Acting aloof or cool in dating backfires and reads as arrogant. Instead, treat people as equals, hold steady eye contact, and project protective qualities that build respect and trust. That's what actually attracts someone looking for something real.
There are a lot of people who try to make it sound like acting like you're cooler than everybody else is what's actually attractive. What it really does is it makes people think you're a jerk, okay? Unless of course she's toxic and a drama queen, then yeah, maybe she'll like the challenge, but only until the challenge is over and then she moves on. That's why that only tends to work with girls who are looking for flings or who are looking to manipulate. If instead you look people in the eye and you treat people like they are your equal, that right there is the kind of That's the kind of man people will respect. That's the kind of man she feels safe with. And she feels like you're masculine and protective and someone she can trust. Add that to the added benefit of that attraction that can increase with eye contact, and, uh, yes, that's a very attractive sign.
