7 TEXTS/MESSAGES WOMEN CAN’T RESIST! 😍

In this YouTube video, Christian dating coach Melannie Gregersen presents seven specific text message formulas designed to make a woman smile and increase attraction. She frames texting as a tool for flirting and pursuing, emphasizing authenticity over mind games. The seven texts are: (1) a simple "sweet thought" message that lets her know you’re thinking of her; (2) a "compliment with a twist" that highlights a unique, personal detail; (3) an "inside joke" reference to shared humor; (4) an "I wish you were here" line that creates longing; (5) a "playful tease" that adds mystery; (6) an uplifting "good morning" compliment; and (7) an "anticipation builder" that hints at a surprise. Throughout, Melannie promotes her free texting guide and encourages viewers to subscribe, use Super Thanks, and share the video. She ends with a lighthearted personal anecdote about broccoli, inviting viewers to comment the word as a sign‑off.
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Today we're talking about a very exciting topic: how to make a girl smile with just a few taps of your phone. We're talking about 7 text messages to make her smile. And I mean, like, butterflies-in-her-stomach kind of smile. Because let's be real, the right text at the right time can totally make her day. So if you're wondering how to make her smile and how to keep her thinking about you, then you are in the right place. As we dive in, make sure you subscribe and ring that notification bell. Notification bell. My name is Melannie. I'm a Christian dating coach for men and your go-to source to learn how to find the love of your life and create a deep, authentic connection with her. You will never find mind games or tricks here because they don't work. So if you're all about wholesome, authentic strategies for wholesome, authentic love, make sure you hit that subscribe button. All right, let's get to these texts. It's like I teach my clients in my Academy. Flirting and pursuing are some of the most powerful ways to absolutely skyrocket her attraction for you. Flirting and pursuing help her see you as a masculine man, a man who's confident and capable and sexy, someone she absolutely adores. And the beautiful thing about these texts that I'm going to be sharing with you is they are excellent for helping you as you pursue and flirt. Text #1 is the sweet thought text. Something simple like, "I just " Wanted to text you real fast and let you know I'm thinking about you." Okay, that right there is adorable. You just let her know that you're thinking about her. Everybody wants to matter. Everybody wants to know somebody's thinking about them, especially that really attractive person that you're totally crushing on. This is a great text for midday or evening. It's a great way to let her know that you're thinking about her without being too overbearing. So again, something simple like, "Just a quick text to let you know I'm thinking about you." The next text is a compliment with a twist. The twist makes it a little more fun and playful and exciting. Something like, "Random thought! Have I ever told you how cute you look when you..." Insert some unique thing that she does. That right there is definitely going to make her day. We all want to know what unique things about us make us interesting and intriguing and adorable. Making it personal and specific shows that you're paying attention, and she is definitely going to notice that. So again, Something like, "Random thought. Have I ever mentioned how cute you look when you..." Fill in the blank. The next text is the inside joke, or a funny moment that the two of you shared together. For instance, something like, "Guess who just saw..." And then insert a reference to something funny that the two of you shared together. Having inside jokes is a great way to build connection and help her feel close to you and like she matters to you. It also helps her see how much you matter to her. Inside jokes help you build rapport and help remind her of the good times you've had together. So anytime you can send a text that kind of hints to an inside joke, that's a really good text to send. And real fast before I forget, I want to make sure you know about and have downloaded my free texting guide. It's full of ready-to-use secrets with 7 proven strategies to captivate any girl. These texting strategies are going to help you so much with the cute texts. That I'm sharing with you in this video, so you need to make sure you download that guide. I'll just put a link in the description below and a link in the pinned comment. This is a resource every man should have. And I will send you awesome tips after because you'll be on my email list. So definitely make sure that you get that guide. Okay, the next text is one of my personal favorites. This text is just the "I wish you were here" text. So let's say you're at an event or an activity of some kind. Maybe you're texting with her a little bit and you just say something like, "Like, this place is awesome. But what would make it even better is if you were here with me." That right there is going to put her on cloud nine. That's the kind of text she's going to remember forever. This is also a great way if, let's say, maybe you're not dating yet, maybe you don't have a relationship, this is a great way to hint that you would enjoy spending time with her. It's a good way to gently pursue, see how she reacts. And if she responds positively to that, it certainly makes it a whole lot easier to ask her out in the future. Now, if you already maybe have a little bit of a relationship and you send a text like this, it also is going to be incredibly special to her because she knows that even when you're not together, you're still thinking about her and she still matters to you. So no matter how you look at it, this is a very good text. So again, just to remind you, something simple like, "This place is awesome! But you know what would make it "Even better is if you were here with me." The next text we're going to talk about is the playful tease. Playful teasing is my favorite thing to do. It really is. That's one reason why I like flirting so much. These