7 Reasons Why A Woman Sends You Mixed Signals 🙈 (And What To Do About It!)

7 reasons why a woman might send you mixed signals and what to do about it. Have you ever had a woman send you mixed signals? It hurts, right? You think she's really cute and you start thinking that she's attracted to you too. But just as you get your hopes up, things suddenly fall apart. Has this happened to you, or is this maybe happening to you right now? It's discouraging and it's a real hit to your self-esteem. Now before you start thinking that all women are jerks, there There are some very explainable, legitimate reasons why a woman might start to pull away. And I think they're going to really surprise you. In this video, I'm walking you through 7 reasons why she may give you mixed signals. And we're going to quickly touch on what to do about it, so make sure you stay to the end of the video. Now before we dive in, in case this is your first time watching, welcome! My name is Melannie. I'm a Christian dating coach for men and your go-to source to learn how to find the adorable love of your life, completely captivate her heart, and keep her love permanently. All without mind games and tricks. So make sure, if that's something you're looking for, make sure you hit that subscribe button. With that, let's dive into the reasons why women might send mixed signals. Reason number 1 is that she might just be chickening out. Have you ever been in that situation where you think somebody's really cute and you hope they like you and all of these emotions and feelings are flooding your brain, And sometimes you just kind of start to chicken out a little bit. She may feel unsure about how you feel about her. Or there may be some things that she sees as obstacles. Believe it or not, women have their own baggage too. We all have our own baggage. And so there might be something that is complicating pursuing this any further for her. And so sometimes she just might chicken out a little bit. If you've ever felt that and done that yourself, it's easy. To see why that happens. Now, the next reason why a woman may send you mixed signals is that she thinks you've already rejected her. This is very, very common. I've been doing this coaching thing for a very long time now, and it's very common for a guy to be like, "Yeah, I thought things were going well and she was flirting and all this stuff, and then she's just— she's completely pulled away and I have no idea what's going on." One of the most common reasons why this happens is is she thinks that you rejected her. And naturally she's not gonna wanna pursue it anymore. Men and women are different. Surprise, right? We all know that, but we often forget to keep that in mind when we interact with each other. Now here's the beautiful part. When we know how, men and women build off of each other's strengths and we give each other energy. And there's so much about a relationship together that is beautiful. And I'm empowering and exciting and even ultimately passionate. However, if we don't really understand each other and how to communicate with each other, some problems can come up, which is why I'm here to translate the world of women for you. So women absolutely pursue men. Absolutely. If she's interested in a man, she's going to want to pursue him, but she's gonna want to do it in a feminine way. So the way she tries to get your attention, the way she tries to let you you know she's attracted to you, the way she tries to see if you're attracted to her, if you don't respond to those things, then she thinks she's being blatantly obvious. Because she probably is to everyone but you. That's just kind of how this works. When we're attracted to somebody, we're usually the last ones to notice that they like us back. And so she thinks she's being blatantly obvious, and if you don't act on that, that is hardcore rejection. And this is a very common reason Well, you may feel like she was interested, she was flirting, she liked you, and then all of a sudden it's just over. Make sense? And remember, we're going to talk about what to do if she sends you mixed signals at the end of this video. But I just want to give you the reasons why she'll do this first. So the third reason why a woman may send you mixed signals is just because life happens. Sometimes, and it's easy to do, everybody does it, if you try to set something up, you try to ask her out, you try to do something together, and and there's reasons why she can't, or maybe she'll have to cancel or something like that. Sometimes it can be mixed signals. Sometimes it can honestly just be life happens. I'm sure that's happened to you before. It's really hard as a girl when there's a guy that you just really think is cute and you're so excited because he asked you out and you're just, like, on cloud nine, and then something legitimately comes up. Maybe there's a family problem, or maybe there's a work thing that you can't get out of. Whatever it is, and you have to cancel, it just kind of kills you a little bit inside because you're really hoping he won't think that you're just putting him off. So sometimes life just happens, and it's not that she's trying to make excuses. Now, I will say, if this happens frequently, she's either an airhead, got too much drama in her life, or she is just making excuses. So if it happens too much, well, yeah, then that may be an indicator that this isn't going to work. But if sometimes she has other things in her life, well, she's a busy person. And so I know it's easy to take it personally, but try not to. Reason number 4 is that something happened as you started getting to know each other. Something happened that made her think that this is not going to work. This is another one of the most common things I see as a dating coach. High-value people, when they're looking for a happy lifelong relationship. They know what they want, and they know what level of effort they are willing to bring to the relationship. They want someone that's really going to be compatible with them. Obviously, you want that as well. And so if she's looking for certain things and looking out for certain things, if something happens that makes her think this isn't going to work, it's pretty common for her to just then, you know, pull away and be done. This is very, very, very common. And if you're struggling to get a rela— if your relationships always end after, like, the third date or something like that, then this is probably a large part of your problem. Some of the ways I teach my clients how to avoid this situation are to make sure you understand how to create a strong emotional connection with her and feelings of safety. Honestly, even if you only understood those two things, you would be light years ahead when it comes to love. 