Overthinking around women reads as nervous and hesitant, and women pick up on it instantly through body language. The longer you wait to approach, the lower your chances. Take a breath and move without analyzing.
Overthinking can make you seem nervous and unsure of yourself. Also, when you get in your head, you tend to just overanalyze everything and you kind of just feel paralyzed. Have you ever done that before? Hesitation can kill the moment, make her think you're not interested, and cause her to move on. Here's a little bit of a secret. It's kind of crazy. Women— research shows us this over and over again— women tend to naturally be better at reading body language than men. This means she thinks she is incredibly obvious about the fact that she's interested. And then if you don't pick up on that and you don't make a move, it's like pure rejection to her. Not to mention, we both know that the longer you wait, the less likely you are to, like, actually make a move, right? We get in our heads as humans and we psych ourselves out. So what do you do instead? Take a deep breath and approach her confidently.
