Coach MelannieDating and relationship coach for single Christian men

7 Signs She's TOTALLY Flirting With YOU... 😉 #flirting

15 Oct 2025 · 1 min

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In this short, conversational video, the speaker outlines seven observable signs that indicate a woman is flirting with a man. The signs include: (1) playful teasing that is uplifting rather than belittling; (2) talking over her shoulder, a subtle body‑language cue; (3) using flirty emojis in digital communication; (4) breaking the touch barrier through playful pushes, arm touches, bumps, or frequent hugs; (5) giving compliments, ranging from bold to subtle, that signal attraction; (6) hinting at her own attractiveness to invite compliments; and (7) shaking her hips while walking past him, a classic body‑language indicator of perceived attractiveness. The video’s purpose is to help viewers recognize these cues to better understand romantic interest.

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7 signs she's totally flirting with you. Number 1 is that she's playful. She teases you in uplifting ways, not belittling ways. Flirting by nature is very playful. Number 2, she talks over her shoulder to you sometimes. This is a body language thing women just do where she flirts with you over her shoulder. Number 3, she uses flirty emojis when you're texting or chatting online. It's kind of crazy how many people will completely overlook that. Number 4, she breaks the touch barrier. Maybe she playfully pushes you, maybe she puts her hand on your arm when she's talking, maybe she bumps into you, maybe she hugs you a lot. If she's breaking the touch barrier frequently, it's a fabulous sign that she's totally flirting. Number 5, she compliments you. Maybe sometimes they are bold compliments, maybe sometimes they're a little bit more subtle or simple compliments. Or perhaps she just kind of hints at the fact that "yeah, you're an attractive man." Number 6, she hints that she's attractive. She makes it easy for you to compliment her because, you know, she's kind of hoping that you think she's attractive, that you will compliment her. Number 7, she shakes her hips when she walks past you. Body language 101. A very natural, normal thing women do when they think someone's attractive. And she wants you to think she's attractive as well.