7 Ways Women Are Flirting With YOU! 😉 (Don't Miss These Playful Signs!)

7 ways women are flirting with you. You don't wanna miss these playful signs. And honestly, some of them are pretty easy to miss until you know about them, and then it's a dead giveaway. Have you ever been in that situation where you're like, "Wait, was she just flirting with me or not?" If she is flirting with you, you don't want to miss your chance by waiting too long to make a move because that just makes her think you're rejecting her. And sometimes you really don't get another chance because she's embarrassed. However, Or if she isn't flirting with you, you don't want to embarrass yourself. So now what? Thankfully, the solution is simple. You can learn the signs that she's flirting with you. And once you know them and start looking for them, they become super obvious. So if you want to know 7 signs she's flirting with you, make sure you keep watching. As we dive in, a huge welcome! My name is Melannie. I'm a Christian dating coach for men and your go-to source to learn how to make attraction, love, connection feel effortless, all without mind games or tricks, because they don't work. So if you're looking for a wholesome, authentic approach to love and relationships, you're definitely in the right place. So make sure you subscribe. And I'm also going to mention this video with 7 signs she likes you where I explain how women pursue men. It's awesome. You've got to see it. There's a link in the description below. Okay, the first sign that she is flirting with you is that she's playful. She teases you. When flirting is done correctly, when it's in an uplifting way instead of a belittling way. Really kind of the core of flirting is being playful and lighthearted and teasing. So if you notice she teases you a lot, she's very playful, it's a good sign she's flirting with you. And I just want to mention this and reinforce this a little bit more. Flirting should never be belittling. There are a lot of people, because it's that's popular in the movies and stuff, who try to make flirting look like belittling someone, being unkind to them, tearing their self-esteem apart. That's not flirting, that's bullying. Let's call it for what it is. So if she is belittling to you and calls it flirting, she's out of line. So do pay attention to that. You don't have to accept that just because she thinks it's acceptable. So Don't accept unkind teasing. But if you recognize that she's playful and lighthearted with you, that's a good sign that it's because she's attracted to you, she's interested in you. All right, our next sign she's flirting with you is kind of a funny one. This is like body language 101 for women. When— and she probably has no idea she's doing this, okay? It's just kind of a gut reaction. When a woman is attracted to a man maybe she's doing a little flirting, she may talk to you over her shoulder. You've seen it in the movies, right? Where she's looking over her shoulder and, like, you know, being flirty and gorgeous and everything. That is something women just kind of naturally do. This is something when I first learned about it I was like, "Oh my goodness, I totally do that!" And I hadn't even recognized it really up to that point. So if you notice, you know, she's saying something a little playful or teasing you or whatever over her shoulder looking back at you, that's a huge sign, body language sign, that she's flirting. Our third sign has to do with chatting online or texting. And this is just that she uses flirty emojis. It can be really easy to just think, "Oh, she's just texting, so she's just sending those emojis." Some people are like that, but Most people know that certain emojis are just more flirtatious than others. I'm talking about things like a wink after she says something, like maybe a compliment, the heart eyes, or like the smiley one with the hearts around them. There are just certain emojis that just have that flirtatious vibe to them. And so if she uses a lot of those with you, it can be a huge sign that, you know, she's trying to drive home what she's saying in a flirtatious way. Like, if she were to just say, like, let's pretend she "Because you're just awesome like that," and a smirk, or "You're just awesome like that," and the heart eyes, okay, that's flirting. If it's, "Well, you're just awesome like that," thumbs up, maybe not flirting. So that's one of the benefits of emojis is they kind of help you explain without explaining what your meaning is. So if you're texting a gal or chatting online and you notice she's using, like, a lot of hearts and stuff, that's a good sign. Sign number 4 that she is flirting with you is that she breaks the touch barrier. One of the most common ways a woman will flirt is the little playful push, or maybe she'll bump up against you, or maybe when she's talking to you she'll put her hand on your arm. If she is breaking that touch barrier, that is a huge sign. Well, you know, when we're attracted to people we want to touch them. That's just how it works. Probably don't have to tell you that. And so if she's doing that in those playful ways or even just in a sincere, "Hey, I'm talking to you," way, it can be a great sign that she's attracted to you, she's flirting with you. And a quick question for you. Do you ever feel like women are just super hard to understand? Do you ever just wish you knew what women are thinking and feeling? It's very common to feel like women are confusing. But it doesn't have to be that way. I created an almost 3-hour course to teach you the signs that a woman is interested in you so you can walk away from that feeling like a master at reading those subtle signals, or not so subtle signals, that she is very attracted to you. And it just so happens that I want to give you 1 week of free access to this training. You can literally go through the entire training in, like, just a couple hours. And I'm giving you access for 1 week. So if you have not yet checked that out, you definitely need to. I will put a link in the description below. This is a fabulous way to understand women better and be able to know when she's attracted to you, often without even having to say anything. So there's a link to claim your 1-week free trial in the