Melannie Gregersen recommends having casual small talk with someone before asking them out. She teaches this approach in her Academy to help clients build comfortable conversations first.
Sometimes we think somebody's super hot and then we start talking to them and we go, "Um, never mind." And so rather than having, you know, kind of committing to a date before you get to that point, it's a good idea to just kind of chat with her. And even if you are in a situation where maybe you'll never see this girl again, it's incredibly helpful to have some of that small talk and interact with her a little bit first. This is something in my Academy I teach my clients how to create that atmosphere where you can you can easily have that conversation with her even if you're just standing in line at a restaurant waiting for your food. And as you do that, it helps both of you and makes the date a whole lot better if you do go on a date.
