9 (Non-Physical) Things That Make Men HOT 😏

Let's talk about 9 non-physical things that make men really hot. I've got a big surprise for you. Pay close attention. Attraction is actually very simple. Sometimes we feel like it's ridiculously complicated. Have you ever felt that way? Thankfully, attraction is not about getting it just right. It's not about pretending to be someone you're not or playing a certain kind of mind game to keep her interested. None of that is actual authentic attraction. It's honestly like I teach in my Academy. People like people who make them feel good. And a woman who is looking for a lifelong relationship, a woman who is loyal and feminine and loving and wants a deep connection, she wants a good partner just like you do. That makes sense, right? So we're going to be going over some of the non-physical things that show her you're a great partner and that make her heart crave you. Sound good? Are you with me? All right, let's do this. Honestly, the best part about this is as a Christian dating coach, you know that what I teach will have nothing to do with mind games or tricks. I only ever share with you the science of attraction and how you can master it. So by the way, if you haven't yet, make sure you hit that subscribe button. So let's get started with the 9 non-physical things men do that are super hot. These are all things I teach in my Academy, and they have worked wonders in the lives of my clients as they apply them. Number 1 is to have a good attitude. Have you ever known a girl or gone out with a girl or, hopefully not, ever dated a girl who just doesn't have a good attitude? She kind of brings the energy down, maybe she's a little bit negative in the comments she makes or the things she focuses on. Being around someone like that is ridiculously draining. It's not fun at at all. However, have you ever been around a girl who lifts the mood? She just, she lifts your spirits. You just feel better when you're around her. Just like you want to be around someone who makes you feel uplifted and energized, she wants that as well. Now, energizing does not mean you have to be like this Energizer Bunny by any means. As a matter of fact, being too hyper can actually sometimes drain your energy. But if instead you're someone who has just a good attitude about life, you choose, because yes, it is a choice, you choose to have a good attitude about things that are happening, about yourself, about the situation, whatever it is, if you're that person, that is so ridiculously attractive. Again, people like people who make them feel good. And we feel so amazing around people who have a good attitude. The next thing is kind of similar to this. This attractive thing is when you make other people feel comfortable around you. Can you imagine spending your life with someone who always made you feel uncomfortable? That doesn't make any sense, right? But there are honestly people who are in relationships like that and they're miserable. However, when you're just somebody who understands how to make others feel comfortable, oh my goodness, you have something that is truly irresistible. Something that a lifelong partner wants. And of course, the way you make someone feel comfortable around you is by the way you interact with them and how you talk to them and what you talk about. It's very simple things that just make people feel like being around you is amazing. If you have seen this video that popped up somewhere on the screen here, I'm not actually sure where, if you've seen this video, then this this attractive thing might sound a little bit familiar. And by the way, if you haven't seen it, there is a link in the description below. This attractive thing that men do is when you make her feel safe emotionally with you, that emotional security. If we're going to spend our lives with someone, we have to know that it's safe to be ourselves, it's safe to be vulnerable. And one of the main things a woman's feminine heart craves from a man is safety and security, that protection from you. And so if you're someone who makes her feel safe emotionally, that's a big deal. Well, and obviously physically. Making her feel safe is a game changer. And the best part is a woman who does feel safe with you knows that she can shower you with feminine affection. The next non-physical thing that makes a man incredibly attractive is when you want to be the best version of yourself and you're proactive about that. Let me ask you this. Would you want to date a woman who was just like, "This is as good as it gets, boy. As a matter of fact, it may only just get worse from here." That does not sound like a good relationship, right? However, what if you could find and marry a woman who was always trying to better herself? She was always trying to be a better partner. She was always trying to be as attractive as possible for you. She was always trying to increase your connection and build your love. Would you want to be around a woman like that? Of course you would, right? Well, women feel the same way about men. As a matter of fact, this one trait, it makes you stand out like nothing else. It truly makes you exceptional. So when you're someone who wants to be the best version of yourself and you're willing to do that, that is huge. Especially in a world where many people just honestly aren't willing to do that. Kind of a lazy society sometimes. So make sure you are always looking for new ways to improve. You're always learning new things. We never reach the top where we just no longer need to learn. Part of being here on planet Earth is that we can always learn more, we can always improve, and that's an exciting adventure. This will naturally lead you to being a better partner. And by the way, this is a great place for me to mention my new free guide. Yeah, I know I've been sharing a lot of free guides with you lately, believe. And you guys are loving them, and I'm loving sharing them with you. So this one is on 11 Things Men Do That Make Women Melt. And let me just say, it's the perfect addition to what you're learning in this video. And it will help you remember these good principles. So do you want to captivate women easily? And do you want to make that special girl feel butterflies every time she's around you? If you're nodding your head yes, then you need this guide. I'll put a link in the description below and a link in the pinned comment to where you can get that. All you have to do is just enter your email. I will email it straight to you, and you've got it. The next non-physical thing that makes you super attractive is when you are a good listener. Never ever underestimate the power of this simple thing. This is kind of a fun attractive trait because you can learn it really fast and it's incredibly powerful. Everybody wants to feel heard and understood. Right? You want that as well. In a world where everybody's always looking at their phone, being someone who actually listens