description below. All right, our next sign that she is flirting with you. It's kind of an obvious one, but it's definitely worth including because it's so common. This sign is that she compliments you. Now, she may be really forward about her compliments, like, "Hey, you look really handsome!" Most of the time, until you get to know someone better, you're not going to be quite that obvious. So she may just compliment small things like, "Oh, I really like "Hey, I love that color on you," or, "Hey, did you get a haircut? It looks nice." She may compliment one of your traits like, "Oh, I always laugh whenever I'm around you. You have such a great sense of humor," or, "Wow, you're really smart." And when it comes to flirting especially, like I mentioned earlier, it's very playful by nature. She may not come right out and tell you you're attractive. She may just kind of hint that you're attractive. Or just kind of vaguely suggest that you're an attractive man. So if you ever have one of those situations where you're like, "Was she almost complimenting me? Was she trying to compliment me?" Again, as long as it's not belittling. If you have that feeling, well, it could be because she's being playful about it. She doesn't want to come right out and say, "Dude, you're hot," because that— well, she might want to, you know, a little bit. But she's not going to because that usually creeps people out, unless you're in a relationship. An example of a flirty compliment could be something like, "Wow, you look great in that shirt!" Of course, that's no surprise. Now this actually leads us right into the next sign she's flirting with you. And this is that she hints that she's attractive. I don't mean in a needy way, because that's not healthy. But if she thinks you're cute, she wants you to think she's cute too. And so she may present the opportunity for you to mention that she looks cute, or she may try to hint at the fact that, you know, she thinks she looks really cute today because she wants to hear from you that you do in fact think she's cute, you did in fact notice. And so sometimes what can, again, not in a needy way, but what kind of feel like fishing for a compliment, maybe because she wants to know if you like her, she wants to know if you think she's attractive. For instance, she may mention that she has a new outfit and she really likes it, or she did something new with her hair. Just simple ways to make it very easy and convenient for you to say, "It looks great!" Our next sign she's flirting with you is more body language 101. And this is that she may shake her hips when she walks past you. Honestly, it really comes down to she may kind of do anything to try and look more attractive to you. Fix her hair, fix her jewelry. However, it's very common to have her, probably without even knowing it, shake her hips when she walks past you, kind of emphasizing her femininity, wanting to be seen as attractive to you. And yes, Women do this without even recognizing it. It's not uncommon to just be like, "Whoa, he's hot!" and your hips start shaking, rather than, "Ooh, man is hot. I must shake my hips!" Although, you know, some of that could happen too. I have another question for you guys real fast about a video I'm thinking about doing. I feel a little nervous to make it, so I want your input. Please let me know if you're interested in this. I have guys ask me pretty frequently why they will sometimes see the signs that a woman is flirting only to find out she's married. And there are reasons behind this, many of which are probably pretty surprising. I obviously in no way think it's acceptable for a married woman to be flirting. And so I'm nervous to make a video that says, "Why married women flirt with you." However, there's information you guys really need to know. So do you want me to make that video? If you do, please comment "married" to let me know. Yeah, I'm a little nervous about it. So let me know if that's something you're interested in in the comments, please. All right, let's do a quick recap of everything you just learned. 7 signs she's totally flirting with you. Number 1 is that she's playful. She teases you in uplifting ways, not belittling ways. Flirting by nature is very playful. Number 2 She talks over her shoulder to you sometimes. This is a body language thing women just do where she flirts with you over her shoulder. Number 3, she uses flirty emojis when you're texting or chatting online. It's kind of crazy how many people will completely overlook that. If she's using flirty emojis, she's probably flirting. Number 4, she breaks the touch barrier. Maybe she playfully pushes you, maybe she puts her hand on your arm when she's talking, maybe she bumps into you, maybe she hugs you a lot, if she's breaking the touch barrier frequently, it's a fabulous sign that she's totally flirting. Number 5, she compliments you. Maybe sometimes they are bold compliments, maybe sometimes they're a little bit more subtle or simple compliments. Or perhaps she just kind of hints at the fact that, yeah, you're an attractive man. Number 6, She hints that she's attractive. She makes it easy for you to compliment her because, you know, she's kind of hoping that you think she's attractive, that you will compliment her. Number 7, she shakes her hips when she walks past you. Body language 101. A very natural, normal thing women do when they think someone's attractive. And she wants you to think she's attractive as well. I hope you enjoyed these signs. Do you want to feel like an absolute master at reading her signals? And her signs. If you do, I have made it incredibly easy for you. You're going to love this course. Again, you get 1 week of free access. It's almost a 3-hour course. It's amazing. There's a link in the description below. Make sure you check it out while you can. Thank you so much for watching, my amazing friend! Please make sure you share this with a friend. And if you don't yet follow me on social media, there are links in the description below. I've been sharing some really fun stuff in my stories, on Facebook and Instagram, so make sure you especially follow me there. Thank you so much again, my amazing friend, and have an amazing day! 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