Coach MelannieDating and relationship coach for single Christian men

👉 DON'T Tell Her You Like Her (Yet!) #flirting

5 Sept 2023 · 1 min

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In this short advice video, the speaker warns men that declaring strong romantic feelings too early can scare a woman away. She explains that early flirting serves as a casual, low‑pressure way for both people to become comfortable with each other and to test whether attraction and chemistry develop naturally. By keeping interactions light and playful, the pressure on both parties is reduced, allowing a relationship to grow more organically.

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A lot of men don't know this, but one of the worst ways to creep a girl out is to tell her you have feelings for her too soon, especially if it's in a really intense kind of way. One of the reasons why flirting works so well at the beginning of the relationship, and obviously it should continue through the entire relationship, but one of the reasons why it works so well at the beginning is because it's a casual way for you both to kind of get used to the idea and see if the attraction and the chemistry grow from there. It takes a lot of pressure off of both of you. Thank you.