Melannie Gregersen argues that physical attraction and sex appeal matter in Christian dating and can be expressed within chastity. She says partners need to be genuinely attracted to each other for real intimacy.
The fact is most nice guys are so focused on being nice that they never focus on being attractive. And again, if you've been following me for a while, you know physical attraction isn't everything, but it's definitely something. It's definitely important. It's something we need. Again, sex appeal is not a sin. You can be chaste and be completely appropriate, avoiding creating lust while still having sex appeal. It's a beautiful, glorious gift from God, not something that should be avoided. For instance, you should never marry a woman that you don't want to be intimate with. And she should never marry a man she doesn't want to be intimate with. So it's important to have that appeal. And again, you can do that completely appropriately. And if you're not sure how to do that, that is something I walk you through in detail in my Academy.
