DON'T Put Her On A Pedestal! (Do THIS Instead! 😉) #datingadvice

Okay, the next key strategy to stop being the nice guy and become the total heartthrob really goes hand in hand with the one we just talked about. This key strategy is confidence. She wants a partner, an equal partner, not a servant. She wants someone that she's on the same page with. The problem with putting someone on a pedestal is that they have to look down. There's nowhere else they can look. If they're gonna look at you, they've got to look down. Even if she doesn't want to look down at you, if you've put her up on that pedestal, she's got no choice but to look down. So does this mean that you start acting cold, you pull away, you break all contact? Of course not. That's not confidence. That's immaturity. Instead, you build your self-confidence and you show that confidence to others. Confidence is one of the single most attractive traits any man can have.