Coach MelannieDating and relationship coach for single Christian men

ALL Women Notice THIS About Men... 😉 #datingcoachformen

8 Jul 2025 · 1 min

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In this monologue, the speaker argues that women are highly attuned to whether a man possesses a kind heart, which they gauge by observing how he treats not only them but also others such as service staff, animals, and children. He provides retail and waiter scenarios as concrete examples, emphasizing that a man's inner character—kindness versus coldness—leaves a stronger impression than physical appearance. The speaker critiques men who rely solely on looks, noting that even women with limited intellect will reject a handsome but rude man. The core advice is for men to cultivate genuine kindness and gentle behavior as the primary factor in attracting and retaining a partner.

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The next thing might sound a little silly, but let me explain it, okay? This thing that women totally notice about you is whether or not you actually have a heart. Let me explain. You can tell if someone is kind and gentle by nature or not. You can tell if somebody is kind-hearted or cold-hearted. She can tell these things by the way you react to the world around you. How you treat her, obviously, but how you treat others, animals, children, those who are assisting you. A great example is retail, or waiters and waitresses, the way you act, she is going to notice. She is going to pick up on, "Oh, wow, what a kind man!" Or, "Wow, this guy's kind of a jerk." Some people are like, "I can't figure out why she pulled away." And it's like, well, maybe that's why. That's not always the reason why. So if you're like, "Hey, I'm kind and that happens to me," I'm not talking about you. But it's kind of hysterical how many people don't realize that who you are on the inside is what truly matters. It doesn't care if you're the thing on planet Earth, if she has half a brain, which some of them don't, but if she does have half a brain, she's not going to want to be with a guy who looks amazing but acts like a jerk. So if you're looking for someone with, you know, a brain, then it's important to be a good, kind person.