makes you stand out in the best way possible. It makes you exceptional. And that's exactly how you want her to feel about you, right? Okay, the next non-physical thing that's super attractive is one of my personal favorites. And this is that you step into your masculinity and you pursue pursue her. Now, there are many reasons why this is attractive. Like, for instance, confidence and showing leadership. It also provides a sense of stability and security. Women are naturally drawn to men who can make them feel safe, both emotionally and physically. This is why I weave masculine pursuing into so much of my Academy. My Attracting Lasting Love Academy is my signature program. That's where you go when you want results in your love life and you want them fast. Now doors to enrolling in that Academy are currently closed. However, I'm going to be opening them soon, so make sure you pay attention. Keep your eyes on my channel, on my email list, and on my social media so you don't miss it. Because it will only be open for a limited time and then the doors will close again. Unfortunately, I'm just not able to keep it open all the time anymore. Now another benefit of embracing your masculinity and pursuing her is what it does to you. Embracing your masculinity allows you to be your authentic, true self. Authenticity is attractive because it creates a genuine connection and builds trust. All right, this next non-physical thing that makes men attractive is one of the most important, so pay attention. You ready? This thing is that you stay morally clean. In a world that says you need to sleep with as many women as possible in order to be attractive, that's probably not what you expected to hear today. It is true nonetheless. And one of the main reasons why is a woman who is looking for a lifelong love wants to know that you want to be with her and only with her. The only women who care about a man having lots of practice with other women is a woman who only cares about what happens in bed and then she's gone. So being someone who is morally clean should be your top priority. And if it hasn't been your top priority, that's okay. We have a Savior because we make mistakes. But the point is to start today to change that. So it's not like you've blown your love life and you can never have that love now. However, you need to start today, okay? Start living that morally clean life today. The next non-physical thing that's ridiculously attractive is when you're someone who's intellectual. As humans, we are attracted to fascinating people. We love to be fascinated. And many people put a huge emphasis on being mysterious. The truth is mystery can be appealing for a limited amount of time, and then it just kind of becomes stale because there's no closeness there. However, if you are someone who is fascinating, that is an attraction that never dies. And being intellectual doesn't necessarily have anything to do with the amount of schooling you have. For instance, I think we've all probably met someone who's not particularly fun to talk to who has a lot of schooling. And there are people who have very little schooling who know how to learn and they're fascinated by life, and so they are intellectual. So when you are someone who knows how to think things through, you're interested in the world and learning, you're informed, you have your own opinion, these are all things that make you a fascinating person, an interesting person. You have life experiences, and that is very attractive. And I saved the best thing for last. You ready for this? The next non-physical thing that makes you ridiculously attractive is when you take your relationship with God seriously. Let's pretend for just a second that you need to cross a large body of water and you have the option to get in one of two boats. The owner of the first boat is going to do their best, but they have no idea how to navigate. The second person knows how to navigate. Well, which boat are you going to get into? You're going to get into the one who knows how to navigate, right? This is what it's like to be in a relationship with someone who has a serious relationship with God. Now, I'm not talking about somebody who calls themselves Christian and is not. We've all known people like that. Okay? Trust me, I've known people like that. I'm talking about someone who takes their relationship with God seriously. It becomes our anchor. It's— we always, even when life is throwing crazy things at us, we still know where to turn. Just like someone who's navigating a boat knows to turn to the stars or to turn to the compass. So just like you would want to get into the boat that would take you there safely and happily, that's one of the reasons why marrying someone who makes God a priority in their lives is so critical. Knowing that you're spending your life with someone who knows how to draw closer to God, someone who has integrity, someone who has values and standards is critical. This is one way we know that this person will always be loyal to us. Because if you love God and you're loyal to God, you would never lower yourself to the point of cheating on your partner. So being in a relationship with someone who has integrity and wants to do what's right no matter what popular opinion is, is like riding in the boat with someone who knows how to navigate. This applies for both men and women. So if you want a woman who's close to God, you need to make sure you're taking your relationship with God seriously. And the best part is, again, this is something that you can start doing today. And a little personal here, this isn't— I usually don't get personal on here, but I can tell you that that is personally the best decision I've ever made, is to make my relationship with God, my relationship with my Savior, my top priority. That influences everything else in my life. And I can tell you, the closer I get to God, the happier I get. Does that mean my life is, is perfect? Absolutely not. I have been through my share of hard times and I still have hard things I'm working through that never get mentioned on social media. However, making God the priority in your life is the most important and most rewarding thing you can ever do. That is the source of the joy in my life. Thank you so much for watching, my amazing friend! As we wrap up this video, don't forget to download that free guide with 11 Things Men Do That Make Women Melt. 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Like, it was so bad. Thankfully, you know, we were able to get it under control pretty fairly fast. But it was a bad thing. Apparently the pollen was affecting me. That's never happened in my life, but it did last weekend. So that was fun. So the word for the end of the— it wasn't fun. The word for the end of the video today is tomato. Because, you know, if we can't laugh about it, what good did it do us? So if you watched to the end, comment tomato, and never forget that you're amazing!