A guy argues that being nice doesn't mean being boring or unattractive. He says you can learn flirting, charisma, and confident body language while staying genuinely kind, and that this shift in mindset makes you more appealing to women.
Another thing that frequently comes to people's minds when they hear "nice guy" is someone who's plain, someone who's unattractive. And if you take on that identity, "Oh, I'm just a nice guy who's unattractive," dude, it's going to be a lot harder to attract women. This is why it's so empowering to learn how to flirt, to learn how to be charismatic with her, to learn how to position your body language, all of these attractive things that you can totally have and rock while still being a nice person. So if the definition in your head is, "To be a nice guy, I need to be plain and unattractive and just kind of the whole guy next door vibe," be the sexy guy next door. You get to decide who you want to be. So shift that mindset a little bit. Is that making sense? So if we're talking about that meaning of being too nice, yes, that's going to make dating and attracting a woman very, very difficult. But if we instead take this new definition of a nice guy, things change pretty quickly.
