Coach MelannieDating and relationship coach for single Christian men

DON'T tell her you like her!! ❌ #shorts

17 Jan 2023 · 1 min

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In this YouTube short, the speaker advises against revealing romantic feelings to a woman too early in a relationship. He argues that premature emotional disclosure can violate a person's emotional boundaries, especially for women, and can come across as creepy or intimidating. By sharing feelings before a genuine emotional connection is established, the speaker claims it can scare the woman and hinder the development of a healthy relationship. The overall message is to wait until a closer emotional bond forms before expressing love or deep affection.

Chapters

Number 1 is telling her you have feelings for her too soon. I think this kind of started like way back in school where it's like, "Dude, you like her! You have to go tell her you like her!" No, no, no, no, you don't have to do that. As a matter of fact, you shouldn't do that too soon. It creeps her out really bad. As humans, we have emotional boundaries just like we have physical boundaries. And when someone who is not yet close to us emotionally, acts like they're close to us emotionally, it totally creeps us out. It freaks us out, especially women. So when you ask her out by telling her that you love her, or when you let her know that you've had feelings for her for a really long time before you're actually dating and getting ready to be in a serious relationship, when you are telling her too soon that you have feelings for her, it is scaring her to death.