7 Signs You're a Very Attractive Man (Even If You Don't Realize It) 😏

7 signs you are a highly attractive man, even if you don't realize it. Far too many men have no idea how attractive they really are. And honestly, there's a chance you're one of them. Women act a certain way around attractive men. And if you don't know what to look out for, you'll totally miss it. Maybe you even notice these random things they do, but you don't understand why. You don't know what it means. Well, today I'm going to walk you through 7 signs you are a very attractive man. As we dive in, make make sure you subscribe if you are looking for a wholesome approach to dating and relationships. I will never teach you mind games or sleazy tricks. I'm all about the science of attraction. As we get started with these signs that you are an attractive man, there are a couple of things to keep in mind. I want you to focus as we go through these signs and notice if you've seen them in your life. There are a couple of things that are likely to happen. Either one, you notice the signs and you suddenly realize, "Wow, I'm a very attractive man!" But you also feel confused, "Well, if I'm so attractive, then why am I struggling to get my dream relationship?" If that's you, don't worry. At the end, I'm gonna tell you what to do about that. Or as you learn the signs of attraction, you may realize that you're not actually seeing any of those from the women around you. That's important to know because it doesn't mean there's something wrong with you. It means that you need to know how to change it because you can actually change it. This is literally my job as a coach. This is what I help people with. So don't worry about it, but also make sure you stay till the end because I'm going to tell you what to do about this. The other thing you may notice is that you do see signs that women are attracted to you, but it only happens around women that you're not particularly interested in. The kind of women you are attracted to, they don't actually act that way around you. Again, I will tell you what to do about this at the end of the video. So now that you know you can put your mind at ease, you don't have to worry about this, you don't have to overanalyze, now let's get started with the signs. You ready? Sign number 1 that you are a very attractive man is that women find reasons to be near you. It is hilarious. I'm a people watcher as a coach. It is so funny to me now to watch a room of people and notice things that a lot of people aren't noticing. And one is that when there's an attractive guy, women just kind of tend to hover around him. Often there's a group of women around him who are trying not to act like they're they're, you know, trying to hang out around him, but that's exactly what they're trying to do. So if women are just frequently where you are, that's a good sign that you're a very attractive man. They will perhaps try to make it appear coincidental or super casual, but in fact, they're finding reasons to be near you. So of course, if you're in a group of people and women are frequently around you, that's a big deal. But also if women in general, even if it's not a large group of women, If they just find reasons to be near you, that's for a reason. You go over to do something and all of a sudden she follows. Or perhaps she tries to park near where you park. Let's say you're coworkers or you go to the same gym or something and she tries to be there about the same time you're walking in so you can walk in and chat together. Or let's say you're talking to a group of people and all of a sudden she tries to join that group and that conversation to talk as well. This is something women frequently do when they're attracted to a man. They try to be near you hoping that you'll think she's beautiful and attractive and want to talk to her, want to ask her out. The next sign that you are a very attractive man even if you don't realize it is you may notice lingering eye contact or even just repeated glances. Like, they just keep looking at you. Surprise, surprise, when we're attracted to someone we like looking at them. And so it's a very normal response response. But sometimes we can completely overlook it or just think it's a whatever situation, when in reality, if this happens frequently, then it's not just a coincidence. It's probably a signal of interest. We've all had those situations where, you know, your eyes just happen to meet because you're just looking across the room. That does happen. But if women frequently are trying to catch your eye, if she smiles, maybe tries to hold your eye contact just a little bit longer, those are signals that she likes what she sees. And she's hoping that you will take this moment of connection with her and you'll act on it. You'll make a move, you'll approach her, you'll talk to her. So if this happens frequently with a woman or several women where they're always, you know, kind of looking at you, well, yeah, don't just assume it's just a whatever. It's a sign that you're very attractive. Okay, this next sign you're very attractive It just makes me feel a little sad inside because everybody has done this. And it sounds like a sign women don't like you, but it's actually a sign that they do. This sign is that women may become extra nervous around you, or maybe even kind of clumsy. She may not be able to talk very well, she may breathe a little harder like she's nervous, she may kind of squirm or fidget. She may, like, have butterfingers and drop things. When we're attracted to someone, we naturally want to make a good impression. And sometimes that causes the opposite to happen because we're so nervous. And so sometimes people will think, "Well, if I'm making her nervous, she must hate me. Maybe she thinks I'm a jerk. Maybe I've offended her without knowing it." And the truth is, I mean, that's possible, But it's not necessarily likely. If you're a nice, kind person, you're a gentleman, you try to be kind, then most likely what's happening is actually that she's just attracted to you and she's nervous. So, you know, be nice to her. If she's a little clumsy or she can't figure out how to talk, just be nice to her because, you know, that's a painful place to be. Now our next sign is sort of the opposite. And this is for some women, they will become more playful or energetic around you. This is very, very common when, for many women, they will suddenly become super bubbly or super energetic or super playful. It could be because she feels connected to you, she's attracted to you, she wants to connect with you. It can also be some of that nervous energy. Like, an example would be, Women will often laugh louder around men they're attracted to. One, because they want your attention. And two, they're nervous. And so that energy will kind of just kind of explode in playfulness and energy and being bubbly. In addition to that, being playful is akin to flirting. And