A partner who explodes emotionally during conflict won't sustain a healthy relationship. The speaker argues that calm, confident people who can work through issues are the ones who add real value to your life.
When you're in a relationship, there are things you're gonna have to discuss, things you're going to have to work through. And if she's someone who just emotionally explodes, it's not going to work. But if instead she can be calm and confident and work through things, that is somebody who truly adds value to your life, right? Can I get an amen in the comments?
