9 Things Men Have No Idea Women Notice About Them 😉

Did you know that women are constantly noticing things about you that you have no idea about? And some of them can make you instantly more or less attractive. Have you ever had a woman seem really into you, but you had no idea why? Or on the flip side, maybe you had a woman lose interest and you have no idea what went wrong. The truth is women pick up on things about you that you don't even realize you're doing. And today I'm pulling back the curtain to reveal exactly what those things are and how you can use them to your advantage. So if you've ever wondered what's going on in a woman's mind when she's looking at you, stick around. Because I'm about to reveal the surprising things women pick up on that most men miss. And I do have a bonus tip for you at the end, so make sure you stay and see that one. If this is your first time watching one of my videos, welcome! If you're looking for a wholesome, authentic approach to love, you are in the right place. Let's get started now with the things that women notice about you that you probably don't even notice. The first one is your tone of voice. A confident, calm, and warm voice is much more attractive than a nervous or monotone voice. But our tone of voice definitely affects how people feel around us and how they perceive us. Women also notice things like if you talk too fast or if you mumble. Have you ever tried to talk to somebody who mumbles? It's very difficult sometimes to hold a conversation with them. So the way you talk as well as the tone is something she's going to pay attention to. And you want your tone of voice to signal that you are confident, that you are warm, and that you are calm. Another thing women notice that many men may not realize is your eyes. I'm not just talking about the color of your eyes, although of course she's going to notice that as well, but the kind of eyes, the type of eyes you have. I've talked to women before and We say things like, "Oh, he just has such kind eyes," or, "He has just gentle eyes." The eyes are the window to the soul. And we can tell if somebody is cold by their eyes. We can tell if they're gentle, if they're kind through their eyes. It's great to aim to have eyes that are warm and friendly and gentle. Another one of my favorite tips when it comes to the eyes is to smile with your eyes. We feel so drawn to people who smile with their eyes. I'm gonna try to demonstrate this for you. I've tried this a few times before and it feels very awkward. For many people, smiling with your eyes comes very naturally. I kind of feel like I was born doing that to a certain extent. But for many people, it doesn't come as naturally. That's okay. Practice it. I'm going to try to show you the difference. So if you— this is hard for me— if you try and smile without your eyes, It doesn't look as engaging. But if you smile with your eyes and engage your eyes and let the happiness of the smile flood to your eyes, it's a very, very engaging kind of smile, and it makes your eyes that much more irresistible. So feel free to stand in front of the mirror and practice smiling with your eyes. Another thing women notice about you is your passions, your hobbies, your interests. These things tell her a lot about you. I remember one time years A neighbor wanted to set me up with someone she knew. And I did what many girls do. I got on, you know, social media, and I was trying to figure out what kind of a guy this was. And his hobbies were such that I went, "No, I'm not interested. And, you know, no hard feelings. I just don't want to go there." She's going to pay attention to the kinds of things you like. But it even goes past this. Sometimes it's not an "Ooh, I don't want to be involved in that." Sometimes it's an "Oh my goodness, I love these things too!" And so she's more attracted to you. When a woman is interested in you, she wants to know what you're interested in, what you're passionate about. And when she's attracted to you, those things tend to become even more interesting to her. Like, let's say you enjoy playing the guitar. Even if she has never really thought about the guitar before in her life, if she's attracted to you, suddenly it's like a radar goes on in her brain and now now it becomes very interesting. She starts noticing things about it more. Something I teach my clients in my Academy is that being an interesting person is irresistibly attractive. So being someone who has passions and hobbies and interests is a good thing. And even if she doesn't necessarily say anything about it, she's going to be paying attention and she's going to be picking up on what interests you. Number 4 is your posture. Women are instantly going to pick up on whether you stand tall or slouch. Good posture signals confidence and strength. Fidgeting, avoiding eye contact, crossing your arms, these are all things that can make you appear nervous or closed off. So paying attention to your posture is a big game changer. This also goes for the way you walk. You know, do you walk all slouched over, or do you walk with confidence? Now I actually have the perfect tool to help you with this. Because if you're not in the habit of having good posture, it can be a little challenging. I have a 5-minute confidence-boosting exercise that is going to rock your world where I quickly walk you through the best confident body language that you can use whenever you want to just boost your confidence. But it also helps you have that attractive posture. So you're going to feel more attractive and you're going to look more attractive and you're going to feel more confident, which will automatically make you more attractive. So it's a win no matter how you look at it. I share this confidence-boosting exercise with you in my free masterclass. Just go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass. It's super easy. You just enter your email and your name, and I send you a link to it. So if you haven't done that yet, you need to do it. I'll put a link in the description below and a link in the pinned comment. This is a tool you can literally use for the rest of your life. I love sharing this with you. So again, coachmelannie.com/masterclass. And honestly, there's a whole bunch of other good stuff in there too. But you'll find out about that when you go to the page. I'll tell you all about it. The next thing might sound a little silly, but let me explain it, okay? This thing that women totally notice about you is whether or not you actually have a heart. Let me explain. You can tell if someone is kind and gentle by nature or not. You can tell if somebody is kind-hearted or cold-hearted. She can tell these things by the way you react to the world around you, how you treat her, obviously, but how you treat others, animals, children, those who are assisting you. A great example is retail or waiters and waitresses. The way you act, she is going to notice. She is going to pick up on, "Oh, wow, what a kind man," or, "Wow, this guy's kind of a jerk." Some people are like, "I can't figure out why she pulled away," and it's like, well, maybe that's why. That's not always the reason why. So if you're like, "Hey, I'm kind and that happens to me," I'm not talking about you. But it's kind of hysterical how many people don't realize that who you are on the inside is what truly matters. It doesn't care if you're the hottest thing on planet Earth. If she has half a brain, which some of them don't, but if she does have half a brain, she's not going to want to be with a guy who looks amazing