so when women feel attracted to you, they want to connect with you, they may be extra playful with you, maybe even a little bit flirty because they are attracted to you. Being playful with someone is a way to show connection. You feel emotionally close to them, you feel safe being playful with them. We're really not playful with people we don't feel safe with. And women have to feel safe in order for attraction to grow. So if you notice that women tend to be playful with you, that's a very good sign that you are very attractive. The next sign you're an attractive person is that people tend to remember details about you and they tend to seek your attention. This is very common with somebody we respect, somebody who is confident, somebody who is attractive, somebody we look up to. We tend to want their attention and we remember things about them because they're important to us. It's really funny to notice, again, as a people watcher, it's really interesting to notice is how badly people want attention from someone they respect, someone they look up to. We tend to frequently respect people who are very attractive, unless they're jerks. Then they lose respect pretty fast. But we tend to look up to people who are attractive. And so if people kind of seem to always want your attention, it's a really good sign that you're a very attractive man. Okay, this next sign you're attractive is another one that throws some guys off. And they think maybe it's because women don't like them, but it's actually because she does. This sign is that women tend to look at you and maybe whisper or giggle together. So if there's like 2 or more women and they're looking at you and they're whispering or giggling, it can feel like maybe they're like saying mean things about you or they're being unkind. But what's most likely happening is they think you're cute. And so they're whispering to each other, "Oh my goodness, "Look at him today. He looks so amazing. Yadda yadda yadda. Imagine if he were to talk to me." You know, whatever it is. The things she's playing out in her head, it makes her giggle and she's excited and she's delighted that you're there and she wants you to notice her. And we tend to talk about those things with our friends. And maybe her friend thinks you're attractive too. And so if you're noticing that women will, you know, look at you and whisper and giggle and stuff, Well, that's a good sign that it's because you're super hot. The next sign you are an attractive man sounds obvious, but it's easy to overlook. This sign is that people tell you you are attractive. It may be single women. It may, if they're bold or if they've gotten to know you a little bit. But it may even be people who are completely unrelated in that way. Maybe other guys will mention, "Oh yeah, all the girls are paying attention to him. Nobody's gonna notice me because he's here." Or maybe, like, family members or married women will tell you, "You are a really handsome man." My favorite is people who are a little bit older. This happens to my brother all the time where women who are, you know, like old enough to be his grandma will just tell him, "You're a fine-looking man." They have nothing to lose. They don't mean anything inappropriate. They just still have eyes and they're cute enough to tell him this. So sometimes if people tell you you are an attractive person, believe them. The fact is, we always see imperfections in ourselves that other people don't notice. Or if they do notice, most of them don't care. The truth is, you are more attractive than you realize, whether you've noticed these signs or not. As a coach who helps men truly reach their true potential when it comes to the relationship they want and their physical attraction, their emotional attraction, I can tell you with complete confidence You are more attractive than you realize. So let yourself believe that. Now, if you've recognized several of those signs, you might be realizing, "Whoa, I'm like more attractive than I realized. So why don't I have the relationship I want?" Right? Why don't you have the dream girl that you desire? The answer is that attraction does get your foot in the door, but it doesn't automatically create love. There are other things involved. You need emotional connection, she needs to feel safe with you, you need to understand how to lead in a relationship in an appropriate masculine way. Or you may be realizing that you don't see these signs in your life. Maybe you're feeling a little discouraged, wondering if you're ever going to be attractive enough for the person you want. Or maybe you're just not attracting the kind of women you're interested in. Either way, as a coach, I'm here to teach you exactly what you need to do next. When it comes to attraction, there are 3 things I focus on with my clients: emotional connection, physical attraction, and creating safety. You have to have all 3 of those things in order for love to blossom. And I'm here to walk you through it, make it really easy, so you can quickly transform the way women respond to you permanently and make her fall passionately in love with you. To learn more about this, about these 3 areas, you you need to focus on, watch my free masterclass. Go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass or check out the link in the description below. Love and attraction and connection, these don't have to be complicated things. They feel complicated because most people haven't been taught them. Like, most people are taught nothing about relationships. That's not your fault, but it is your responsibility to do something about it. And that's why I created created this training for you. So again, check out the link in the description below to learn how you can finally have the relationship you deserve with no mind games or tricks. Thank you so much for watching, my amazing friend! Have an amazing day, and I will see you in the next one. It's hard to talk when you do that. Weird, right? Okay. Okay, secret end of the video club, you know what happened to me. I was supposed to film earlier this week, but I was— it was just a normal morning. I was making breakfast and I was flipping pancakes, which I have only done like 1,000 times or more in my life, right? And I was flipping pancakes and you know what happened? All of a sudden, searing hot pancake batter and oil flipped up and hit my eye. Thankfully, I was able to close my eye in time. But I didn't know until days later when my eyelids started to, like, peel. So I had this peeling eyelid. I don't know how much you can see on camera. It's still peeling a little bit, but it's— thankfully my eye is fine. But I was like, I can't film like that. It's gonna look so bad. So anyway, our word for the end of the video today is yikes. Because that's the feeling when hot pancake batter and oil hit your eyelid. Anyway, thanks for being here. Thanks for humoring me. Never forget that you're amazing.