Before marriage, make sure your life goals actually align with your partner's. She uses an example: one person wants to raise kids in their hometown, the other dreams of traveling the world. Both goals are fine, but they don't work together. Talk about what you actually want.
In addition to just making sure they actually have goals, it's important to make sure your goals align. An example would be, for some people, their goal is they love their hometown and they, they love the community there, and one of their goals is to raise their children in their hometown. Somebody else's goal may be to travel the world. Two good people that have two good goals, but they're not necessarily going to work together. So there's absolutely nothing wrong with this as a test. It's actually very smart. Which again, I don't even really like calling it a test. It's just smart. So how do you pass this test? Well, you're just honest with her. You're just honest about what your goals are. Make sure you actually have some, and just be honest about it.