but acts like a jerk. So if you're looking for someone with, you know, a brain, then it's important to be a good, kind person. Okay, the next thing women notice about men that you don't even realize you're doing is she notices what you do with your arms and your hands, how you position them. For instance, in body language, when someone crosses their arms, it makes them appear very closed off and not friendly. Now, yes, when I say arms, she probably notices the shape of your arms. But you probably know that already, and, you know, it's It's definitely a fun thing she wants to notice. Part of this, again, back to the crossing your arms or not, is she notices if you have open body language or not. Are you somebody who's closed off and turned away, or are you someone who's warm and inviting and approachable? And that confidence-building exercise I mentioned in my free masterclass is going to help you with this a ton. Another thing, when we're going through body language in my Academy, one of my favorite tips is— I don't know if you can see this in frame, But if you don't know what to do with your hands, because sometimes you're like, "I don't know what to do with my hands," one, you can just relax them and it's okay if you feel a little awkward, but you can also move into a steeple position. This is confidence. Now, you won't hold it up this high. I'm just trying to show you. You can hold it about, you know, your waistline, your beltline, something like that. But if your hands— and it can be pointed down. But if your hands are in a steeple, this speaks confidence. For instance, you probably can't tell, but when I'm presenting, I will usually open my arms and talk and then come back to the steeple. Open my hands and talk, back to the steeple. If you're ever in a situation where you need to feel confident and you need people to perceive you as confident, go to the steeple. But don't hit your microphone, okay? So if you don't know what to do with your hands, go to the steeple. Not like this. That looks like you're praying, which is a very confident thing and awesome thing, but it might be a little weird walking down the street. Not that you can't pray while you're walking down the street. It's just, you know, you usually try to be subtle about it. I don't know. Never mind. This leads us to the next thing women notice about you that you don't even realize, and that is just your hands. A lot of men don't recognize that women actually find strong, perhaps calloused hands very attractive. Hands that look like they work, like they know how to put in hard work. That's very attractive to many women. It makes you appear more masculine and protective, the protecting and providing bit. And so don't worry if your hands don't look like baby perfect, because that actually is weird to a lot of women. Yes, absolutely have good hygiene because she will notice that. If like your nails are dirty or your nails aren't well kept, she's going to notice that and that's going to be gross. And yes, make sure that you use lotions and things to keep them from getting too dry. That's something I actually struggle with. I have my entire life. I don't know why. So I feel the pain of needing constant lotion. But don't be ashamed if you're a hard worker and your hands show it. That's a very attractive thing to many women. The next thing women instantly notice about you is whether you actually listen or if you're just waiting to talk, waiting for your turn to talk. She can instantly tell if she's trying to chat with you, she's trying to connect with you, and you're just waiting for your turn. Or if you're actually listening to her. And the feeling of an attractive, strong, masculine man actually listening to you is magical. Everyone wants to feel listened to and understood. This is true for her as well. The men who know how to listen and help her feel understood have a very special kind of superpower. And remembering the small details that she shares earn you major points. So like, if you, because you are listening to the conversation, you learn her favorite band or her favorite color or something and you mention it later on, that is huge. Next up, and one of the most important, is that she notices your vibe. Your overall vibe and the feeling around you. Women definitely pick up on whether you seem relaxed and positive and confident or stressed out, bitter, and negative. Happy people are truly irresistible. Negative people tend to push people away. As a coach who has been doing this for many years at this point, this is one of the single most important things I see that keeps people single who don't need to be single anymore. This is the big obstacle in their path, is having a bitter attitude. Or a negative attitude rather than choosing to focus on the positive. Your outlook on life and your attitude will either make you irresistible or unattractive. Now, this obviously does not mean that you don't live in reality. We have to live in reality. And, you know, we should kind of want to. However, it means that you always have a choice of what you're going to focus on. What we focus on is how we feel. So are you going to focus on the negative and the bitter, or are you going to focus on the positive? Because there's always both sides to the coin. Which one are you going to look at? We choose how we view the world. Again, something I teach my clients in my Academy is what we focus on is how we feel. So focus on positivity. And that's a skill that It sometimes takes a minute to learn, but we can absolutely learn it. Okay, my friend, are you ready for the bonus tip? The bonus thing about men that women definitely notice. This one is one that I felt like some people might think is super obvious, but it's so important I still wanted to add it in this video. Women notice the little details about how you dress. Whether you put intention into how you dress or you just throw something on. If you're someone who's sophisticated enough to know how to look nice or if you're not. She's going to notice if your clothes fit well, if your shoes are clean. She's going to notice if you dress appropriately for the occasion. Like, showing up for a date in gym shorts is just a bad move, okay? Unless you're, you know, you're like going to the gym or something like that. A man who takes the time to learn about personal style and puts thought and intent into the way he dresses will automatically stand out. Period. So if you want to be someone who stands out, this is definitely something you want to pay attention to. Thank you so much for watching, my amazing friend! I hope you enjoyed this video. 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The truth is women— Now it's a joke. I can't stop. Okay. Okay, secret end of the video club. So I have another story for you. I keep thinking it's gonna be summer and it's not. It keeps snowing. So I have been putting off getting the tires changed on my car. And I couldn't do it anymore because I would come to, like, a stop, but my car wouldn't stop. So I decided to get my tires changed today, and I was like, a whole new world. I was like, oh my goodness, is this what tires are supposed to feel like? This is amazing. So I'm a little embarrassed I let it get that bad because I didn't realize how bad it was. To be fair, Sure, when you work from home, you don't have to go places that often. So anyway, this long awkward story is to lead us to the word of the day, which is "tyres." There you go. Clever, right? I know. So thank you so much for being here, and I will see you in the next one!