7 HUGE Green Flags in Women 💚 (Signs She’s Wife & Mom Material ❤️)

7 huge green flags in women. These are signs that she's wife and mom material. If you are a wholesome man looking for a wholesome, loyal woman, if you're looking for lifelong love, then you are in the right place because this video was literally created for you. And if you're already married and wanting to deepen your connection with your wife or reconnect, then stay tuned because I have some surprises for you as well. I'm posting this video the day before Mother's Day in America. America. And it's got this whole concept of what makes a good wife, what makes a good mother on my mind. Because imagine you fall in love with a girl. You commit to her and then find out this was a really bad idea. That is not what you want, right? It is so much better to know what green flags to look for first. I talk a lot on my channel about toxic traits and you want to avoid toxic women. But it's equally important to know what you should look for. What are green flags that say, "Yes, she is going to be an incredible wife. She's gonna be your best friend." The best green flag is the one at the end, so make sure you stay tuned for that one. And for those who are watching for the first time, welcome! My name is Melannie. I'm a Christian dating coach for men and your go-to guide to wholesome dating and relationship advice. If you're sick of mind games and manipulative tricks, then you're in the right place. We're all about science-backed from a Christian perspective. So make sure you hit that subscribe button. So let's dive into the first sign that she's going to be an incredible wife and an incredible mother. Sign number 1 is that she can say she's sorry. This is something in marriage we are all going to have to do. We are imperfect, we're going to make mistakes, we're going to do things unintentionally that hurt our partner. And there should be no ego in marriage for either person. Being someone who can accept and give an apology is setting yourself up for for a lifetime of affection and closeness and happiness. Another reason why it's important to find a woman who can apologize is this says a lot about her level of maturity. You do not want the mother of your children to be immature. You want someone who has that emotional maturity. And being able to apologize is a huge sign that she has that. Our second green flag for women is that she encourages when she builds you up. One of the biggest things that affects how we feel about ourselves, about life, it affects our mental health and our physical health, are the people we're around. This is especially true with your partner. The person who should be the very closest to you, your spouse, should be your biggest supporter. Having a positive outlook on life makes someone a good partner. Those of you who are in my Academy know that this is one of those traits I call attractive by default. Your default setting is ridiculously attractive when you're a positive person. If you want a more loving partner, if you want a happier life, an easier life, look for a woman who chooses to see the good in the world. Because yes, it is a choice. And not only is this going to make her a good wife, it's also going to make her an incredible mother. If she's an encouraging, building person, she's going to treat your children that way. And that's what you want, right? That's certainly what they deserve. It's what you deserve. Our third green flag is that she has no manipulative behaviors. Manipulation is one of the most dangerous traits that our partners can have. It eats away at the relationship, it eats away at your self-esteem. If she's willing to manipulate you, you better bet she's going to manipulate your children. So making sure you're with a woman who does not have any manipulative behavior is incredible. It gives you huge peace of mind. So what are some examples of manipulative behavior? I'm talking about feeling like you're always walking on eggshells. We're talking about things like gaslighting. Maybe she plays the victim card a lot and makes you feel like everything's your fault. Or even if it's not your fault, you have to fix it. And actually speaking about manipulative behavior, some of those toxic traits. I've been thinking about doing another video about signs of a toxic woman. It's actually been a really long time since I did a video on that, which is funny because it's something I'm so passionate about. So would you like me to make another video on that? If you would, comment "toxic" to let me know. Thank you for that feedback! Okay, this next green flag is one of my favorites. This is that she laughs with you. She makes your life feel lighter, not heavier. Can you imagine walking through the rest of your life with someone like this? "That sounds like a lot of fun, doesn't it?" No! It sounds like torture! But if instead you're with someone who can laugh at the little things with you, she can laugh at herself, and she kind of— this kind of goes along with being a positive person, right? Someone who makes life just feel lighter. Laughter is a very underrated way to connect with someone else. It's very powerful, but most people completely overlook it. And one of the main secrets to a happy, lifelong, passionate marriage is to maintain a good connection. And thankfully, if you've pulled apart, the same things will help you reconnect and help your relationship become stronger than ever. So whether you're married or single or about to be married, getting ready to start your life with someone, I've got a good surprise for you. I just created an all-new free guide. Introducing Your Marriage Connection Blueprint: 5 Daily Habits to Stay Emotionally and Intimately Close. This is perfect for anyone who's wondering how to make things feel as good or better than they did when you were dating. This is perfect for anyone who's just a little bit nervous about marriage, or even just wants to be prepared for marriage, or if you're already thriving and want to make sure you keep thriving in your marriage, I will put a link in the description below and a link in the pinned comment. Honestly, I was so excited to share this with you. I purposefully made the checklist kind of short and concise so you just get the good stuff and you can start reaping the rewards. So again, there's a link in the description below, and a link in the pinned comments. All right, this next green flag in women is another very powerful one. This is going to make her a good wife for sure. This green flag is that she pursues you too. If you've been following me for a while, you know we talk about this a lot. Men and women are different in a lot of ways. However, at our core, we're really not that different. We both long for connection, we both want to love, and be loved. We have, though, the different feminine and masculine energies, and we are irresistibly drawn to each other. Men and women have a very unique bond. That's how God created us. And so when she's trying to pursue you, she's going to do it with her feminine energy. So it's gonna look a little different. However, it's very critical that she