are definitely fun topics for me. For instance, "I bet you can't guess what I'm thinking about right now." This text adds a bit of mystery and playfulness that keeps her guessing. It can make the conversation really fun. And, you know, maybe the mystery thing that you're thinking about is you're just thinking about her. That's a really cute follow-up. Or maybe Maybe this can link back to the inside joke that we talked about earlier. Maybe you have an event that you wanna take her to, you're super excited about it, but you send this text first to kind of create that playful mood first. It's a very powerful text that can be used in a million different ways. And it has that playfulness that is very intriguing. This is actually something I talk about in my Academy. Many men are concerned that they have to be stern and solemn all the time. However, playfulness— I'm not talking about childishness, definitely not talking about that, but being a playful, lighthearted person, that's the kind of man that would make a really good husband. So being playful is definitely something that when you can incorporate, go for it! Okay, this next text might sound a little cliché, but it's always talked about for a reason. And that reason is that it can be incredibly effective. This This is the uplifting good morning text. And let's face it, it makes sense why it works. When we care about someone, we're thinking about them first thing in the morning, and we want to know they're thinking about us too. And it can just be something simple like, "Good morning, beautiful! I hope today brings you all the amazing things you deserve." This one is good because you have that compliment, "Hello, beautiful." There's no normal woman on planet Earth who doesn't want to hear "hello, beautiful." It's pretty powerful. And then you just give her some encouragement and good wishes for the day. That is an amazing way to start her day. This also shows some positivity, which is an incredibly attractive trait. As humans, we are drawn to partners who are positive. So showing that positivity is a huge win. The next text is another fun, kind of playful one. And this is the anticipation builder. Something simple like, "I have a surprise for you. Can't wait to show you." And then, like, maybe a wink. This leaves her curious and excited about what's to come. And this is something you can, again, that you can slot into all kinds of different situations. Like, maybe you just got tickets to something the two of you were talking about. Or maybe you picked up her favorite candy bar and you're going to give it to her. It doesn't have to be extravagant, but having that little bit of playfulness builds good rapport, builds a good connection, it makes her excited, and it makes you a very interesting person to text and to talk to. A lot of people wonder why their texts don't go very good, and it's because they're boring. I'm not trying to be rude, it's just the texting is boring. And so having some of this playfulness and flirting is going to go a long way. And again, make sure you download that guide, okay? It's going to help you so much with this. You don't want to be a boring texter. That's like friend zone 101. That's rejection 101. In today's age where texting is so important to our lives, you need to make sure you're doing it in a way that's going to help build that rapport and build that attraction. So download that guide. It's just in the description below, or there's a link in the pinned comment. And a huge thank you to everyone who's so kind with the Super Thanks! Thank you for supporting me. Thank you for supporting wholesome content. And whether you've ever used the Super Thanks before or not, if you want to continue to see content like this, consider using it. It's just next to, like, the like button under this video. Every little bit helps, so thank you. If you have a friend who would like to up his texting game, make sure you share this with him as well. That's actually one of the best things you can do to help support my channel as well, is to share with a friend and comment. The more people we can help, the better. So thank you. Thank you so much again for watching, my amazing friend, and have an amazing day! That was my little pre-video warm-up. You're welcome. So glad we were recording for that. Okay. There's this little annoying thing on my sleeve that I always forget about until I start filming and then it flaps around and it's just dumb. Now, the beautiful part about these texts is they can help you with that pursuing. They can help you with that texting. That texting? Of course they help you with texting. They're texting. That flirting? Okay. Making it personal and specific shows that you're really paying attention and that's good stuff. Can I say that? That sounds so cheesy, but it's true. It's full of ready-to-use secrets with 7 proven— I cannot remember the word— proven. Okay, secret end of the video club! How y'all doing? I'm doing good. Thanks for asking. So as of the time I'm filming this video, it's the day after Halloween. I hope you had a great Halloween. Mine was pretty good. One thing I did is I made potato broccoli soup, and it's like this creamy soup and it's really good. If you follow me on Instagram, you may have seen a super professional video about it. But anyway, so I'm still thinking about this soup because it was so yummy. And so that's what our end of the video word is today. We're gonna go with broccoli because I just think broccoli is a fun word. Don't you think it's a fun word? I also personally love broccoli. I hated it for years, but the secret is to learn how to cook it right. And if you know how to cook it right, which I definitely know how to cook it right, it tastes really good. That was probably more about broccoli than maybe you wanted to know today, but now you know. So if you watched to the end of the video, comment "broccoli" and never forget that you're awesome. And so is broccoli if you cook it right. I need a t-shirt that says "I love broccoli" and then in small text, like in parentheses, "but only if you cook it right." That would be so weird. Anyway, okay, Okay, we're done now. I'm gonna shut up. Okay, bye.










