special about you. So let's say you state your opinion about something and she kind of backs you up. Not meaning that you can't have different opinions. We're humans, right? But if you kind of notice that she's got your back, or let's say she checks in on you to make sure you're doing okay, or if she finds out, that something hard happened, she checks in with you, or if you're sick, she wants to help take care of you, if she's looking out for you, that is a key sign of attraction and interest. You matter to her. Our next sign that you're both attracted to each other is that there's mutual flirting. Flirting is one of the best ways to kind of help create a spark and keep keep the spark growing bigger into a fire. And so if there's that mutual flirting going on, that good chemistry, that is a good sign that maybe you should stop overthinking it. Now, if you're not sure, "Okay, but how do I know if she's flirting with me?" That's a very, very important question to know, right? Well, good news, that course I mentioned earlier is going to help you so much with this as well, Mastering Women's Signals. So make sure you sign up. Sometimes it can be hard to know, "Is she flirting? Is she just being friendly?" Don't worry, I got your back. Our next sign that the attraction is mutual is one of the most important. This sign is that you're connecting emotionally. You just feel that they get you and you get them. Never ever underestimate the power of emotional connection. Women want this connection with their husband. As a matter of fact, studies show us that this is way more important to most women than even physical attraction. Physical attraction is important, but the emotional connection is what makes her say, "I want to marry this man." That's why there's an entire pillar of my Academy devoted to emotional attraction. So if you feel like there's trust. She trusts you, you trust her. If you feel like you just understand each other. Maybe even though you're not in a committed relationship yet, maybe there's even some loyalty towards each other in appropriate ways. These can all be great signs that you feel that emotional connection. You open up to each other about your feelings and your thoughts and your opinions. Let's do a quick recap of everything you just learned. 7 signs she likes you back and you should stop overthinking it. Number 1, she chooses to spend time with you when she doesn't have to. Number 2, she's excited to see you and excited to do things with you. You can feel the enthusiasm. Number 3, you have long, engaging conversations. This is past small talk. This is a connection. Number 4, Body language signs are on point. You can see through her body language that she's totally attracted to you. And by the way, if you want to master reading women's body language, check out my program Mastering Women's Signals. You can get 1 week of free unrestricted access. Check out the description to learn more. Number 5, she looks out for you and you look out for her. She wants to take care of you. She wants to make sure you're okay. Number 6, there is mutual flirting. She's totally flirting with you. You feel that good flirtatious chemistry. Number 7, you are connecting emotionally. You open up to each other, you feel trust, you feel like you understand each other. And real quick before we wrap this up, let's just touch on overthinking. Overthinking is very easy to do. Remember though that when you know how to make attraction, love, and connection feel effortless, you really don't have to overthink it anymore. How in the world do we do that? How do we make it feel effortless? You tap into the power of habits. This is exactly what I teach my clients in my Academy. It's all about habits. Not changing your personality, but taking on attractive, healthy habits. This is why I've coined the phrase "attractive by default," like what my shirt says. I'll walk you through this in detail in my Academy. So the next time doors open for enrollment, I invite you to join me there. Thank you so much for watching, my amazing friend! I hope you enjoyed this video. If you did, please make sure you share it with a friend. And if you don't yet follow me on social media, there are links in the description below. I share exclusive content in my Instagram and Facebook stories, so make sure you especially follow me there. Thank you so much again, my amazing friend, and have an amazing day! Okay, I'm just gonna dive in. I'm not going to distract myself. With a lot of funny things at the beginning. I'm just gonna get to it. Also, okay, I've already strayed. Too late now. I'm wearing my new Attractive by Default shirt that you can get yours. I think there's a link down below. There should be a merch shelf down below. This one's red, and it just says "Attractive by Default," reminding you that as you follow these principles, your default setting becomes irresistibly attractive. Mostly I just feel really cool wearing it, so I wanted to mention that. Okay. Now I gotta get focused. When you have feelings for some— When you have feeling— Okay. That's how you reset, clearly. Never ever under my— Under what? I have cilantro on my teeth. I had Chipotle for lunch. Worth it. But now I might— have filmed a whole video with cilantro on my teeth which would be amazing! Nope, I think I'm good. That's— that's good because I just reached to get into the video you guys. You know it's amazing how easy I can slip into that without even realizing I'm doing it. Hello, end of the video club! Thank you for being here. If this is your first time watching to the end of the video, we always have a special word at the end. And when you comment that, I know that you're part of the secret club. So it's kind of fun. Our word for the end of the video today is cilantro. Because cilantro is amazing. And I had a burrito for lunch, and so, you know, thinking about cilantro. So thank you so much for being here. Never forget that you're amazing.