does pursue you too, that she is invested in this relationship, in this marriage as well. So what are some examples of this? Well, one example is that she knows your love language and she goes out of her way to show you love the way you need to feel it. She flirts with you! And she takes the time to look nice for you. These are all powerful ways a woman will pursue pursue her man. She wants you to feel loved. She wants that connection to stay strong. Okay, pay close attention to this green flag because it's very important. This green flag is that she communicates well instead of moping or yelling. This again shows her maturity. It is very, very draining to be in a relationship with someone, especially a marriage, with someone who mopes a lot or who yells. For those who maybe don't know, in addition to my Attracting Lasting Love Academy, that's my online program for single men who want to find the love of your life and who want to become the dream man of your dream woman while staying totally authentically you. So I have my Academy. In addition to that, I recently opened my Marriage Mastery Membership. And our topic for the month of May is good communication skills. So this has really helped reinforce the importance of this principle for me as I've been studying and presenting this for them. Many people, they don't know they're doing this, but they try to feel connected through anger or sadness. They're trying to create a connection through unhealthy ways. All this does is cause a whole lot of drama, and you don't want that in your marriage. You certainly don't want the mother of your children to be a drama queen. Drama queen, right? Instead, a woman who knows how to communicate and strives to be mature is golden. So obviously make sure you know how to communicate well or that's gonna kind of mess it up. But making sure you are only going to marry a woman who communicates well is gonna save you a lot of heartache. Now we are to the single most important green flag. You ready for this one? Many of you are not going to be surprised by this one. This green flag is that she puts God first. And I mean actually puts God first. Sometimes what can happen is some people will use religion as just like a social outlet or kind of like a hobby that's convenient. Sometimes there's religious abuse and people use it as a, "I'm I'm so much better than everybody else. That is not what religion is. That is not what Jesus taught us while he was here. However, if she is someone who truly values her relationship with God and she puts that first and she prays to God consistently, she studies her scriptures consistently, that is a woman you can trust. Why? Because she's striving to live a higher standard. It is really hard to be a drama queen when you have a very close relationship with God. It's very hard to put other people down when you have a real relationship with God. And so if she's putting God first, then she's going to put you first and she's going to treat you right. Is she going to be perfect? No! None of us are perfect on planet Earth. But she's going to try with all her heart and soul to treat you well. And to treat your children well. So if she is someone who— actions speak louder than words, by their fruits you shall know them— if you can tell through her actions that her relationship with God is the most important thing, that is a woman you can trust your heart with. Okay, let's recap what you just learned. I am going to remind you one more time, though, make sure you get that guide. Again, if you're married, it's only going to make your connection better. If you're not yet married, it's gonna help you make sure you're prepared. So there's a link in the description below and a link in the pinned comment. I can't wait to share this new guide with you, so check it out. 7 huge green flags in women. These are signs that she's totally wife and mom material. Number 1, she can say she's sorry. This is not about ego for her. 2, she encourages you and she builds you up. She's an encouraging person. 3, she has no manipulative behaviors. 4, she's able to laugh with you. She makes your life feel lighter, not heavier. Number 5, she pursues you too. Yes, she's going to do it in a feminine way, but she's committed to this and committed to making you feel amazing too. Number 6, she communicates in healthy ways instead of moping or yelling. Number 7, she puts God first. She chooses to live by a high standard and therefore will always treat you right. Thank you so much for watching, my amazing friend! I hope you enjoyed this video. I enjoyed making it for you. I want to give a huge shout-out to everyone who's so generous with the Super Thanks. Thank you for supporting my content! I'm on a mission to create a movement for flooding this world with wholesome goodness. Dating and relationships and marriage, they're such important things. God wants us to have good things in our lives. He wants good families. And so despite the fact that, you know, not everybody supports wholesome content on YouTube, I'm on a mission to change that. So your support helps so much. Thank you. One last call to make sure you download that free guide and learn the 5 simple daily habits that change everything in Your Marriage. There's a link in the description below and a link in the pinned comment. Thank you so much again, my amazing friend, and have an amazing day! Okay, 7— What? I can't talk, people. Why do I get paid to talk? I can't. Just kidding. Thank you so much for watching, my amazing friend! I hope you enjoyed that video. I had fun putting it together. So I, um, Yeah, I got a little caught up in what I was saying there. I forgot what came next. Okay. Thank you so much for watching, my amazing— Yes. Brains off somewhere else. Okay. And have an amazing day. That's what I'm gonna do. I'm gonna go out there and have an amazing day. Mm-hmm. Oh, yeah. That was my awkward dance. You're really welcome for that. You wanna know why I talk about authentic strategies? There are many reasons, but one is because that's kind of how I choose to live my life. It is just authentic. And sometimes awkward little dances come out, okay? Sometimes they even come out in the grocery store because I'm just not really caring what people think about it. So this is the unfiltered version of life sometimes. Okay, secret end of the video club, thank you so much for being here. I always look forward to seeing your comments. So if you're new here, if you've never watched to the end before, we always have a special secret word at the end. We're like a secret club nobody knows about. And then just those who are in the club leave the special secret word in the comments, and it's awesome. So thanks for humoring me for that because it's actually very fun for me. Our word for today is "green." Why is it green? Because it's It's finally spring and it's green outside my window and it makes me so ridiculously happy. So thank you for being here. Comment "green." And never forget that you're awesome. "She may be nerdy, but she's fun." I need that on a t-shirt. Yes, I'm a nerd. Yes, I'm also fun. So what? I don't know. Okay, bye!