Melannie Gregersen explores how standing out from the crowd affects attraction. She argues that masculine and feminine energy differences are what actually drive who we're drawn to, not just being unique for its own sake.
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The first thing you need to know is that women are different than men. I know what you're thinking, "Duh! Of course they are!" However, we totally forget to take this into consideration in dating and relationships. We kind of expect each other to act the way we would. And it's kind of funny when you think about it because a lot of the reason why we're attracted to each other is because of our differences. Here's the deal. Masculine and feminine energy crave each other. They're irresistible to each other. It's exciting! Have you ever noticed that when a girl acts more feminine, you're more drawn to her? She feels the same way when she sees you as a masculine man.