👉DON'T WAIT To Ask Her Out!
4 Aug 2023 · 1 min

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Melannie Gregersen explains why waiting too long to ask someone out backfires. Delay signals disinterest, pushes you toward the friend zone, and can make the moment feel awkward or creepy instead.

Melannie Gregersen explains why waiting too long to ask someone out backfires. Delay signals disinterest, pushes you toward the friend zone, and can make the moment feel awkward or creepy instead.
Okay, the next way to show interest without being creepy might sound a little funny at first, so let me explain. Don't wait too long to ask her out. Now, this goes for texting as well as in person. The last thing you want is for her to start questioning if you're even interested at all. And that's what puts you into the friend zone. When she's like, "Well, maybe we're just texting buddies. Maybe he's not actually interested." And so even if she does have feelings of attraction for you, Well, it's not gonna go anywhere, she thinks, and so she's very likely to just lose interest. And then if you wait too long to ask her out, that's what makes it feel kind of awkward and creepy, and now she doesn't really know what to do with it. So you don't want to wait too long.