Coach MelannieDating and relationship coach for single Christian men

DON'T Say This To A Girl... 😅

1 Aug 2023 · 1 min

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In this monologue, the speaker advises men on how to avoid making women feel awkward or unsafe during early dating interactions. The core message is to steer clear of "wolf" behavior—overly aggressive, predatory, or overly sexual advances—especially with women who seek a stable, loving relationship. The speaker illustrates the point with an example: commenting on a woman's attractive legs while she is wearing a summer dress is acceptable later in a relationship, but doing so too early can make her feel objectified, unsafe, and perceive the speaker as creepy. The advice emphasizes waiting until the relationship has progressed before making overtly sexual or physical compliments, thereby fostering comfort and trust.

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Remember what I just mentioned? If you make her feel awkward or if you make her feel unsafe in any way, that's what makes you creepy to her. So basically, you want to avoid sounding like a wolf. Okay? Unless she's a toxic girl and loves drama, then she's gonna like it, but that's the last kind of person you want to be in a relationship with. A good woman who wants forever love, who wants to love you and only you, doesn't want a wolf. So an example I've mentioned before and I'll mention again is let's pretend she's wearing a pretty summer dress. Okay, and you happen to notice that her legs look really nice. Nothing wrong with that. And, you know, when your relationship is to a certain point, you can point that out. But if you tell her that too soon, she's gonna go, "Whoa, he just wants something from me. I feel unsafe. I feel really awkward. I don't know what to say," and you're going to appear creepy. So instead, don't tell her she has sexy legs right now, okay? Wait until that's later on in the relationship.