Coach MelannieDating and relationship coach for single Christian men

Don't Let Women Do This To You! 😅 #datingadvice

27 Feb 2024 · 1 min

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In this segment of her dating‑advice video, Melannie Gregersen warns men against becoming the primary source of a woman’s self‑esteem. She explains that many people mistakenly believe that a romantic relationship or compliments from a partner will boost their self‑worth. Gregersen argues that true self‑esteem must be cultivated internally, not outsourced to another person. She urges listeners to avoid positioning themselves as the linchpin of a woman’s confidence, emphasizing that healthy relationships are built on mutual respect rather than dependence on external validation.

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Okay, the next thing you should never do for a woman is become the reason she has self-esteem. Sometimes this can be really easy to do. Men can do this as well, but obviously we're talking about women here. Sometimes we try and rely on another person for our self-esteem rather than creating that within ourselves. At the end of the day, so many people think, "If I have a relationship, then I'll feel good about myself," or, "If he just tells me I'm pretty enough, then I'll feel good about myself," or whatever it is something about another person will make me happy. In reality, self-esteem is something we have to get ourselves.