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If you're in my Academy, you're already familiar with this. One of these guidelines is to pay attention and see if you are the exception. If she acts the way she acts with you around everyone, well then she may just be a really friendly person. Or another example is if it's her job to be really friendly, if she's the receptionist. However, if you notice she acts this way kind of more exclusively around you, now you have a really good indication that she's interested in you. So many times she's not trying to be a jerk. She's just a friendly person. She loves people. This is actually something that has been a struggle for me for most of my adult life, and even in some of my teenage years. I just love people. I love talking to people. I love making people feel awesome when they're around me. And this has led to tons of people thinking I was flirting with them when that was not remotely my intention. So pay attention. Does she act that way around everyone or does she act that way exclusively with you? Because if she is just a friendly person it really doesn't make sense for her to have to like not talk to anybody ever again. That's not cool. Reason number 6 that she may send mixed signals is she may not completely understand her own feelings at this moment. Have you ever been there where you're starting to wonder if maybe you like this person and you're not quite sure how to process that? This is a especially common if she's someone who maybe has had some bad experiences in the past and you're kind of at that phase where you're like, "Wait, do I like them? Maybe I don't. I don't want to send the wrong signal. I don't know." Have you been there? It's a hard place to be. And so this can be a reason why she could be sending some of those mixed signals. Now usually this phase should last super long. If she can't make up her mind and she's an adult woman, you know, that's a little weird. There are a lot of chick flicks out there where they show it as super romantic when she can't decide between this man or this man. And I'm like, girlfriend, you got issues. So maybe don't get involved in a situation like that. Now the next reason why she might be sending you mixed signals is another common one. And this is Well, she might be toxic. She might be playing mind games with you. Especially, there are many toxic women who just try to get the attention of as many men as possible. Obviously, there are toxic men who do this with women as well. This is just what toxic people do. They need things to feed their ego. And so they just want a long list of people who can't live without them. And that's a pathetic way to exist, but many people choose that way. For some weird reason. And so it can definitely be the case that some of these women are playing with your mind, messing with your head, either because they— maybe they don't intend to be toxic, but they were taught to flirt that way. I see this all the time and it makes me absolutely sick and furious. Or maybe they are just outright toxic. And means they're using whatever tactics they want to get attention. So I want to 100% validate that yes, it can absolutely be because she's a toxic woman. That does happen and it's common. I do want to put one caution here, and that is please don't just automatically assume that a woman is toxic just because there are mixed signals. If you go in with that mindset, it's going to be a lot harder to open up to women who may not be toxic, who maybe are just one of the other reasons we mentioned. So pay attention to all the other reasons as well. Don't just automatically assume, "Pfft, she's toxic." Now let's talk about what you can do about it. What can you do when you're in a situation where she's sending you those mixed signals? Well, one, being aware of all these things is automatically a a good head start. Because you're naturally going to be more aware and pay attention to other things in the situation, and so that's going to help. Something else I already mentioned is creating a strong emotional attraction and feelings of safety. These two things are things a high-value woman must have in order to desire a relationship with you. When she has those things, she can fall passionately in love with you and stay in love with you for her entire life. This is again something I walk you through in great detail in my Academy. Also, another thing you need to know about what to do if she's sending you mixed signals is you must understand how to pursue women effectively. Just like you want her to pursue you, you want her to show interest, you want her to be invested she wants that from you as well. She's going to pursue you in a feminine way, she wants that masculine energy from you. This is especially true of high-value women. She wants to own her femininity, she wants to bring that femininity to the relationship, and she wants to shower you with feminine affection. That can't happen if she's feeling masculine in the relationship. That makes sense, right? So all those people who leave me comments about, "Why doesn't she just man up?" I want you to think about that statement for a minute. You know, just let that simmer. The other thing to focus on is what attracts toxic women and what attracts high-quality women. Understanding the signs of a toxic woman, because if you're seeing other signs she's toxic, well then, yeah, it's safe to say she's just being toxic. You want to make make sure you understand how to attract the good ones and not the bad ones. And I know that can feel a bit overwhelming. 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Maybe that's the taste of burnt taste buds. I don't know. But everything I eat tastes weird. And that's just sad. So I wanted to share it with you because misery loves company, I guess. So anyway. I told you it would be a random story, and it was. So we're gonna go with, let's see, let's see, let's see. What should our word be? I think our word should be burnt, because that's what my tongue is right now, is burnt. So if this is your first time watching to the end of the video, we always have a special word at the end of the video. Leave that word in the comments. And it's super fun to see how many of you are in this secret club. So thank you for humoring me. Thank you for being here. Blow on your soup before you eat it. And have an amazing day. I just want to share my story, okay? I just needed some sympathy. Thank you. All right, I'm gonna get off the— I'm gonna get off the camera before I do anything else embarrassing. Not that I actually get embarrassed by it, but maybe I should.